Since being diagnosed with breast cancer this past summer, I want to make major changes in my life. Luckily, after the surgery I didn't need chemo so I'm feeling better everyday and want to live a better life than I had before. I want a job where I help people. I want more friends. I want a smaller house. I've pushed for changes in all these areas but haven't accomplished anything significant. Have any of you experienced this feeling that everything has to change? Life seems so short now. I don't want to waste any more time buried in a deadend job to pay off a big mortgage. But can I sell the house? Who will hire a 48 year old who is switching careers? What about health insurance? Fear sucks!