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Is this our Brenda?

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foxhd
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is this danbren2?

http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/dundalkeagle/obituary.aspx?n=brenda-sue-curlee&pid=1

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That obit is from 2001.

 

Icemantoo

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foxhd
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feb. 18th, 2017. Where do you get 2001?

Srashedb
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The obit is fr 2/2017; the person died from stroke complications. Did she live in Fla?

Sarah

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I copied the Obit notice you posted and pasted it on my browser

 

Icemantoo

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I got the same result as Iceman.

Stub

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Same result as Iceman.  Been thinking about her like crazy.

Donna~

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I had been reading back when Brenda joined. She mentioned having tests at Georgetown hospital. So I googled Georgetown hospitals to find the cities. Then I checked for local newspapers and the obituaries. In Legacy, the obit notices can be tweaked. I assumed her first name was Brenda. I knew from her profile she was in her 50's. This lady pops up that fits the parameters. And her husband is Dan. And then the picture. And she passed a month after her last post.

Someone else try it. I don't know. The newspaper is The Dundalk Eagle. Dundalk, Md.

I also don't know how to post a better link.

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googled Dan Curlee if that was her husbands name. Coincidence? that he lives in Dundalk, Md.?

Srashedb
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in the obituary, the husband’s name is Marshall, not Dan.

Sarah

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I remember her talking about grandchildren.  The one fox sent doesn't say anything about children or grandchildren. 

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Well if there is one thing about making a mistake it is okay if its not her in this obituary. When I saw her picture I thought she looked familiar. That doesn't mean anything either. 

Fox, why don't you contact administration. They have a way of checking things we cannot. 

But I am glad you are so concerned,

Jan

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http://www.raymondfuneralservice.com/obituaries/Brenda-Kaye/#!/Obituary

courtesy of forum moderator.

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wtvx

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I think Brenda would be honored, Fox and others, that we cared enough to wonder where and how she was doing.

May those kind of connections continue...

RIP sweet Brenda!

Healing hugs of hope and love

Jan

Srashedb
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I was really hoping against hope that there was an error and the first obituary posted was someone else; the second one was sadly, our Brenda.

Rest in Peace, Brenda, Rest In Peace 

Sarah

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Oh no! I was hoping it is not her, looks like it is.  So sorry to hear the sad news. I was wondering about her since i have not seen her post for a while.  Prayers go out to her family.

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Very sad news... Rest in peace, dear Brenda! You had an amazing strength and amazing sense of humor

Alla

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I am so sorry to hear this.

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I was hoping it was wrong. RIP Brenda.

Wehavenotimeatall
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I never crossed paths with Brenda on here but my god reading  her posts.  .her amazing bravery always brings me to tears 

I am still going into a tailspin over  every ache and pain

Brenda seemed to have a very tough journey.. although it sounds like she also had many happy times amongst the pain

Her family must be devastated  to lose such  a special lady

 

Sorry to her family

Annie

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I was hoping & praying that she was just busy playing with that grandbaby.

RIP Brenda, you'll be missed.

Donna~

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I'm glad she was here when the grandbaby arrived...

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Sometimes members of our forum become great role models. When her posts stopped without expectation, some of us old timers notice.

It just doesn't sit well when people you have learned to call friend disappear without warning. There are many more who contributed for significant periods and then went MIA. I can't get many of them out of my mind.

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Rest in peace.

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Thank you Foxhd for searching for her.  I cannot express myself well enough, I wanted to think she was fine, doing well, and did not need us here, that's why the MIA.  I did not want to think she had passed. Still do not.  

But it hit me that she is fine, in the hands of God, and really does not need us here. now.  She belongs to all of us, is part of us, and is done and finished with all the crummy crappy cancer stuff. 

She is free forever.  

Pam

 

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My heart breaks yet again for another dear soul that has left us too soon. Brenda was such a kind and gentle soul. 

Thank you, Foxy for searching for her. You are such a good friend. 

Big hugs to everyone

Jojo

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She was one of the people whose strenght and positiveness had great influence on me when I first joined this forum.  She was as Jojo says, a kind and gentle soul.  RIP dear Brenda

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Thanks for updating us Fox.

Thank you for your caring support over the years Brenda. Rest in peace dear.

Todd

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