I am finding more and more woman who do not want to have a mammogram? I know this woman, she is 46 has yet to have a baseline mammogram! Her Mother died as a result of breast cancer. She is afraid to have one. I was at a family reunion and several woman I talked to have never had mammograms either. I guess the only thing you can say is that you yourself never thought you would be a one in eight victim, but you were, and it was caught early. I don't know what else to say to convince them. The 46 yr old has 2 younger children 6 and 10.