Thanks from Meems

Meems

You all echoed what I down deep know, and have been practicing successfully most of the time, but I do have what I call "black moods" about this damn disease. I have spent my life being negative and afraid to think positive but it is amazing how I have learned to turn that around. I will not listen to negative, have stopped searching internet for more knowledge than I need until I find something on net that gets me really down. I have this disease, didn't want it, it wasn't in my life plan but ultimately you have to play the hand you were dealt and make the best of it. I have two friends who just recently had masectomies so we have formed a "breast friend club, which really helps. I think I started to handle it with some kind of sanity when I turned it over to God. I am doing what I am supposed to, being optimistic (most of the time, except for those black times) and really the outcome is out of my hands. So I let it go and just go on. I have never spoken to anyone who had stage 3 or had it missed in a mammo and ultra sound so thanks for giving me a needed boost.

One question, can we contact people on this individually and privately? Thanks again.

Meems

hummingbyrd

Good for you Meems! A much improved attitude already! I say if you're gonna get down get down on your knees and pray and don't get up till something happens! One way or another I always feel better. Either by prayer or the arthritis in my knees gets so bad just getting up makes me feel better. LOL
Yes, you can contact people here individually, just pop 'em an email. We all have personal email accounts here. Just click the little envelope at the bottom of the person's note and that should get you their email box.
Good luck.
hummingbyrd