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  • debrajo
    debrajo Member Posts: 1,095 Member
    Abbycat2 said:

    Moli, how are you doing?

     

    I am hoping that the Christmas and New Year's holidays brought you much joy visiting with your girls and grandchildren.  Have you moved into your new home?   I remember that you said that you would be having your surgery tomorrow and I just want you to know that you have been on my mind and I am wishing for the very best surgical outcome for you. 

    Let us hear from you!   Take good care of yourself, Moli.

    Nuff Love,

    Cathy

    Moli

    I CSN e-mailed Moli last night, but have not heard back.  She is due her surgery tomorrow.  Wishing her the very best with whatever she decides.  Nuff love to Moli!

  • Editgrl
    Editgrl Member Posts: 903 Member
    Thinking of you today

    Thinking of you today, Moli.  Hoping for the best possible outcome.

    Chris

  • Abbycat2
    Abbycat2 Member Posts: 644 Member
    Editgrl said:

    Thinking of you today

    Thinking of you today, Moli.  Hoping for the best possible outcome.

    Chris

    Ladies, I am worried about

    Moli. I hope that her surgery went quite well and she is doing fine. 

    Nuff love to you, Moli!

    Cathy

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,677 Member
    Abbycat2 said:

    Ladies, I am worried about

    Moli. I hope that her surgery went quite well and she is doing fine. 

    Nuff love to you, Moli!

    Cathy

    She was last signed in

    on the 4th so wouldn't have seen our postings before her surgery.  Let's keep sending good vibes her way.

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,811 Member
    ConnieSW said:

    She was last signed in

    on the 4th so wouldn't have seen our postings before her surgery.  Let's keep sending good vibes her way.

    Moli

    I suspect Moli is still some what sedated. From what she told us, it was going to be a very extensive surgery.  Hopefully we will hear from her soon!

  • Lou Ann M
    Lou Ann M Member Posts: 996 Member

    Moli

    I suspect Moli is still some what sedated. From what she told us, it was going to be a very extensive surgery.  Hopefully we will hear from her soon!

    Moli

    Missing you girl.  I hope you are healing.  Prayers headed your way.  Lou Ann

  • EZLiving66
    EZLiving66 Member Posts: 1,482 Member
    Lou Ann M said:

    Moli

    Missing you girl.  I hope you are healing.  Prayers headed your way.  Lou Ann

    I hope she is doing

    I hope she is doing ok.....maybe just a little post surgery recovery time?

    Love,

    Eldri

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    Thank you all

    for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming  vacation,  I tried to  post on the  board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function  as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.

    On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked  my creator for the reprieve  unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon.  I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th  but I declined.

    My surgeon  advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .

    I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect?   It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified  and I am unashamedly loving it.

    I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.

    I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.

    I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli. 

     

     

  • TeddyandBears_Mom
    TeddyandBears_Mom Member Posts: 1,811 Member
    molimoli said:

    Thank you all

    for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming  vacation,  I tried to  post on the  board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function  as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.

    On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked  my creator for the reprieve  unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon.  I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th  but I declined.

    My surgeon  advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .

    I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect?   It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified  and I am unashamedly loving it.

    I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.

    I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.

    I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli. 

     

     

    moli

    Glad you responded back and that you had another great respite from the cancer concerns.

    Now, stay strong so that you heal quickly from surgery whenever that happens!

    Please keep us informed.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

  • Lou Ann M
    Lou Ann M Member Posts: 996 Member
    molimoli said:

    Thank you all

    for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming  vacation,  I tried to  post on the  board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function  as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.

    On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked  my creator for the reprieve  unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon.  I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th  but I declined.

    My surgeon  advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .

    I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect?   It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified  and I am unashamedly loving it.

    I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.

    I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.

    I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli. 

     

     

    Thankful for your "unearned"

    Thankful for your "unearned" vacation.  It was probably just what you needed.  I know the hard part was the extra waiting.  When you have your mind all prepared for something and then have to postpone it is disappointing to say the least.  I hope you get a new surgery date soon.  Take care .  Hugs and prayers from Lou Ann

  • molimoli said:

    Thank you all

    for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming  vacation,  I tried to  post on the  board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function  as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.

    On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked  my creator for the reprieve  unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon.  I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th  but I declined.

    My surgeon  advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .

    I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect?   It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified  and I am unashamedly loving it.

    I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.

    I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.

    I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli. 

