I am 48 yr old successful professsional, single mother and a breast cancer survivor. I had a double mastectomy in '97 and reconstruction. I a was a single mother then. Was dating someone for about 3 months, but he couldn't cope, so he left. I need to share the experience of men's reaction to fake breasts. Mine has been nothing but a long history of rejections. I would like to discuss with others with similar experience, what is the right thing to do. Tried the upfront approach, they ran, tried the "when you are sure he likes you but not madly in love" and they bolted too....what do you do?? I am told, I am a very attractive, athletic woman...what is a problem, do they want a person or just boobs??