I was looking for a book to help my husband understand what I was going through and some of the terminology that was beig used. I googled this and found a book "Breast Cancer Husband: How to Help Your Wife Through Diagnosis, Surgery and Beyond". It took a while before my husband read it but when he did he said that it was like the words and questions were coming from his own mouth. It was written by a man whose own wife had breast cancer and he interviewed many couples. Just an FYI for anyone whose husband, like mine, expects you to hold all the answers to the questions he has. I read it my self and found it to be very good.It is written by Marc Silver.