     

     

    Hi Moli

    I have to remind myself of your sentence, not in my control, or I let my mind wander.  Actually, I was going through my jewelry today trying to figure out what to hang around my neck to distract people from the white elephant head above, when I saw my serenity bracelet that I bought after my husband died.  I will wear it daily just to remind me not to worry about things I can't control.  You sound like you've got it together.  Lots of wishes for the days to follow.  Nancy

  • Kaleena
    Kaleena Member Posts: 2,088 Member
    molimoli said:

    Thank you all

    for your concern and good wishes. I must say" SORRY" out loud for not posting to inform you all that I wouldnt be having surgery as planned on the 6th. The assisting surgeon could not do that date after something unforseen came up for him.. I was so disappointed that when I was notified I immediately booked a flight out and left on the 22nd of December for a brain calming  vacation,  I tried to  post on the  board to notify you all on the 4th but could not get my cell phone to properly function  as I was trying to use wifi as no internet was available.My attempts failed. I returned home late last night so just now got the chance to send my apology.

    On the 11th I will get a new scan as per. the surgeon , to give him a current view, then upon the assisting Dr's return a new date will be set . I enjoyed my trip so much that I secretly thanked  my creator for the reprieve  unintentionally given by the absconding surgeon.  I was offered a back up surgeon for the 6th  but I declined.

    My surgeon  advised me to plan a trip and go somewhere with distractions from the surgery so I did just that. He assured me that the delay will not cause any problems .

    I didn't do my planned christmas shibang at home as I am fully packed and didn't yet move , and would be too overworked, so I took an unearned vacation from doing nothing,Is it only me that has gotten lazy and actually identify it as plain lazy hiding out as cancer's effect?   It is not fatigue at all, it is laziness intensified  and I am unashamedly loving it.

    I hope you all will have a cancer free or cancer controlled year, keep the faith and stay positive despite the journey.Thanks for remembering your prodigal sister.

    I have managed to stay very well , No noticed side effects of these tumors,no felt sickness of any kind, I am determined not to be concerned about what is going on inside of me , Not in my control so won't rent space in my head pondering.

    I am hugging,Nuff love, Moli. 

     

     

    So glad to hear from you!

    Moli,

    So glad that you go a much needed vacation!   No apologies needed.   I feel your hugs and am hugging you back!

    There is so much I would love to say but for some reason my brain is blank today.  Sorry!   

    Just know that you are in my heart and prayers

     

    Kathy

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    unknown said:

    Hi Moli

    I have to remind myself of your sentence, not in my control, or I let my mind wander.  Actually, I was going through my jewelry today trying to figure out what to hang around my neck to distract people from the white elephant head above, when I saw my serenity bracelet that I bought after my husband died.  I will wear it daily just to remind me not to worry about things I can't control.  You sound like you've got it together.  Lots of wishes for the days to follow.  Nancy

    Useless worry,robs time.

    Hi Nancy  , Welcome to this board and thanks for your response.Sorry about your Husband ,I know similar pain.

     Word of advice: when your head is wondering down Worry lane and dragging your whole being with it , just pinch your bracelet,make a mental U turn and free yourself of the unpleasant thoughts. Always remind  yourself that none of this Cancer crap is on account of any of our actions, we didn't cause it ,we don't understand it,We can't control it, our doctors don't understand it,Total control of it has them beat, The Creator didn't promise to rescue us from it, a reprieve,maybe, but rescue ???.Bearing all of this in mind,worrying is a sad waste of expensive  time, with time we will all come to know that but it takes time and events. after realizing  that ,then we can actually live, and celebrate every " Alive " day.

    I don't always have it together Nancy but I am resolved to be the best 'worry ducker' there is.I am winning at this point,that's all.

    Don't even worry about the elephant head unless it has a tusk, I wouldn't.

    Take life's newness one day at a time. There are still pleasantries to enjoy.

    I am hugging, nuff blessings. Moli   

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    Kaleena said:

    So glad to hear from you!

    Moli,

    So glad that you go a much needed vacation!   No apologies needed.   I feel your hugs and am hugging you back!

    There is so much I would love to say but for some reason my brain is blank today.  Sorry!   

    Just know that you are in my heart and prayers

     

    Kathy

    Blank brain is our ID

    Thanks Kathy, Dont give the foggy brain a thought, from we heard the words  "You Have Cancer' foggyness becomes our constant companion, Not to mention when it's best friend Chemo visits to add log to the fire.

