My mom is having surgery tomorrow
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Hello - I understand all of your fears. I am a 4-year OVCA survivor. It was Stage 1C. I too had NO symptoms. But I did have a uterine fibroid and during surgery is when they found the OVCA. So I am very fortunate. Otherwise, I might never had known until it was too late. So, I am pleased that they are moving on this quickly for your mom.
There are so many new medications (chemo) and treatments available these days, so take comfort in that. Just follow up thoroughly. Ask questions, and by all means come back here for support and info. I will be praying for all of you, especially that the Lord will be your Peace during this difficult time. Please keep us informed.
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I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I am a survivor of stage 3c,grade3 ovarian cancer. My sister is a survivor of 4 years. Try not to focus on the ca125 but on the fact it doesnt' sound like it has spread bad. Praise the lord for the Ctscans. We will keep you both in our prayers.
Bonnie0 -
We met with my mom's gyn/onc yesterday. Her surgery is going to be Friday. He said he didn't see any other masses anywhere else in the CT scan. He reminded us that that doesn't mean there wasn't microscopic cancer cells elsewhere but no masses that could be seen. He said he didn't like the fact that there was some fluid in her abdomen because that suggests that the tumor has spread somewhere. Her physical exam didn't reveal any concerns (swollen glands, rectal irregularities). He said he was glad she wasn't having any symptoms.BonnieR said:I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I am a survivor of stage 3c,grade3 ovarian cancer. My sister is a survivor of 4 years. Try not to focus on the ca125 but on the fact it doesnt' sound like it has spread bad. Praise the lord for the Ctscans. We will keep you both in our prayers.
Bonnie
BonnieR-what was your battle like with stage 3, grade 3? What was your sister's situation? How stressful to have to battle yourself and watch someone you love battle. Thank you for your responses. This is so surreal to me.0 -
We met with my mom's gyn/onc yesterday. Her surgery is going to be Friday. He said he didn't see any other masses anywhere else in the CT scan. He reminded us that that doesn't mean there wasn't microscopic cancer cells elsewhere but no masses that could be seen. He said he didn't like the fact that there was some fluid in her abdomen because that suggests that the tumor has spread somewhere. Her physical exam didn't reveal any concerns (swollen glands, rectal irregularities). He said he was glad she wasn't having any symptoms.BonnieR said:I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I am a survivor of stage 3c,grade3 ovarian cancer. My sister is a survivor of 4 years. Try not to focus on the ca125 but on the fact it doesnt' sound like it has spread bad. Praise the lord for the Ctscans. We will keep you both in our prayers.
Bonnie
BonnieR-what was your battle like with stage 3, grade 3? What was your sister's situation? How stressful to have to battle yourself and watch someone you love battle. Thank you for your responses. This is so surreal to me.0 -
Hello, and welcome to the site. Please don't become too unnerved at the prospect of your mom's surgery, and the outcome. I'm a two year survivor, but there is at least one woman in my support group who is a 10 year survivor. I draw inspiration from them! A friend was diagnosed with Stage 3A just after I was done with my chemo, and she is doing just fine, also. I was glad to advise her on what to expect from the surgery.
Your family's history may not show cancer, but you may want to dig into it. I thought my family was bullet proof (from cancer), but after I was diagnosed and spent time investigating, I found breast, colon, and prostate cancers in my dad's family. They are all related to the breast cancer gene, as is ovarian. I went to a talk by a geneticist recently, and she said it does not matter if it's your mother or father (or both) that carry the gene, but if it's passed on to you, other factors (environment, diet, etc.) can help trigger cancer.
I learned that the earlier one of these cancer develops, the more likely it is that the gene is in the family. After the age of 50, it is considered that it may be a random case, unless there is a family history.
This is hard to explain. If anyone thinks I'm wrong on any of this, feel free to jump in!
I had surgery to remove fibroids 6 years before my cancer was discovered, and I don't think the hysterectomy was much worse than that surgery (myomectomy). The chemo wasn't fun, but I don't think it should be feared. Some people have allergic reactions to taxol, which is derived from tree bark (my gyn said that when she was doing her residency, they were still filtering bark out of the liquid!). Your mom's oncologist will go over all that, if they haven't all ready.
I hope you can take some comfort in all of this. Many people live long and happy lives after having cancer. I had a little time to contemplate the outcome after my initial diagnosis (with uterine cancer 1B), and wasn't too suprised to hear about having ovarian cancer 1C; now I'm grateful they were found in such early stages. Please come back and let us know your mom's outcome, and know many of us will be saying prayers for her tomorrow.0 -
Glad to hear no other cancer seen and that surgery is scheduled. We'll continue to keep you both in my prayers. If you want to know more about my story I have created a webpage, just search BonnieR and you'll find it.kschzcake said:We met with my mom's gyn/onc yesterday. Her surgery is going to be Friday. He said he didn't see any other masses anywhere else in the CT scan. He reminded us that that doesn't mean there wasn't microscopic cancer cells elsewhere but no masses that could be seen. He said he didn't like the fact that there was some fluid in her abdomen because that suggests that the tumor has spread somewhere. Her physical exam didn't reveal any concerns (swollen glands, rectal irregularities). He said he was glad she wasn't having any symptoms.
BonnieR-what was your battle like with stage 3, grade 3? What was your sister's situation? How stressful to have to battle yourself and watch someone you love battle. Thank you for your responses. This is so surreal to me.
