Lost and Confused
Sarah311z
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Hi..
My name is Sarah and i am 22 years old. This past January I was diagnosed with Stage I Ovarian Cancer. My cancer was a hypercalcemic small cell cancer and due to the sever nature of my cancer i was underwent 4 sessions of chemotherapy. I am happy to say i am now 3 months cancer free. Despite having healed physically i am having trouble healing emotionally and mentally. i am not sure if anyone other cancer survivors feel this way. to be honest i don't know any other cancer survivors. my only other encounters with cancer have been loss. i am thankful everyday that i am alive and thankful i had such a blessed experience with my cancer but i cant help but feel alone. i was wondering if anyone could give me insight as to how they coped with being a cancer survivor as weird as that sounds. i never questioned why i got sick, and feel in some ways it was a blessing. but its been these last three months that i have felt the most sadness and confusion. my question are always why was i so blessed. where do i go from here.. after surviving something that has effected so many lives. i sometimes feel like i was too blessed and guilt that i am not treasuring my new gift of life. i know this all sounds extremely bazaar and weird but i just need someone who has fought this fight to lend me a hand in understanding where i go from here.
My name is Sarah and i am 22 years old. This past January I was diagnosed with Stage I Ovarian Cancer. My cancer was a hypercalcemic small cell cancer and due to the sever nature of my cancer i was underwent 4 sessions of chemotherapy. I am happy to say i am now 3 months cancer free. Despite having healed physically i am having trouble healing emotionally and mentally. i am not sure if anyone other cancer survivors feel this way. to be honest i don't know any other cancer survivors. my only other encounters with cancer have been loss. i am thankful everyday that i am alive and thankful i had such a blessed experience with my cancer but i cant help but feel alone. i was wondering if anyone could give me insight as to how they coped with being a cancer survivor as weird as that sounds. i never questioned why i got sick, and feel in some ways it was a blessing. but its been these last three months that i have felt the most sadness and confusion. my question are always why was i so blessed. where do i go from here.. after surviving something that has effected so many lives. i sometimes feel like i was too blessed and guilt that i am not treasuring my new gift of life. i know this all sounds extremely bazaar and weird but i just need someone who has fought this fight to lend me a hand in understanding where i go from here.
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Dear Sarah,
It is normal for us (either cancer free or not) to feel some sadness. One, hormones cause it or the lack thereof. Many of us find a mild antidepressant helps get us through the blues. I urge you to talk to your oncologist about your feelings. (((Hugs)) Saundra0 -
Feeling Blessed
Sarah
Congratulations on being a SURVIVOR!! I am a nine year survivor and there are times after reading these boards that I feel a sense of why. Some of us our very Blessed to survive without recurrnce and I believe we do go through a type of survivors guilt. But know this...you have a life ahead of you where you can make a difference by being a survivor. The first few years are a little emotional and it is always good to be able to talk to others who are in your position. You may want to find a support group in your area. I went to one for a few years and it helped me sort through all of those emotions. Good luck to you Sarah! You should learn to celebrate each month and each milestone of your surviving!
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You're found!
Hi Sarah,
Jamilou is right-survivor's guilt must be common, especially in those of us with low-stages, and you should find a support group in your area.
I think there's a sort of let-down once you get past all of the surgery and chemo. It certainly isn't a glamorous spotlight to be put in, but you will resume having a normal life, and it's up to you to decide what you do with it! Hopefully, your close call will give you motivation to take action.
Saundra is right about a mild antidepressant. There are different forms of them, and I'm sure a doctor could prescribe something that would be suitable for you.
I'm sure you'll be scheduled for regular checkups, CA-125 tests, etc. You've truly had a lucky break!0
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