The Cancer Survivors Network (CSN) is a peer support community for cancer patients, survivors, caregivers, families, and friends! CSN is a safe place to connect with others who share your interests and experiences.

Thank you for being a part of the Cancer Survivor Network community. Survivors and caregivers like you have played a unique role in fostering an online environment that encourages connection among those needing support, community, and education. On May 28, the Network will be discontinued. More details are available here . If you have any questions, contact CSNSupportTeam@cancer.org. Thanks again for the support you’ve provided each other over the years. We remain committed to supporting you in other ways throughout your cancer journey.

husband has lung cancer and he's an alcoholic

bkell
bkell CSN Member Posts: 1
in Lung Cancer #1

My husband is nearing the end of his chemotherapy, he has stage 4 small cell lung cancer. He is an alcoholic, he still smokes heavily and is drinking an entire bottle of rum every day. He says it helps with his pain and helps him to sleep. He sleeps all day and night. I'm so stressed out and depressed. I don't know what to do. I can't understand why he wouldn't do everything in his power to prolong his life for not only himself but for me and my children. It's like he's just given up. His last scan showed the tumors have shrunk significantly, shouldn't that give him a healthy attitude. I've been to a therapist but it really does not help. 

Like Care

Comments

  • z
    z CSN Member Posts: 1,414 Member
    #2
    bkell

    Hello as a recovering alcoholic i must tell you that unless he wants to quit nothing you do will stop him.  My recommendation is for you to take care of yourself and your health so you will be there for your children.  Could you attend some alnon meetings?  That would be where you could talk to others and get support for the same situation.  I wish you well. Lori

    Like Care

Discussion Boards