back to work

elm3544
elm3544 Member Posts: 748
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
Hi all. Just wanted to share what happened at work today.
I went back to work today for the first time since last Monday.(Last Monday I went in and wound up sick the rest of the week with a sore throat) When I arrived a couple of the girls came over and asked if they could talk to me outside. I thought it was kind of weird but I went outside with them. They presented me with 3 envelopes. Two were cards signed by everyone and one was full of cash! My co workers had taken up a collection for me to buy a wig! I had looked at wigs but the good ones were so expensive I was not sure whether I should spend the money. I only work part time so I don't get short term disability. When I miss work I don't get paid, and I have missed quite a bit in the last few months. I cried and had the two girls crying with me. I feel so guilty for accepting this money but I couldn't very well refuse. I am really touched by the caring and generosity of my co workers. What an amazing group of people!

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  • Jeanne D
    Jeanne D Member Posts: 1,867
    Elm - How touching!
    What a beautiful touching g i f t! And, you have to take it. It would hurt their feelings if you didn't. You must be a very special person to have your coworkers do this for you. You have obviously touched them in a way that they wanted to return the favor.

    Thru this adventure of bc, we find some beautiful, touching, rare and magical moments, that would not have happened or occured otherwise. And, one of those moments is when you realize how much people care and love you. How far people will go to help you out or offer you something, anything.

    Your friends/coworkers just offered you more than a card, more than money, they offered you their love and hands in friendship and faith.

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful story Elm!

    Hugs, Jeanne
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
    How touching!
    What a wonderful group of co-workers you have, you are truly blessed. You get that wig and wear it with pride, it will make both you and your co-workers feel good. Congrats on having such great support! I do hope you are feeling better, will keep you in my prayers.

    Oh, almost forgot, go to www.heavenlyhat.com you can request a hat package and they will send you several hats at no cost to you.

    hugs,

    RE
  • jk1952
    jk1952 Member Posts: 613
    RE said:

    How touching!
    What a wonderful group of co-workers you have, you are truly blessed. You get that wig and wear it with pride, it will make both you and your co-workers feel good. Congrats on having such great support! I do hope you are feeling better, will keep you in my prayers.

    Oh, almost forgot, go to www.heavenlyhat.com you can request a hat package and they will send you several hats at no cost to you.

    hugs,

    RE

    It sounds like you work with

    It sounds like you work with a great group of people. I, too, was overwhelmed by the kindness of the people that I work with: both inside our company and those that I communicate with in other companies. It seemed as though it was the notes and gifts from people that I don't see every day that often touched me the most.

    We'll be looking forward to seeing you with your new wig. It will help to engulf you in the love that made it possible.

    Joyce
  • susie09
    susie09 Member Posts: 2,930
    jk1952 said:

    It sounds like you work with

    It sounds like you work with a great group of people. I, too, was overwhelmed by the kindness of the people that I work with: both inside our company and those that I communicate with in other companies. It seemed as though it was the notes and gifts from people that I don't see every day that often touched me the most.

    We'll be looking forward to seeing you with your new wig. It will help to engulf you in the love that made it possible.

    Joyce

    I love this story! Yes, you
    I love this story! Yes, you go out and get the wig that you want with their money. What a great group of coworkers and friends!

    Have a great day!
  • Jadie
    Jadie Member Posts: 723
    Hi elm
    What a touching story. It brought tears to my eyes and old memories back to when I was starting treatment. I was overwhelmed by people who helped me including family. One customer at the store gave me $2000.00 for my insurance deductable.

    Hugs
    Jadie<3
  • SoftBallMom2
    SoftBallMom2 Member Posts: 56 Member
    Thats great! I work for a
    Thats great! I work for a court ordered school for kids. I didn't have any sick days left, and alot of people donated some to me. One person gave me 5 of their days. It really makes you feel good that people care about you.
  • Kristin N
    Kristin N Member Posts: 1,968 Member

    Thats great! I work for a
    Thats great! I work for a court ordered school for kids. I didn't have any sick days left, and alot of people donated some to me. One person gave me 5 of their days. It really makes you feel good that people care about you.

