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Ruthmomto4's picture
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I am so very sorry to hear that your husband has passed away.  no amount of 'preparing' helps the hurt. 

Please know that you are in my thoughts. 


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I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know everyone is here for you.

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So very sorry for the loss of your dear , brave husband. He fought so hard for so long. May he be at peace now.

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I so well understand the conflict of being glad he is no longer in pain and missing his presence.

May the memories of better times ease your loss.


Marie who loves kitties

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May his memory be for blessing

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Your husband was a brave fighter prayers to you and the rest of your family in this tough time 

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My deepest sympathies at this very tough time.

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Canadian Sandy
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I'm so sorry for your loss Ruthmomto4. It's very hard to cope when we lose someone we deeply care for. Keep the faith and know that we are here for you.

DanNH's picture
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The only solice I can offer is that we are spiritual beings having a human experience. You will be with him again. My fear is that I will live the solice I give you now...


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I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. I know how rough it is to lose your spouse even when you know it's coming. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know that the loss never goes away but it does get easier to bear.

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I am so sorry for your loss! I will send prayers to you and your family. We are here for you

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Such a hard time, I'm so sorry Ruth, though him beng out of all that fear and pain has to offer some peace to you. Now you and the family are left with the pain and shattered hopes. I wish you all some kind of healing and the ability to find solace in his memories, as I remember Cindy in mine.................................................Dave

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I am so sorry to read of your husbands passing.  May your love continue to give you strength during this painful time. 
take good care of youreslf. 

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May his memory be a blessing 

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Ruth, I am so sorry for your loss. No matter how much we prepared, we really couldn't understand the toll the loss would be. I am sorry that you find yourself on this side now. I have joined the Sisterhood of Widows on FB and it's helpful to have others to talk to. You are in my thoughts and my prayers!!!!


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I'm so sorry this happened. I know you both went through such a hard experience. I'm wishing you peace. 

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Oh Ruth, I'm so sad to read your post.  It's s very hard time for you and your family.  Lean on family and friends at this time for guideance and strength.  Tears are healing so let them flow.  


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When I think of this update on your husband I think for you "Eternity will always be in the heart."  You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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I'm so sorry. You both worked so hard to fight this disease. Sending you and your family love and strength.


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I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. Blessings to you and your family.

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Ruth, I am so very sorry that you are feeling this pain of him leaving this earth. I don't know that you can ever truly prepare for this. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts at this incredibly difficult time. Lots of love coming your way. 

Tom M.
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I am very sorry for your loss.

Ruthmomto4's picture
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Your kind words and support has meant so much to me over all these years and now as well. I have made so many connections along the way and hold so many of you close to my heart. I love getting to know a few of you better through Facebook as well. I am always open to that. We are barely hanging on by thread here, nighttime is the worst. Before covid he would be at work at all day so I am used to being alone. nighttime the kids and I miss him so much.  He kept saying when he knew he was dying that it would be easier for me I wouldn't be obsessing about his eating, or bloodwork etc anymore but I would rather be doing that than missing him. my house smells like a flower shop and i have so many edible fruit platters I could start a produce stand. I wish someone would send cupcakes or something lol 

anywsy I will check in from time to time I worry about you all! Thank you again for all the love and support!

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I'm so sorry to hear this.  He fought this battle so hard and was so lucky to have you by his side the whole time.  He never gave up.  May God Bless you and your family during this time and if you ever want to come back and share how you are doing, we would love to hear from you.  Thanks for being such a great member of this group.

Hugs!  Kim

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I am so sorry about your husband.

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