I have been reading for months. Tonight is my first post. I was dx in Jan 2009, choose mastectomy for left breast with tissue expander. I have 12 weeks of Chemo just finished in June. I am waiting to finish reconstruction and we will reduce the other breast. I am starting to get unsure and excited about this and wondering if I done the right thing. I have tried to remain positive and keep life simple and the same as much as possible. I have an autisic son which makes life as challenge before all this. This message board has been my saving grace to know I have sisters and brothers that are walking in the same path and are so encouraging.