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Death With Dignity

Kaniksu
Kaniksu CSN Member Posts: 54
in Emotional Support #1

I have had cancer, and I Never call myself a cancer survivor....just  4 yrs post.i have a dear friend who's cancer has returned and is in her final weeks. I live in a state where death with dignity iis legal.My dear friend asked me today if Iwanted to be present alo with family members when she chooses her time.I am very emotional about this.

 

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  • a_oaklee
    a_oaklee CSN Member Posts: 566 Member
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    Peace

    Of course you are emotional about this request of your friend.  You must do what you are comfortable with doing.  Being present is not an obligation, nor is it your responsibility.   I couldnt participate, but thats just me.  I would choose to say my goodbyes and express my love and leave, the day before.  I think I would go to a church or some other beautiful peaceful place, at the designated time, and just pray for her.  Im sorry about your dear friend.  Take care of yourself.  

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  • Kaniksu
    Kaniksu CSN Member Posts: 54
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    a_oaklee said:

    Peace

    Of course you are emotional about this request of your friend.  You must do what you are comfortable with doing.  Being present is not an obligation, nor is it your responsibility.   I couldnt participate, but thats just me.  I would choose to say my goodbyes and express my love and leave, the day before.  I think I would go to a church or some other beautiful peaceful place, at the designated time, and just pray for her.  Im sorry about your dear friend.  Take care of yourself.  

    Thank you.

    Thank you.

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