So, I haven't heard anybody talking about the effects of early menopause and the effects on your marriage. I was 2 years out from diagnosis, actually exactly to the day 2 years from the call from my doctor with my biopsy results. Came home from work to find my 23 year marriage was over, husband had moved out and taken everything of value, even my life insurance, which he was the owner of the policy. All of this 6 weeks after my sister died from a 8 year battle with breast cancer. I had to quit my tempory job and move out of state, in with my daughter. I can't find a job here, insurance will be running out soon. No matter how hard you pretend, it ain't all pink ribbons and recovery.