    We all love you ,foggy head and all. I am still hugging,Thanks for your prayers, nuff Love Moli.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    Lou Ann M said:

    Thankful for your "unearned"

    Thankful for your "unearned" vacation.  It was probably just what you needed.  I know the hard part was the extra waiting.  When you have your mind all prepared for something and then have to postpone it is disappointing to say the least.  I hope you get a new surgery date soon.  Take care .  Hugs and prayers from Lou Ann

    I am indeed thankful .

    LouAnn I really needed the distraction from the wait and the disappointment of it,So I embraced this quiet vacation, I did nothing  but ate,slept, swam and over indulge in food and lots of mangoes.I have  put on more pounds than I care to disclose here,now my ever present belly flap has become a dome, for another part of my anatomy,which will remain nameless here.

    I am now watching a terrible snow storm happening here and praying that I dont have to cancel my scan for later today, Scan dates are far between  so I hope it's not the case, but whatever will be will be.

    I will update re; surgery date and progress.

    I am feeling the hug,and hugging back.  Plenty, plenty blessings for you and all our sisters here. Moli.

     

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514

    moli

    Glad you responded back and that you had another great respite from the cancer concerns.

    Now, stay strong so that you heal quickly from surgery whenever that happens!

    Please keep us informed.

    Love and Hugs,

    Cindi

    Great advice Cindi, I need to

    Great advice Cindi, I need to stay strong  to deal with what's coming down the pike, Can't wait  for this to be behind me but patience is  going to be practiced on my part. Thanks for caring, I feel it,

    I am hugging and loving, nuff blessings as you gather back your strength ,and embrace NED.

    Moli hugging.

  • Abbycat2
    Abbycat2 Member Posts: 644 Member
    molimoli said:

    Blank brain is our ID

    Thanks Kathy, Dont give the foggy brain a thought, from we heard the words  "You Have Cancer' foggyness becomes our constant companion, Not to mention when it's best friend Chemo visits to add log to the fire.

    We all love you ,foggy head and all. I am still hugging,Thanks for your prayers, nuff Love Moli.

    Moli, so very glad to see you posting here!

     

    I have been concerned about you and am thrilled to see you post again. A much needed vacation is a welcomed distraction; it helps to clear the cobwebs from one's mind.  I hope that you had a great vacation and enjoyed eating those mango's (I have a mango tree in my yard-ummm!).  Hopefully, you can have your scan today as scheduled.  It is good to hear that you are feeling fine, too.  Please keep us posted.

    Nuff Love right back at you!

    Cathy        

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,677 Member
    Abbycat2 said:

    Moli, so very glad to see you posting here!

     

    I have been concerned about you and am thrilled to see you post again. A much needed vacation is a welcomed distraction; it helps to clear the cobwebs from one's mind.  I hope that you had a great vacation and enjoyed eating those mango's (I have a mango tree in my yard-ummm!).  Hopefully, you can have your scan today as scheduled.  It is good to hear that you are feeling fine, too.  Please keep us posted.

    Nuff Love right back at you!

    Cathy        

    Moli

    i hope the scan shows that while you vacationed, the tumors lazed around, too.

    Will you complete your move soo?.  I always hate being unsettled.

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    ConnieSW said:

    Moli

    i hope the scan shows that while you vacationed, the tumors lazed around, too.

    Will you complete your move soo?.  I always hate being unsettled.

    Thanks Connie

    Connie soon is what I hoped for , but I am now going with the flow, On the 21st I will be making major, maybe new decisions on my life ,moving forward, update will explain. I too hope the tumors stayed put with no tumor  relatives visiting their unwelcomed sibling in my poor belly. 

    Hugs. Hope all is going smoothly with you. Moli. 

  • molimoli
    molimoli Member Posts: 514
    Abbycat2 said:

    Moli, so very glad to see you posting here!

     

    I have been concerned about you and am thrilled to see you post again. A much needed vacation is a welcomed distraction; it helps to clear the cobwebs from one's mind.  I hope that you had a great vacation and enjoyed eating those mango's (I have a mango tree in my yard-ummm!).  Hopefully, you can have your scan today as scheduled.  It is good to hear that you are feeling fine, too.  Please keep us posted.

    Nuff Love right back at you!

    Cathy        

    Sorry to cause you and others to wonder or worry.

    Cathy I did have the scan on the 12 instead, Yes ,I am feeling fine physically but getting bored waiting for outcomes and decisions. I need to get "it" over with ,whatever "it" is. Update will explain.

    As always,Nuff love, Moli.