Stage 4 survivor

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  • alwayshope2010
    alwayshope2010 Member Posts: 1
    #42
    tillyrae13 said:

    wondering
    Hi

    This is my first time writing and your post stuck out to me. My dad was just diagnosed with stage 4 EC and it has spread to his liver. He started aggressive chemo this past week in Boston. My dad is a healthy 54 year old guy. Like your husbands doctors, his dr's also said surgery isn't an option. He's part of a clinical trial now and we're all hoping and praying. I'm just wondering if you (or anyone else out there) perhaps has any advice or encouraging words while going through this.


    Thank you

    This is my first time too.
    This is my first time too. My dad was diagnosed in Oct 2010 as stage 3 and had surgery and one month later found out that his PET scan prior to surgery was misread and he really has stage 4 with rib and lymph node involvment. Can your dad eat? The best advice I can give is get him to eat and eat healthy nutrious foods and stay hydrated. My dad has lost 70 pounds since last summer when he started having problems. The cachexia (wasting syndrome) is one of the hardest hurdles to over come. Now my dad can physically eat since having surgery but can't due to the wasting syndrome. My dad is currently trying the holistic method at a clinic in NC. He was very against coventional medicine after the huge mistake on the PET scan. Another piece of advice is to try not to worry about tomorrow and miss the beautiful today. This is a tough road and it will have it's ups and downs, all you can do is never lose hope and always stick together!
  • rayna622
    rayna622 Member Posts: 1
    #43
    congrats!
    Hello. I am desperate for some answers and if you have any info it would be greatly appreciated! My uncle has just had the EC removed and he is now talking out of his mind and hallucinating..apparently it is bc they switched his meds. He is acting as if he has alzheimers or sundowners. Is this the end of the road?

    Thank you so much,
    Rayna
  • linda1120
    linda1120 Member Posts: 389
    #44
    rayna622 said:

    congrats!
    Hello. I am desperate for some answers and if you have any info it would be greatly appreciated! My uncle has just had the EC removed and he is now talking out of his mind and hallucinating..apparently it is bc they switched his meds. He is acting as if he has alzheimers or sundowners. Is this the end of the road?

    Thank you so much,
    Rayna

    hallucinating
    Dear Rayna,

    It is not abnormal for people to become paranoid or hallucinate with some of the medications they give to you after surgery. My husband did this and it only lasted for a couple of days. It is very frightening, but it will pass.

    I hope this helps you.

    Linda
  • rshoes
    rshoes Member Posts: 1
    #45
    survival
    My husband has been diagnosed with fourth stage esophageal cancer and has been receiving a variety of chemo drugs since early February. At this point it would really be very helpful to have some feed back from survivors of fourth stage esophageal cancer. Our main questions at this point are:

    At what point in your treatment did your oncologist bring in radiation therapy?

    Did your oncologist feel that radiation therapy was a bad option because it would make it harder to monitor the effectiveness of the chemotherapy if the tumor was receiving radiation at the same time?

    Did you have a doctor that was more inclined to focus in a positive way on the slimmer chance of survival rather than the greater odds that you would not?

    Who was your oncologist and at what hospital were your treated?

    Good luck to all and thanks in advance for your response
  • Unknown
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    #46
    rshoes said:

    survival
    My husband has been diagnosed with fourth stage esophageal cancer and has been receiving a variety of chemo drugs since early February. At this point it would really be very helpful to have some feed back from survivors of fourth stage esophageal cancer. Our main questions at this point are:

    At what point in your treatment did your oncologist bring in radiation therapy?

    Did your oncologist feel that radiation therapy was a bad option because it would make it harder to monitor the effectiveness of the chemotherapy if the tumor was receiving radiation at the same time?

    Did you have a doctor that was more inclined to focus in a positive way on the slimmer chance of survival rather than the greater odds that you would not?

    Who was your oncologist and at what hospital were your treated?

    Good luck to all and thanks in advance for your response

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  • brittnsean42
    brittnsean42 Member Posts: 1
    #47
    tillyrae13 said:

    wondering
    Hi

    This is my first time writing and your post stuck out to me. My dad was just diagnosed with stage 4 EC and it has spread to his liver. He started aggressive chemo this past week in Boston. My dad is a healthy 54 year old guy. Like your husbands doctors, his dr's also said surgery isn't an option. He's part of a clinical trial now and we're all hoping and praying. I'm just wondering if you (or anyone else out there) perhaps has any advice or encouraging words while going through this.


