Has anyone heard anything about Hollyberry?

bluerose
bluerose Member Posts: 1,104
edited March 2014 in Emotional Support #1
I haven't heard anything about Holly for sometime now, has anyone got an update on how she is doing? Thanks. Blessings, Bluerose

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  • MichelleP
    MichelleP Member Posts: 254
    #2
    Blue
    no....I haven't hard anything. I hope all is okay :(
  • slickwilly
    slickwilly Member Posts: 334 Member
    #3
    MichelleP said:

    Blue
    no....I haven't hard anything. I hope all is okay :(

    Holly Berry
    Hi Blue. I have not heard anything. And please send me a letter and let me know how your doing. Slickwilly
  • bluerose
    bluerose Member Posts: 1,104
    #4
    slickwilly said:

    Holly Berry
    Hi Blue. I have not heard anything. And please send me a letter and let me know how your doing. Slickwilly

    Will send one later today Slickster
    Oh man when I saw your post under the headings, since I haven't seen you post in awhile, I thought that Holly had gone. I know it's close but still the final news will be hard no matter what. I will send you a letter later today as I have some financial garbage to deal with on the phone this morning. Hope all is well with you Slick. Hugs, Blue
  • bluerose
    bluerose Member Posts: 1,104
    #5
    MichelleP said:

    Blue
    no....I haven't hard anything. I hope all is okay :(

    Hey Michelle,
    How have you been doing? How are the grief classes going? Hope you are still going to them and you are learning how to cope with the help of others who have been where you are. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings, Bluerose
  • MichelleP
    MichelleP Member Posts: 254
    #6
    bluerose said:

    Hey Michelle,
    How have you been doing? How are the grief classes going? Hope you are still going to them and you are learning how to cope with the help of others who have been where you are. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings, Bluerose

    Blue
    I tried the grief classes twice and decided not to return because all of the people there had lost loved ones years ago. It seemed more like a social gathering and getting support I didn't think would be possible. When I went to see my doctor I had a total meltdown and now he wants me to see a shrink. I haven't been able to get myself to make that call. I just don't know what to do at this point. Thanks for caring :)
  • bluerose
    bluerose Member Posts: 1,104
    #7
    MichelleP said:

    Blue
    I tried the grief classes twice and decided not to return because all of the people there had lost loved ones years ago. It seemed more like a social gathering and getting support I didn't think would be possible. When I went to see my doctor I had a total meltdown and now he wants me to see a shrink. I haven't been able to get myself to make that call. I just don't know what to do at this point. Thanks for caring :)

    Oh no
    Michelle I understand where you are coming from with leaving the class, feeling the odd woman out with them all knowing each other and being together for so long but I really don't think you saw it the right way. First of all you should go to the leader of the group on his/her own and tell him you need guidance with new loss and that you feel left out with all being so far along in their grief. The counsellor should be aware that new members are new losses no doubt but if no one tells him/her he might lose track. I still think this is the best place for you right now and you know if you see that so many members have stayed so long past their initial grief that shows you how important this group could become to you, make new lasting friends to help you with your loss and support you and you them.

    Seriously I would go back and talk to the counsellor and see if that makes any difference. He owes it to the group to address all stages of grief. Now having said that of course some counsellors are better than others but just try and let him/her know and give them another chance. You could also see a shrink too but for comrodery I feel strongly you need that group too.

    Do think about it and do consider the shrink too although would it be possible to see a psychologist instead? Let me know. Blessings, Bluerose
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
    #8
    HOLLYBERRY
    Hi Blue, I came here tonight just to see if anyone had any news on Hollyberry. She and her family continues to be in my heart and prayers. Please if you hear anything PM me, thank you.

    RE
  • angelsbaby
    angelsbaby Member Posts: 1,165 Member
    #9
    RE said:

    HOLLYBERRY
    Hi Blue, I came here tonight just to see if anyone had any news on Hollyberry. She and her family continues to be in my heart and prayers. Please if you hear anything PM me, thank you.

    RE

    Missing her to
    I hope all is well

    michelle
  • bluerose
    bluerose Member Posts: 1,104
    #10
    RE said:

    HOLLYBERRY
    Hi Blue, I came here tonight just to see if anyone had any news on Hollyberry. She and her family continues to be in my heart and prayers. Please if you hear anything PM me, thank you.

    RE

    I will Re
    If I hear anything I will let you know Re. She is in my prayers too, her and her entire family. Sigh. Talk to you soon friend. Hugs, Bluerose

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