I too lost a best friend yesterday, my sister Diane Sanders

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Mama G
Mama G Member Posts: 762
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
Such an amazing woman! Such a fighter! She also lost her battle with B/c after being detected 3 1/2 years ago, going through the treatments, into remission, only to have it come back with a vengeance. But she fought each tumor as it arrived, first the lungs,
then the brain, both were diminished with radiation because they were caught so early.
They put her back on the a/c regime and it held the tumors at bay... they actually disappeared from the xrays. So she stopped, to get a break and build up strength.
What a mistake. In two weeks it moved into her bones, back in her lungs. Still she fought, this time with Paxil. I have to say this battle bought her about a year of
"life". She was so positive about all she was going through. She's my hero. I don't think and I hope and pray I won't have to battle like that, because I don't think I could do it with such grace, fortitude and positivity.

Once I realized she was losing the battle we made a plan for me to go out to Ca. to see her one more time. Being a teacher I was trying to hold out for Christmas break, but the Lord had plans for me. My husband's job shut down last week and he offered (which is NOT like him) to go with me. So I took the week off school and arrived to find her sitting watching tv and we had a great chat. We put her to bed at about 10pm and she never got up after that. She never spoke to us after that. How blessed I am to have arrived on that exact day. Thank you GOD!
Here's a shot of Diane from a few years ago;
http://www.flickr.com/photos/flsurferzmom/4188179928/
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  • tjhay
    tjhay Member Posts: 655
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    My heart goes out to you
    My heart goes out to you Mama G, sending prayers and positive thoughts your way
    tj
  • teresa41
    teresa41 Member Posts: 471
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    tjhay said:

    My heart goes out to you
    My heart goes out to you Mama G, sending prayers and positive thoughts your way
    tj

    im so sorry .....teresa

    im so sorry .....teresa
  • Cat64
    Cat64 Member Posts: 1,192
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    Mama G
    So sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. Yes it was indeed a blessing to have been with her that one last time. Sending extra prayers your way to help you through this difficult time.
    Hugz,
    Cathy
    Not sure if you've seen it, but on the Home page there is a In Loving Memory Board to post on.
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
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    Mama G
    What an amazing story. Sounds to me like your sister waited for you. She was a strong women and I am sure your are to. She will be with you through your journey. I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep you and yours in my prayers. God Bless
  • karen0423
    karen0423 Member Posts: 67
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    My thoughts and prayers are
    My thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry for your loss. Karen
  • lynn1950
    lynn1950 Member Posts: 2,570
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    My heart goes out to you at
    My heart goes out to you at the time of your loss. I'm so glad you had a chance to be together. xoxoxox Lynn
  • DianeBC
    DianeBC Member Posts: 3,881 Member
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    lynn1950 said:

    My heart goes out to you at
    My heart goes out to you at the time of your loss. I'm so glad you had a chance to be together. xoxoxox Lynn

    Sorry
    I am so sorry Teresa!

    Hugs, Diane ♥
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
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    :-(
    I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sister, I lost mine two years ago today. I went to the link and checked out the photo you posted, she was lovely and had a presence about her I could feel just by looking at the photo. I am glad you made it to her side in time to enjoy some sister time before she quieted. I too was able to have that and I treasure it greatly. Wish I could say something that would make it better.

    Hugs,

    RE
  • natly15
    natly15 Member Posts: 1,941
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    My heart goes out to you at
    My heart goes out to you at this time. How fortunate you were able to see her before she entered her enternal life in heavenly places.
  • tommaseena
    tommaseena Member Posts: 1,769
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    natly15 said:

    My heart goes out to you at
    My heart goes out to you at this time. How fortunate you were able to see her before she entered her enternal life in heavenly places.

    Sorry
    Sorry for your loss.
    I am glad that you had time to spend with her. Sounds like she was waiting for you to see her and have one last great visit.

    Margo
  • Jadie
    Jadie Member Posts: 723
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    So sorry for your great loss
    I looked up the site she was a lovely lady. I am glad that you got to talk with her before her passing. It will always be a good memory for you.

    Hugs
    Jadie<3
  • Sher43009
    Sher43009 Member Posts: 602 Member
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    I am sooo sorry for your
    I am sooo sorry for your loss. She gave you a wonderful gift with your chat that you will cherish forever.
  • cruf
    cruf Member Posts: 908
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    Sher43009 said:

    I am sooo sorry for your
    I am sooo sorry for your loss. She gave you a wonderful gift with your chat that you will cherish forever.

    So Sorry!
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! HUGS!!! Cathy
  • padee6339
    padee6339 Member Posts: 763
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    Dear Mama G
    I am so sorry to hear that your dear sister lost her battle. She fought the good fight. What a blessing that you were able to talk to her that last time. That evening will be in your heart forever. God Bless you and your family at this sad time.
    Hugs - Pat
  • Marcia527
    Marcia527 Member Posts: 2,729
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    So sorry for your loss.

    So sorry for your loss.
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
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    Marcia527 said:

    So sorry for your loss.

    So sorry for your loss.

    MG so sorry to hear about
    MG so sorry to hear about your sister. I did not know this was the trip you were taking. I am glad you got to see and talk to her what a blessing for you both to see each other. Hugs to you and I am deeply sorry.
  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
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    MamaG, I'm so sorry for your
    MamaG, I'm so sorry for your loss but very happy for you that you arrived to spend time with her in her final days/hours. I know that must be helping in your accepting the outcome. I'll be thinking about you and am sending positive thoughts your way. Take care.
  • chickad52
    chickad52 Member Posts: 497
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    Mama G
    I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.Hugs, Diane
  • Noel
    Noel Member Posts: 3,095 Member
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    chickad52 said:

    Mama G
    I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.Hugs, Diane

    Sending prayers
    Teresa, I am so sorry.


    ♥ Noel
  • meena1
    meena1 Member Posts: 1,003
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    Noel said:

    Sending prayers
    Teresa, I am so sorry.


    ♥ Noel

    I am so sorry for the loss
    I am so sorry for the loss of your sister. She was very brave to endure all she did.