    Thank you

    Hello,
    This is my first
    Hello,
    This is my first time writing and i was reading everyone's posts and yours is so familiar. My mother who is only 52, was diagnosed in July with stage 4 EC and it has also has spread to her liver. They say she is not a candidate for surgery. She is now finished with radiation and will start chemo soon. I was wondering how your father was doing and what you and your family are doing to deal with all of this?
  • mardigras
    mardigras Member Posts: 215 Member
    #48
    tillyrae13 said:

    wondering
    Hi

    This is my first time writing and your post stuck out to me. My dad was just diagnosed with stage 4 EC and it has spread to his liver. He started aggressive chemo this past week in Boston. My dad is a healthy 54 year old guy. Like your husbands doctors, his dr's also said surgery isn't an option. He's part of a clinical trial now and we're all hoping and praying. I'm just wondering if you (or anyone else out there) perhaps has any advice or encouraging words while going through this.


    Thank you

    Hello,
    I am really sorry
    Hello,
    I am really sorry that you find yourself here.
    My husband was diagnosed three weeks ago with EC and I know what you are going through.
    I just wanted to post a link for you from a leading hospital in the UK where they trial
    cancer treatments.
    http://www.livercancer2.com/cancer-stricken-grandfather-given-just-12-months-to-live-sees-tumours-killed-in-two-days-after-breakthrough-treatment.html
    Addenbrooks Hospital in Cambridge England is a well respected hospital with a proven track record. I just wonder if your oncologist could be tempted into finding out what the treatment was and how it was administered.
    I don't know if it helps, but I will pray for you.
    Hugs and prayers
    Marci
  • mardigras
    mardigras Member Posts: 215 Member
    #49
    brittnsean42 said:

    Hello,
    This is my first
    Hello,
    This is my first time writing and i was reading everyone's posts and yours is so familiar. My mother who is only 52, was diagnosed in July with stage 4 EC and it has also has spread to her liver. They say she is not a candidate for surgery. She is now finished with radiation and will start chemo soon. I was wondering how your father was doing and what you and your family are doing to deal with all of this?

    A link for a cancer trial in England
    Hi brittnsean,
    I don't know if this will help, but I wanted you to read this article.
    http://www.livercancer2.com/cancer-stricken-grandfather-given-just-12-months-to-live-sees-tumours-killed-in-two-days-after-breakthrough-treatment.html
    Addenbrooks Cambridge is a leading Cancer hospital where they trial lots of cancer treatments.
    Hugs and Prayers
    Marci x
  • mardigras
    mardigras Member Posts: 215 Member
    #50
    cyn0418 said:

    Katanna, I am new to this board. I just saw your message and saw that you were stage IV and were told you didn't have long to live, but I see that you had surgery, which is usually not done with stage IV, and you are surviving. Hooray! I am curious as to your case from the time of your diagnosis to now. My husband has esophageal and GE junction and retroperitoneal node and supraclavicular node involvement, but no other organ involvement, and chemo is markedly decreasing everything after only 4 chemo treatments at Northwestern. Would love to hear from you. Cyndi :)

    Hello Cyn
    Cyn, I feel for you. I am a caregiver too with a husband newly diagnosed with EC lower esophagus. We don't know the stage yet as we see the Onco for the first time on Thursday.
    I would love to keep in touch and swop respective worries and fears.
    This is such a scary time for us all.
    Would you please add me as your friend.
    I will keep you and your husband in my prayers.
    Hugs
    Marci
  • mardigras
    mardigras Member Posts: 215 Member
    #51
    Sharrae Kidd said:

    New
    Hello everyone I was hoping I could get some help, information, from people that have gone through this diagnosis. My sister is 31 years old and was just diagnosed two months ago with stage 4 esophageal cancer. The cancer is in lymph nodes as well as her lungs, stomach, and spine. She had a stint put in about a month ago and surgery is not a option for her. My sister is about to have her third round of chemo and as she has 24/7 chemo fanny pack that is given through iv. My sister has a 10 month old baby as well as a 3 and 7 year old. I am finding it really hard to find groups to help with payment of medications and help in general to the family. Does anyone know if there are grants or any assistance to young couple that something like this happens to? I would appreciate any help that anyone can offer to tell me. Thank You all so much for your time and good luck with your battles. God Bless You All!!!!

