questions for first appointment

special123

Dear friends,

I have my first appointment with the chemo doctor this Friday. I am sure I will be taking in a lot of information at my appointment. Are there any specific questions I need to ask him?

Special123

mopar

QUESTIONS
First of all, I always take my journal with me to appointments. It helps me to remembering everything, and I also have something to refer to for my next appointments.

I would find out if you are going to be pre-medicated, which I'm sure they'll let you know. I had meds the night before chemo, the morning of, and the night and day after. These included anti-nausea meds, steroids (to minimize allergic reactions), and other things.

How long will the treatments take? Mine took about 7 hours, as my doctor wanted the drip really slow to minimize reactions. It sure helped. One day, they were running late and it was getting near 5pm. In an attempt to 'get me out of there' they speeded up the drip and WOW! Did I ever feel sick. You'll also need to know how long treatments will be so you can bring some snacks and beverages, a book or something to listen to, etc., hard candy to suck on, or gum, and definitely lots of water. And drink water a couple of hours before chemo, as it will help prepare your veins and make it easier.

You can ask for possible reactions and the side affects. Some people like to know, some don't. I'd rather know so that if and when something occurs, I won't get panicky. It also helps so that you can determine when it's necessary to call the doctor.

If you're going to lose your hair, you can plan on it around day 21. Then you can be prepared with wigs, caps, hats, scarves, whatever you think you'll prefer. The second time I just had my hair buzzed off really, really short. Then it didn't seem so stressful when it happened.

Well, I may think of more later, but I hope this helps. I tend to feel that knowledge is power, at least for me. I'd rather be informed that be 'surprised'. But sometimes too much information can be overwhelming, so you'll need to find that right balance for you.

Sending lots of Hugs and Prayers. Let us know how it goes.

(((HUGS)))

Monika

Susan523

1st Chemo Appointment
Hi, Special,

I agree with everything Monika said; and I, too have kept a medical notebook since day 1.
I find myself referring back to it from time to time. I also use it to list questions and needed prescriptions for each upcoming appointment so that I don't forget anything. (I was diagnosed 3 years ago and just finished my 3rd chemo session; still carrying the same spiral notebook).

Is anyone going with you? I've found that it always helps to have a 2nd person listening to
everything with you; as you may still be thinking about something that was said, and miss the next thing. (this has happened to me MANY times! lol So my husband comes with me to important appointments). Or sometimes my husband will think of a good question while there.

I remember I asked my Dr. if I'd be able to drive myself to and from the appointments; also, you may ask if there are any meds you'll need for side-effects, and maybe get those filled ahead of time so you won't have to deal with it if you get nauseaous or anything.

I can't think of anything else; but I do know that scary feeling of facing chemo for the first time. Best of luck to you, and you will be in my prayers.

~Susan xoxo

ladyjogger31

Susan523 said:

1st Chemo Appointment
Hi, Special,

I agree with everything Monika said; and I, too have kept a medical notebook since day 1.
I find myself referring back to it from time to time. I also use it to list questions and needed prescriptions for each upcoming appointment so that I don't forget anything. (I was diagnosed 3 years ago and just finished my 3rd chemo session; still carrying the same spiral notebook).

Is anyone going with you? I've found that it always helps to have a 2nd person listening to
everything with you; as you may still be thinking about something that was said, and miss the next thing. (this has happened to me MANY times! lol So my husband comes with me to important appointments). Or sometimes my husband will think of a good question while there.

I remember I asked my Dr. if I'd be able to drive myself to and from the appointments; also, you may ask if there are any meds you'll need for side-effects, and maybe get those filled ahead of time so you won't have to deal with it if you get nauseaous or anything.

I can't think of anything else; but I do know that scary feeling of facing chemo for the first time. Best of luck to you, and you will be in my prayers.

~Susan xoxo

Appointment
Hi Special, I see that you have gotten good advise. I had my husband with me at all times. He would ask questions that I had forgot. My thoughts are with you.Please keep us posted and give us an update on how your chemo is going.
Hugs and Prayers , Terry

BonnieR

Susan523 said:

1st Chemo Appointment
Hi, Special,

I agree with everything Monika said; and I, too have kept a medical notebook since day 1.
I find myself referring back to it from time to time. I also use it to list questions and needed prescriptions for each upcoming appointment so that I don't forget anything. (I was diagnosed 3 years ago and just finished my 3rd chemo session; still carrying the same spiral notebook).

Is anyone going with you? I've found that it always helps to have a 2nd person listening to
everything with you; as you may still be thinking about something that was said, and miss the next thing. (this has happened to me MANY times! lol So my husband comes with me to important appointments). Or sometimes my husband will think of a good question while there.

I remember I asked my Dr. if I'd be able to drive myself to and from the appointments; also, you may ask if there are any meds you'll need for side-effects, and maybe get those filled ahead of time so you won't have to deal with it if you get nauseaous or anything.

I can't think of anything else; but I do know that scary feeling of facing chemo for the first time. Best of luck to you, and you will be in my prayers.

~Susan xoxo

Echo
I just wanted to echo what was already said ... great advice. Especiall about having someone with you. Very very good advice, as we are unable to hear everything they say. I write my questions down before I go so I don't forget anything I wanted to talk about.

Hugs ♥ Prayers Bonnie

LPack

Ditto
Special,

Ditto with all said. My onc talks so fast and moves around so fast sometimes I wish I had a video camera and could just hit replay at home!! Did we not say our doctors are all different as each of us are? ☺

Yes, do take someone with you. That is so important because we do not hear everything as our minds are going in several directions at once!!

In His Grip,
Libby