scared to death need someone to talk to

williamg
williamg Member Posts: 10
edited March 2014 in Leukemia #1
my grandfather has aml and decided not to do chemo I watch him go down hill everyday his breathing is very hard at this time he wished to go home and spend his time with family I just dont want to lose him he is my dad my grandfather the only man I have ever had in my life why do things like this happen to us this is the BEST man ever

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  • McBean
    McBean Member Posts: 10
    #2
    I can relate
    I cant say I know how you feel. But I do understand. My ex-boyfriends grandmother had cancer and she was the sweetest woman I had ever met. We became very close, almost a mother-daughter relationship. Unfortunatlly two years ago the before thanksgiving she passed away. My world fell apart. But the "good" thing about it is I know she is in a better place and not suffering. It is hard to watch someone you love go through something so terrable! But, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It may not be what you want but at least the one you love won't be suffering. Hope this helps, even if just for a second!
  • williamg
    williamg Member Posts: 10
    #3
    McBean said:

    I can relate
    I cant say I know how you feel. But I do understand. My ex-boyfriends grandmother had cancer and she was the sweetest woman I had ever met. We became very close, almost a mother-daughter relationship. Unfortunatlly two years ago the before thanksgiving she passed away. My world fell apart. But the "good" thing about it is I know she is in a better place and not suffering. It is hard to watch someone you love go through something so terrable! But, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It may not be what you want but at least the one you love won't be suffering. Hope this helps, even if just for a second!

    thanks for sharing your
    thanks for sharing your story it helped alot
  • McBean
    McBean Member Posts: 10
    #4
    williamg said:

    thanks for sharing your
    thanks for sharing your story it helped alot

    No problem
    No problem, any time. Glad I could help.

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