    God Bless you All
    Hi Sharrae,
    I thought that my husband and I were badly off until I read your post. I am so so sorry for you and your sister.
    I will pray for you every day and hope that things will improve.
    I am not sure, but have you thought of perhaps going to the lottery headquarters and asking for help. I know they have a lot of funds for charitable causes and personally, I can't think of a better cause than the mother of three small children.
    Also, Addenbrooks Hospital in Cambridge England does many clinical trials for all cancers.
    They have recently had some wonderful results, here is a link
    http://www.livercancer2.com/cancer-stricken-grandfather-given-just-12-months-to-live-sees-tumours-killed-in-two-days-after-breakthrough-treatment.html
    Maybe it would be possible to get them to help.
    God bless you and your family
    Hugs
    Marci
  • mardigras
    mardigras Member Posts: 215 Member
    #52
    Sharrae Kidd said:

    New
    Hello everyone I was hoping I could get some help, information, from people that have gone through this diagnosis. My sister is 31 years old and was just diagnosed two months ago with stage 4 esophageal cancer. The cancer is in lymph nodes as well as her lungs, stomach, and spine. She had a stint put in about a month ago and surgery is not a option for her. My sister is about to have her third round of chemo and as she has 24/7 chemo fanny pack that is given through iv. My sister has a 10 month old baby as well as a 3 and 7 year old. I am finding it really hard to find groups to help with payment of medications and help in general to the family. Does anyone know if there are grants or any assistance to young couple that something like this happens to? I would appreciate any help that anyone can offer to tell me. Thank You all so much for your time and good luck with your battles. God Bless You All!!!!

    God Bless you All
    Hi Sharrae,
    I thought that my husband and I were badly off until I read your post. I am so so sorry for you and your sister.
    I will pray for you every day and hope that things will improve.
    I am not sure, but have you thought of perhaps going to the lottery headquarters and asking for help. I know they have a lot of funds for charitable causes and personally, I can't think of a better cause than the mother of three small children.
    Also, Addenbrooks Hospital in Cambridge England does many clinical trials for all cancers.
    They have recently had some wonderful results, here is a link
    http://www.livercancer2.com/cancer-stricken-grandfather-given-just-12-months-to-live-sees-tumours-killed-in-two-days-after-breakthrough-treatment.html
    Maybe it would be possible to get them to help.
    God bless you and your family
    Hugs
    Marci
  • mardigras
    mardigras Member Posts: 215 Member
    #53
    unknown said:

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    Me too William
    I also can't believe how heartbreaking this must be.
    Please God someone will be able to help.
    Hugs
    Marci
  • mardigras
    mardigras Member Posts: 215 Member
    #54
    unknown said:

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    Thank you all
    As a caregiver for my husband newly diagnosed with EC, I just wanted to say a huge thank you to all of you who have given me encouragement on these past few dark weeks. Please stay with me as I did not have any peace of mind until I stumbled in here in the middle of the night. I don't feel so alone now.
    So thank you, thank you all!
    God Bless You
    Marci X
  • ForMini
    ForMini Member Posts: 1
    #55
    tillyrae13 said:

    wondering
    Hi

    This is my first time writing and your post stuck out to me. My dad was just diagnosed with stage 4 EC and it has spread to his liver. He started aggressive chemo this past week in Boston. My dad is a healthy 54 year old guy. Like your husbands doctors, his dr's also said surgery isn't an option. He's part of a clinical trial now and we're all hoping and praying. I'm just wondering if you (or anyone else out there) perhaps has any advice or encouraging words while going through this.


    Thank you

    Interested in Clinical Trial Info
    Hi Tillyrae,

    My mother-in-law was just diagnosed with stage for EC and spread to the liver too. My brother-in-law lives in Boston and am interested to learn more abou the clinical trial your father went through. Any other advice or information would be greatly appreciate.

    Thank you.
  • json_2011
    json_2011 Member Posts: 100
    #56
    Congrats on 5 years !!
    Katanna thankyou for posting and it is great to hear this positive post. I compliment you on your determination on when the docs said no you said yes i can. You showed them , maby it was a mind set that you have . I have come by a couple hear that have got lucky if you would and have passed the marks way beyound there dreams . Keep up the positive attitude!




