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Single woman with metastatic colon cancer looking for single man with cancer

Seena
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Joined: May 2009

I live in NYC, am 55 years old, have metastatic colon cancer, and am on chemotherapy. I'm looking for a single man age 45-62 with cancer who also wants love, caring and companionship! I'm smart, attracive, intelligent and love the arts.

Looking forward to hearing from Mr. Wonderful- Seena

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StacyGleaso
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Joined: Mar 2003

Seriously, you aren't trolling this web site for dates, right?

Just when you thought you've seen it all, yet another post to raise an eyebrow...

Here are my suggestions: eHarmony, match.com, or any other hook up site on the web. In other words, anywhere but here.

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ron50
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Joined: Nov 2001

Aw stacie ,there goes my last chance :):):):) ron.

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2bhealed
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Ron,

You ARE Mr. Wonderful!!

peace, emily

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usakat
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Joined: Jul 2006

...are so cool! And yes, Ron, you are wonderful, but I must be careful not to get too gushy, lest my husband take exception.

Love the pic, Emily!

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2bhealed
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That's my favorite Siberian Husky with me. I suppose now that it's spring I should put a more seasonal pic in there.

peace, emily

shoppergal
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Joined: Mar 2009

I read this post shortly after it was written, and couldn't believe what I read. I wanted to post something but was so dumbfounded that I just couldn't. But now that I've read some of the posts, I have to also say something. You've got to be kidding me!!!! I truly can't believe this is serious!

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PhillieG
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I agree, take Stacy's advice and try the matchmaking sites.

Only Stage IV with not much time left and lots of money need reply.
NOT INTERESTED IN A$$HOLES EITHER
:-)

Wenchie
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Joined: Apr 2009

Seena:
Go to www.cisforcupid.com and register.

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PGLGreg
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But anyhow, good luck.

Greg

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tootsie1
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Joined: Feb 2008

Well, now. If you're seriously looking for a man, I wish you luck. But good gracious, this is not the place to do it.

*hugs*
Gail

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PhillieG
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This site seems to me a magnet for people looking for the wrong things lately.
Have you noticed that or is it just me?
;-)
-phil
I can't read your sign other than it looks like the word "colon".
Was it a Cancer walk or something?

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tootsie1
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The sign was about colon cancer. It was a message about getting checks to be sure, something about getting polyps and getting a cure. It was funny to Stacy(on the left) and me, because we're co-captains of our Relay for Life team, and we've both had colon cancer. And that sign just happened to be plopped right smack in front of our campsite. *L* This was taken at our Relay for Life last Friday night. Our team raised over $5000!!

*hugs*
Gail

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PhillieG
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Thank you, I figured it was some sort of colon cancer thing.
$5,000!!! Wow, that's great.

Emily, I too am a Libra :-)

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2bhealed
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Joined: Dec 2001

Dude, get a better pick-up line.

(personally, I'm a Libra NOT a Cancer. HA!)

peace, emily who likes moonlit walks on the beach and great literature.....

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drmrgirl47
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Joined: Mar 2004

What the hell....Are you serious?

rmcgraw
Posts: 15
Joined: Mar 2008

we took this the wrong way. Maybe Seena would like someone in the same boat she is in and living in the same area to connect with. You know it is easy to get on these boards and chat about our lives, our surgeries, our ups and downs but most of us have family and friends to give us that one on one support we all need and crave. Maybe she doesn't have anyone else to give hugs or to offer up that shoulder to lean on. Granted, I think she should have gone about the wording differently but...maybe

Seena
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Joined: May 2009

I'm sorry if offended anyone.
I am a cancer patient living alone, and it would be very nice to have a partner to share and understand my life and vice versa.
You're right, rmcgraw, I don't have the hugs or the shoulder to lean on. Thanks for your understanding.

I meant no harm.

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ADKer
Posts: 150
Joined: Aug 2008

Hi Seena -

Although it is not the same as support and companionship in real life, I hope that you can find some of that on this board. Please don't let the misintrepretation of your original post scare you away. Folks on this board really do want to be helpful and supportive. Your first post was unusual and a little too short for people to understand where you were coming from. I am sure that no one is deeply offended, just originally disconcerted and, in the long run, sympathetic.

dmdwins
Posts: 453
Joined: Aug 2008

Seena

I am willing to provide "cyber hugs" and "cyber shoulders". I know it is not the same but...Please stick around. There are lots of wonderful people wiliing to give the support you need.

Smiles,
Dawn

shoppergal
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Joined: Mar 2009

I was one that found your post a little strange but it's understandable when you're dealing with cancer alone. I'm not exactly what you said you were looking for in your post, I'm a 53 yr old married woman, who had cancer. I'm not sure where in NY you live, but I also live in NY, and if you need someone to talk with maybe I can be of some help. If you want you can send me a private email and just maybe we can talk.

Take care, Wendy

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usakat
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Joined: Jul 2006

Cut the gal some slack...she is simply looking for a connection. She may or may not find it here, but at least she is here. And thank you Wenchie, for a good link for our new friend. Check it out Seena, you might have better luck there.

And Seena, this may come as a shock, but this really is a great place to connect to new friends, men and women, survivors, caregivers, family, friends, who know what it is like to live with cancer. Perhaps you'll find a friend connection, and if you are as lucky as I was, maybe even a great man. I did not sign up to find a mate, but lo and behold, I did - I did meet my husband here, but finding a love connection here is as rare as the kind of cancer my husband and I had, so don't hold your breath.

I think Wenchie gave you the best advice - check out that site. And welcome to the CSN Colon Board!

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lizbiz
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Joined: Aug 2008

Now's the best time to be focusing on yourself and your own healing. Aren't there any support groups in you area? I now that there are volunteer groups that can help you with everyday chores and outings.

Just in my own very humble opinion, now is not the time.

Hugs and prayers,
Elizabeth aka - CHEMOsabe

edited to add that Kate is probably the exception, but you will find lots of caring and knowledgeable people here.

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2bhealed
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I LOVE your CHEMOsabe moniker!

Now, I'm not sure if this is true, but my husband insists that when Tonto was calling the Lone Ranger "Chemosabe" it's translated to "Oh ignorant One". But I love yours anyway cuz it's such a great play on words which I happen to appreciate..... Play and Words.

peace, emily who's just trying to keep it light!

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VickiCO
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Joined: Oct 2008

It was Jay Silverheels (Tonto)private joke...he talked about it once in an interview with Johnny Carson. I don't remember all the details...it was many years ago!

Vicki

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lizbiz
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My husband bought me a bunch of cancer-related apparel. The CHEMOsabe shirt's by far my favorite another says "Hey Cancer, F**k You!" I don't feel very comfortable wearing that one outside of the house, though. He also bought me a hoody that says "Cancer, you messed with the wrong b*tch!"

He's so great!

Hugs and prayers,
Elizabeth

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2bhealed
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I totally want the hoody!

peace, emily

glinka65
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Joined: Feb 2009

wow ive seen everything now trolling a cancer site.....wtf

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PamPam2
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Joined: Jan 2009

Hi Seena. Sorry so many people are being mean about your posting. Since you are new here you probably didn't know people don't usually use this for a dating site. I sent you a message to your e-mail, go to top of page, home, communicate, e-mail, there's some tips there about a pretty good, free dating site. I know a lot of the people posting on this site are really good hearted and caring people, but a lot are in relationships, have family, husbands, kids, that are there. I know what it means to be going through this alone. If you need to talk about your cancer, have any questions or just need to talk with others who have colon CA please start another thread and I know you will be supported here.
Pam

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eric38
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Are you rich and in need of a younger man? (kidding)

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