A good friend of mine is having a double mastectomy next week and I want to help, but I don't know what to do? Are there things I can make for her to make her life easier? Do certain shaped pillows help rest your arms? She is very independent and doesn't want to ask for things so I always call her and say if you need me to do something just tell me. She's tough and I know all you that are fighting this fight are tough and brave and I hope that soon there will be a cure- or at least a discovery of the cause. Everynight I pray for God to be with my girls- He knows who they are even if i don't - may He bless you all.