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Surgery Tomorrow
Deb
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Good Luck you Tomorrow
You'll be in my thought and prayers. I'll also be at the hospital tomorrow having my re-incission, good luck to you Deb, mine should be a piece of cake compared to yours.
I also have a daughter who will be a senior this year. She's the one out my three kids I worry about the most also, she's more emotional, and sometimes, more impatient as well. She was there for my first surgury (6 hours in all from arrival to departure) and she'll be there for the next. You daughter will get through this and so will you, It's hard for them to see mom going through all this, they have more of a sense of reality, but are sometimes not quite mature enough, to deal with things.
I wish I had some real words of wisdom for you, but I have the same worries my self, what I do notice is that for my daughter it is easier for her to express her feelings and let the tears roll, when needed, when she talks to other close adult friends where she can find comfort.
So I encourage those friends ships. I'm lucky because I got her a job were I work and she talks to the women friends there that I work with. And they in turn let me know she's doing okay.
I'll be with you in thought and prayer tomorrow, Plaese let us know how you're doing whenever you're able.
Aurora -
Aurora,aurora2009 said:Good Luck you Tomorrow
You'll be in my thought and prayers. I'll also be at the hospital tomorrow having my re-incission, good luck to you Deb, mine should be a piece of cake compared to yours.
I also have a daughter who will be a senior this year. She's the one out my three kids I worry about the most also, she's more emotional, and sometimes, more impatient as well. She was there for my first surgury (6 hours in all from arrival to departure) and she'll be there for the next. You daughter will get through this and so will you, It's hard for them to see mom going through all this, they have more of a sense of reality, but are sometimes not quite mature enough, to deal with things.
I wish I had some real words of wisdom for you, but I have the same worries my self, what I do notice is that for my daughter it is easier for her to express her feelings and let the tears roll, when needed, when she talks to other close adult friends where she can find comfort.
So I encourage those friends ships. I'm lucky because I got her a job were I work and she talks to the women friends there that I work with. And they in turn let me know she's doing okay.
I'll be with you in thought and prayer tomorrow, Plaese let us know how you're doing whenever you're able.
Aurora
I think that you
Aurora,
I think that you just gave some amazing, good words of wisdom.
I will have both you and Stubborn in my heart and thoughts and prayers tomorrow and beyond.
Stef -
Thanksaurora2009 said:Good Luck you Tomorrow
You'll be in my thought and prayers. I'll also be at the hospital tomorrow having my re-incission, good luck to you Deb, mine should be a piece of cake compared to yours.
I also have a daughter who will be a senior this year. She's the one out my three kids I worry about the most also, she's more emotional, and sometimes, more impatient as well. She was there for my first surgury (6 hours in all from arrival to departure) and she'll be there for the next. You daughter will get through this and so will you, It's hard for them to see mom going through all this, they have more of a sense of reality, but are sometimes not quite mature enough, to deal with things.
I wish I had some real words of wisdom for you, but I have the same worries my self, what I do notice is that for my daughter it is easier for her to express her feelings and let the tears roll, when needed, when she talks to other close adult friends where she can find comfort.
So I encourage those friends ships. I'm lucky because I got her a job were I work and she talks to the women friends there that I work with. And they in turn let me know she's doing okay.
I'll be with you in thought and prayer tomorrow, Plaese let us know how you're doing whenever you're able.
Aurora
I really appreciate the support and I'll be thinking of you also.
Deb -
Stubbrn and Aurora....aurora2009 said:Good Luck you Tomorrow
You'll be in my thought and prayers. I'll also be at the hospital tomorrow having my re-incission, good luck to you Deb, mine should be a piece of cake compared to yours.
I also have a daughter who will be a senior this year. She's the one out my three kids I worry about the most also, she's more emotional, and sometimes, more impatient as well. She was there for my first surgury (6 hours in all from arrival to departure) and she'll be there for the next. You daughter will get through this and so will you, It's hard for them to see mom going through all this, they have more of a sense of reality, but are sometimes not quite mature enough, to deal with things.
