Hi everyone. I have califictaions which tested positive in the biopsy and I am getting a lumpectomy next week and then some radiation treatment. Should I tell my 11 year old daughter and my 14 year old son about the diagnosis. Since I will not get any chemo, there will not be any visible physical signs. My daughter is emotionaly sensitive and very attached to me. She doesnt even want to sleep over any where because she says she doesnt want to be away from me. Will I be scaring her that she might lose me or have the constant anxiety that I "might" die from cancer, eventhough I will definately not from this stage.