    Isn't life grand?
    Isn't it wonderful how some people can be so kind, so thoughtful to us? It lets you know that there are people still out there with caring hearts.

    I love these posts! We need more of them!

    Hugs, Kristin
  • elm3544
    elm3544 Member Posts: 748
    Kristin N said:

    Isn't life grand?
    Isn't it wonderful how some people can be so kind, so thoughtful to us? It lets you know that there are people still out there with caring hearts.

    I love these posts! We need more of them!

    Hugs, Kristin

    yes it is!
    It truly is amazing how many caring people there are out there! I am thankful to have each of my co workers, friends, family and this group in my life!
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159 Member
    What an amazing tribute~ not
    What an amazing tribute~ not just to you ( who obviously richly deserve it!) but to the loving kindness of your co-workers. A wise soul once told me that no matter how large or small, it is imperative to "accept the kindness of strangers"; that generosity and empathy may be their only way to show us how united they are in spirit. So many of us have sadly found our circle of friends dwindling at the time of dx; or at the very least, an embarrassment and a lack of feeling feeling oftentime prevails. That your co-workers obviously spent time and energy showing how much they care tells us something wonderful about them and you! You have given us all a much needed lift! Thanks so much for sharing!

    Hugs,
    Claudia
  • cats_toy
    cats_toy Member Posts: 1,462 Member
    That was great Elm
    I'm sure you really appreciated it, too. Some people can show how much they care, and I am glad they were able to do that for you. Let them know we all appreciate them for you. We need more like that.
    Thanks for sharing
    Cat
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    Wow....
    You must have touched many people because they wanted to give back to you!! How wonderful. Now you can get the wig you really wanted. That's awesome. :) Pammy
  • tommaseena
    tommaseena Member Posts: 1,769
    Akiss4me said:

    Wow....
    You must have touched many people because they wanted to give back to you!! How wonderful. Now you can get the wig you really wanted. That's awesome. :) Pammy

    Wonderful
    You will have to post a picture of you with the new wig.

    Co-workers are great.

    Margo
  • susie09
    susie09 Member Posts: 2,930
    Jadie said:

    Hi elm
    What a touching story. It brought tears to my eyes and old memories back to when I was starting treatment. I was overwhelmed by people who helped me including family. One customer at the store gave me $2000.00 for my insurance deductable.

    Hugs
    Jadie<3</p>

    Wow Jadie! That was so
    Wow Jadie! That was so generous! There are angels everywhere!
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
    elm3544 said:

    yes it is!
    It truly is amazing how many caring people there are out there! I am thankful to have each of my co workers, friends, family and this group in my life!

    My goodness Elm! What a
    My goodness Elm! What a wonderful thing to have happen! Now you can buy your wig! Good luck to you!
  • susie09
    susie09 Member Posts: 2,930

    Thats great! I work for a
    Thats great! I work for a court ordered school for kids. I didn't have any sick days left, and alot of people donated some to me. One person gave me 5 of their days. It really makes you feel good that people care about you.

    That was so nice of them
    That was so nice of them Softballmom! People's kindness can be so amazing!
  • Kristin N
    Kristin N Member Posts: 1,968 Member

    Wonderful
    You will have to post a picture of you with the new wig.

    Co-workers are great.

    Margo

    Yes, you will have to post a
    Yes, you will have to post a new picture with your wig, if you want for us. That was just so kind what they did for you! You are very special and obviously loved my many!
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598
    Kristin N said:

    Yes, you will have to post a
    Yes, you will have to post a new picture with your wig, if you want for us. That was just so kind what they did for you! You are very special and obviously loved my many!

    Wow, what wonderful
    Wow, what wonderful coworkers to do that! Such a wonderful generous act of kindness!