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Fayard
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Hello,

I was wondering if anyone could spear some time and to help me. My father, almost 89, has metastatic colon cancer. He lives in Venezuela, where there is a shortage of everything including medical care and simple medical supplies. His red counts are low, so the doctor recommended iron; however, another doctor said not to give him iron pills because he could get clogged/constipated since he has a tumor inside his colon blocking some of the path. It was recommended iron through IV, but most private clinics are closed due to Good Friday, and we only have pills available. My father seems alert, according to my brother, but he sleeps most of the day and does not want to talk.

Please advice, and God bless you all!

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Annabelle41415
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Sorry to hear of your father, and most that he is in a country that has socialized medicine which can be very difficult to deal with.  If he is able to buy some iron pills himself from a pharmacy with his doctor's permission maybe he could try that but that is not a solution to his problem.  He needs a doctor soon if he has a blockage. He needs a good medical staff that has a plan for him and it sounds like right now they don't have something like that to offer.  I'm sorry that I'm not more encouraging.  Hope he can find better medical care.

Kim

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Fayard
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Hola,

Thank you very much for your feedback. I snet him some iron pills, but we are concerned about him becoming constipated. We are trying to get him to an oncologist, private, tomorrow. We'll see what he has to say. 

Thank you very much for responding!

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The iron supplements I took also contained a stool softener (Docusate Sodium) to help avoid constipation. Would that be an option for your dad?  If you can't find the combination, perhaps ensuing that he takes a stool softener with his iron might be helpful.

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Fayard
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That sound like a good alternative, thank you so much!

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We attack anemia with any simple liver dishes, 1 - 2 tablespoons per day boosted Hgb for my family from 10 --> 14, after surgery.  No problems.  Also bone broth from scraps and marrow might be especially useful.

My wife was able to navigate 95+% initial obstruction and anemia for 4 weeks (then surgery) by diet.  How much carefully chewed or juiced or hydration or useful cheap drugs, dunno which mattered most.  There is a whole ethnobotanical approach with knowm leaves and pits that I would not discount in this situation.  We've heard discussions but I am not well versed.

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Fayard
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Yes, liver could help. My brother has been looking for it, but he has not been able to find any. We will continue the search. My father is driking all kind of possible juices to help him raise his red blood cells. In fact, he had blood work today and the RBC are the same. At least these are not going down.

Thank you very much for your input!

Twinzma
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I would try to get him to also eat foods, if he can, that are rich in iron. Beans, lentils, cashews and spinach would be good choices. I hope he feels better soon! 

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Fayard
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Afortunatelly, many of these foods give my father gas. I is ona soft diet, since one of the tumors is inside the colon. However, there is still room for him to have bowel movements.

Thank you!

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Hello Fayard,

 

If any medicine or prescription medicine is not found in Venezuela so you will try an online pharmacy. I have also used an online pharmacy for my cancer care prescription. I am suffering from throat cancer.

 

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Fayard
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Hola Miller,

I appreciate your feedback. Some of it was removed. If you can, please send me a message with whatever was removed.

Thank you and good luck with your treatment!

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Fayard
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Hello,

I wanted to share with everyone an update on my father’s health. He is in the process of having a colostomy. The doctor said that is best to have it done now that he is still sort of strong than waiting until he has an obstruction. We are now very stressed about the bags he is going to need. As I mentioned before, Venezuela is not a country where you can’t easy find food, so much less colostomy bags, not to mention the costs L He is in pain constantly: lower back, legs and around tumor. I have sent him some CBD oil to try for pain, but it has not arrived yet. He currently takes Tramal/Tramadol and also a shot of a similar pain killer when the pain is unbearable.

Does anyone know about any retail online store where I can explore prices? Donation centers? Leftovers from anyone? I have been trying to find out the type of bags my father will need, but it has become a challenge. I am not sure if the bags just come in one type/size? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

God bless you all!

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You can get on-line and go to web sites for Coloplast and Hollister.  You can request samples, they will be glad to send them to you in USA free of charge.  

There are almost too many to choose from...I personally use a 2 piece drainable.  This allows for emptying rather than replacing the bag when full.  It also allows for you to just replace the bag if necessary and the flang is still holding well.

I would also suggest that you get flang which already has opening rather than one that needs to be cut to size....just easier.

The size of the flang will be the unknown until the ostomy is done...size varies...also some shrinkage after a short period after surgery.

Another variable is also the position of the stoma.  Some a more protruding than others.  Depending on this you will need to either have convex or concave.

Don't be confused too much.  Just get the samples and have your dad let you know what works or what doesn't.  There are a number of companies which are set up for sales of the two major companies products...just search internet for ostomy supplies.  I think you can also get on Amazon.  Pricing, as with anything is a crap shoot depending on the day.

Best wishes to your dad and to your search to help him.

Marie who loves kitties

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Fayard
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Hola!

Thank you very much for your detailed reply, I greatly appreciate it! I am going to searchmore online right now. Asking for samples is a great start.

God bless you!

LSU2001
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I don't know anything about ostomy's or supplies but I would like to mention some exprience I have with chronic and often times severe rectal pain. I see above that your father has some Tramadol available but that is a very weak pain med.  it is a very small amount of opiod with a lot of acetaminophen.  For me it help a tiny bit but was not even close to enough to give me decent pain relief. I am currently prescribed fentanyl patches and a sublingual spray for breakthrough pain but to be honest when my pain is only moderate it seems to me like driving a nail with a sledgehammer.  I have found that using medical marijuana in the form of a concentrated oil (Rick Simpson Oil)  helps  relieve the pain tremedously and helps me use less of the opiod meds another good effect is that it really kicks up my appetite so I can eat even when I really don't want to eat.  I mention this even though I have no clue as to the availablity or legality of making this oil in Venezuela  but I will include a link to a video about this option.  When living in a country where even basic survival is a daily challenge, medical care very limited, and even basic supplies are difficult to find. This may be a helpful alternative to prescription pain meds and it may even help with some anti-cancer properties.  

Video- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DK0NJRJAZag

Tim

 

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Fayard
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Hola,

Yes, Tramadol is weak, but it is what we can find. It is difficult, and if found mega exoensive, to find a stronger prescription. I will pass this along to my brother to see if it is doable.

Thank you very much for sharing! 

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In fact, the 2 may be taken concurrently to enhance the pain relief (tho no more than 3,000mg of acetomenaphen/day).  Tramadol may also be taken with an NSAID (Ibuprophen or Naproxen) but please check with your pharmacist.  I believe I was sent home from my most recent surgery with Tramadol and Acetimenophen.

Alice

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Thank you!

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