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I am so sorry to hear about your mom. It is a very scary thing to go thru. I want you to know that there is light at the end of your frustrations. I am a 22 year old single mother of 2 and i was diagnosed with stage 3c ovarian cancer in feb 04'. I had an emergency 9 hour surgery at the mayo in rochester, mn. I have gonr thru chimo untill this month. I am so happy to say i am now in remission!!! It is a long hard road but with your help she can and will be another surviver of many years! I believe it is all in your head of whether you will or wont survive... I managed a 40,000 foot furniture showroom all thru my chimo treatments, and never 1 time did i quit because i am all my kids have and i need to do everything for them just as i did before cancer entered my life! I too experienced No symptemss untill it was too late. I had to have a complete historectomy, spleen removed, fat layer, liver, diafram and kidneys scraped and much, much more. My ca125 before surgery was 2700 and now it is 8! please write me with any and all questions you have. i have been through it and will be here if you need anyone...it helps to talk about it so you dont get in the " why me...why her" moood...thats a dead end. Your mother is in my prayers. please write if you need to, sincerely,
melissa
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Dear groundeffect: I just read the ovarian cancer discussion board. I was diagnosed with Stage IIIC ovarian cancer in August. My GYN/ONC also thought I should delve into family history. I have had breast cancer at the age of 41, and now at age 48 am battling ovarian cancer. He suggested that this type of gene may skip a generation. In other words, my immediate family may not have history of breast or ovarian, but grandmother/grandfathers might. Both of my grandmothers died from colon cancer. I have two sisters and many female cousins that have not had any type of cancer. What type of testing did the geneticist do? Did he test your children?groundeffect said:Hello, and welcome to the site. Please don't become too unnerved at the prospect of your mom's surgery, and the outcome. I'm a two year survivor, but there is at least one woman in my support group who is a 10 year survivor. I draw inspiration from them! A friend was diagnosed with Stage 3A just after I was done with my chemo, and she is doing just fine, also. I was glad to advise her on what to expect from the surgery.
Your family's history may not show cancer, but you may want to dig into it. I thought my family was bullet proof (from cancer), but after I was diagnosed and spent time investigating, I found breast, colon, and prostate cancers in my dad's family. They are all related to the breast cancer gene, as is ovarian. I went to a talk by a geneticist recently, and she said it does not matter if it's your mother or father (or both) that carry the gene, but if it's passed on to you, other factors (environment, diet, etc.) can help trigger cancer.
I learned that the earlier one of these cancer develops, the more likely it is that the gene is in the family. After the age of 50, it is considered that it may be a random case, unless there is a family history.
This is hard to explain. If anyone thinks I'm wrong on any of this, feel free to jump in!
I had surgery to remove fibroids 6 years before my cancer was discovered, and I don't think the hysterectomy was much worse than that surgery (myomectomy). The chemo wasn't fun, but I don't think it should be feared. Some people have allergic reactions to taxol, which is derived from tree bark (my gyn said that when she was doing her residency, they were still filtering bark out of the liquid!). Your mom's oncologist will go over all that, if they haven't all ready.
I hope you can take some comfort in all of this. Many people live long and happy lives after having cancer. I had a little time to contemplate the outcome after my initial diagnosis (with uterine cancer 1B), and wasn't too suprised to hear about having ovarian cancer 1C; now I'm grateful they were found in such early stages. Please come back and let us know your mom's outcome, and know many of us will be saying prayers for her tomorrow.
I also desperately need to hear success stories from women who have beat Stage IIIC ovarian cancer. My CA-125 was 1306 at diagnosis, but after surgery it was down to 400. I am now on my second cycle of taxol/carboplatin. Please let me hear some good news!!
Kschzcake: Hope treatment is going well for your Mom now. Let us know.
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My mom was told yesterday that her cancer is stage IIB. It was in both ovaries but the other biopsies were negative. She starts the Taxol/Carboplatin? next week. She will have chemo once a month for eight months. Any insight into that would be appreciated.MissiJoy said:I am so sorry to hear about your mom. It is a very scary thing to go thru. I want you to know that there is light at the end of your frustrations. I am a 22 year old single mother of 2 and i was diagnosed with stage 3c ovarian cancer in feb 04'. I had an emergency 9 hour surgery at the mayo in rochester, mn. I have gonr thru chimo untill this month. I am so happy to say i am now in remission!!! It is a long hard road but with your help she can and will be another surviver of many years! I believe it is all in your head of whether you will or wont survive... I managed a 40,000 foot furniture showroom all thru my chimo treatments, and never 1 time did i quit because i am all my kids have and i need to do everything for them just as i did before cancer entered my life! I too experienced No symptemss untill it was too late. I had to have a complete historectomy, spleen removed, fat layer, liver, diafram and kidneys scraped and much, much more. My ca125 before surgery was 2700 and now it is 8! please write me with any and all questions you have. i have been through it and will be here if you need anyone...it helps to talk about it so you dont get in the " why me...why her" moood...thats a dead end. Your mother is in my prayers. please write if you need to, sincerely,
melissa
missisaddress@yahoo.com
Missijoy, I can't imagine your struggle with being a single mother of two and so young. Just that part seems stressful to me even before you throw in ovarian cancer. It sounds like you are doing well and that you have a great attitude. Thank you for keeping my mom in your prayers, You will be in mine.
Kendall0
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