I wish I had some real words of wisdom for you, but I have the same worries my self, what I do notice is that for my daughter it is easier for her to express her feelings and let the tears roll, when needed, when she talks to other close adult friends where she can find comfort.
So I encourage those friends ships. I'm lucky because I got her a job were I work and she talks to the women friends there that I work with. And they in turn let me know she's doing okay.
I'll be with you in thought and prayer tomorrow, Plaese let us know how you're doing whenever you're able.
Aurora
Best of luck to both of you tomorrow. I will say an extra prayer for you both. Post and let us know how you did (which I'm sure will be just fine!). Rest, rest, and rest!! If your not sure you are resting properly....I will be happy to demonstrate for you!! Hugs....:) Pammy -
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Good luck to both of youaurora2009 said:Good Luck you Tomorrow
You'll be in my thought and prayers. I'll also be at the hospital tomorrow having my re-incission, good luck to you Deb, mine should be a piece of cake compared to yours.
I also have a daughter who will be a senior this year. She's the one out my three kids I worry about the most also, she's more emotional, and sometimes, more impatient as well. She was there for my first surgury (6 hours in all from arrival to departure) and she'll be there for the next. You daughter will get through this and so will you, It's hard for them to see mom going through all this, they have more of a sense of reality, but are sometimes not quite mature enough, to deal with things.
I wish I had some real words of wisdom for you, but I have the same worries my self, what I do notice is that for my daughter it is easier for her to express her feelings and let the tears roll, when needed, when she talks to other close adult friends where she can find comfort.
So I encourage those friends ships. I'm lucky because I got her a job were I work and she talks to the women friends there that I work with. And they in turn let me know she's doing okay.
I'll be with you in thought and prayer tomorrow, Plaese let us know how you're doing whenever you're able.
Aurora
Good luck to both of you tomorrow! I will be praying for both of you!
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Thank youaurora2009 said:Good Luck you Tomorrow
You'll be in my thought and prayers. I'll also be at the hospital tomorrow having my re-incission, good luck to you Deb, mine should be a piece of cake compared to yours.
I also have a daughter who will be a senior this year. She's the one out my three kids I worry about the most also, she's more emotional, and sometimes, more impatient as well. She was there for my first surgury (6 hours in all from arrival to departure) and she'll be there for the next. You daughter will get through this and so will you, It's hard for them to see mom going through all this, they have more of a sense of reality, but are sometimes not quite mature enough, to deal with things.
I wish I had some real words of wisdom for you, but I have the same worries my self, what I do notice is that for my daughter it is easier for her to express her feelings and let the tears roll, when needed, when she talks to other close adult friends where she can find comfort.
So I encourage those friends ships. I'm lucky because I got her a job were I work and she talks to the women friends there that I work with. And they in turn let me know she's doing okay.
I'll be with you in thought and prayer tomorrow, Plaese let us know how you're doing whenever you're able.
Aurora
All of you!!!!!!!! -
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Wishing you good luck Deb!tommaseena said:Deb & Aurora
Thinking of you both today--best of luck--you both will do fine.
Hugs,
Margo
Wishing you good luck Deb! Let us know when you can! -
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Yes, keeping both of you inChristmas Girl said:To both Deb & Aurora...
Sending good thoughts your way today, sincerely hoping for the very best possible outcomes for both of you.
Yes, keeping both of you in my thoughts and my prayers!
Hugs, Lex -
Stubbrn, post when you canKristin N said:I hope that your surgery
I hope that your surgery went ok for you Stubbrn. Hope to be seeing you post on how you are doing soon! Keeping you in my prayers!
Hugs, Kristin
Stubbrn, post when you can to let us know how your surgery went!
Thinking of you!
My masectomy went well and I hope yours will too. 
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