    Jason
  • marybethk
    marybethk Member Posts: 5
    #57
    mardigras said:

    Thank you all
    As a caregiver for my husband newly diagnosed with EC, I just wanted to say a huge thank you to all of you who have given me encouragement on these past few dark weeks. Please stay with me as I did not have any peace of mind until I stumbled in here in the middle of the night. I don't feel so alone now.
    So thank you, thank you all!
    God Bless You
    Marci X

    stage 4

    hi Marci,

    how are you doing? I just read some of your posts. I am my mother's caregiver, we just found out her cancer (cervical) has come back and it's stage IV with a 4cm mass wrapped around kidney, ureter and resting on colon, spots on liver and lung. It is hard to remain upbeat/positive but that is what I must do when I'm around her. She wants to fight so I think that helps. hang in there.
    God Bless,
    mary beth
  • LilChemoSmoker
    LilChemoSmoker Member Posts: 185
    #58
    json_2011 said:

    Congrats on 5 years !!
    Katanna thankyou for posting and it is great to hear this positive post. I compliment you on your determination on when the docs said no you said yes i can. You showed them , maby it was a mind set that you have . I have come by a couple hear that have got lucky if you would and have passed the marks way beyound there dreams . Keep up the positive attitude!




    Jason

    Pay attention to the posting dates my friends...
    Jason,

    I don't know Katana's status at this point, but I can tell you that this posting is nearly 3 years old. Please pay attention to the original posting dates on these postings.

    Regards,
    -Michelle
  • json_2011
    json_2011 Member Posts: 100
    #59
    LilChemoSmoker said:

    Pay attention to the posting dates my friends...
    Jason,

    I don't know Katana's status at this point, but I can tell you that this posting is nearly 3 years old. Please pay attention to the original posting dates on these postings.

    Regards,
    -Michelle

    10-4
    I see Michelle on the post the date , funny I wonder who posted this then ? Anyway I think alot of this started when i posted on how long some might survive this. I like to think of this sight as its name - even though stage 4 is not good. I did find a couple of long time survivors here on this site , as i posted once before. Just trying to stay positive for the ones who need hope.




    Jason
  • Daisylin
    Daisylin Member Posts: 365
    #60
    json_2011 said:

    10-4
    I see Michelle on the post the date , funny I wonder who posted this then ? Anyway I think alot of this started when i posted on how long some might survive this. I like to think of this sight as its name - even though stage 4 is not good. I did find a couple of long time survivors here on this site , as i posted once before. Just trying to stay positive for the ones who need hope.




    Jason

    Jason
    I think alot of us here get a bit funny about Katana. She only posted the one time, never any updates since this post. Also, many of us find it a bit suspicious that she had surgery. As you know, from your mom's case as well as everyone else here, the plain truth is that stage 4's just don't get surgery. She could more likely have been a stage 3 and misrepresented herself unintentionally.

    Of course we all want hope, and no one begrudges you that Jason. There are certainly some that survive a few years, and we all strive for that goal. Be realistic, but don't give up hoping and praying! Lee and I had huge hopes and dreams at one point too, and there's nothing wrong with that, as long as it doesn't cloud reality.
    Chantal
  • wee jane
    wee jane Member Posts: 1
    #61
    json_2011 said:

    10-4
    I see Michelle on the post the date , funny I wonder who posted this then ? Anyway I think alot of this started when i posted on how long some might survive this. I like to think of this sight as its name - even though stage 4 is not good. I did find a couple of long time survivors here on this site , as i posted once before. Just trying to stay positive for the ones who need hope.




    Jason

    stage 4 gastro esophageal cancer
    I was diagnosed with stage 4 EC (mets in liver) in October 2008. Iwas treated with palliative chemotherapy (ECX) for 5 cycles. The tumors shrank a lot but are still present. I have regular scans but so far my disease is entirely stable. I have no real symptoms and lead an active and enjoyable life. I have changed my diet radically and take a number of supplements including mistletoe, turmeric, Manuka honey and bitter apricot kernels. As you can imagine my oncologists are pleased but a little surprised! I hope my story gives you some hope.

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