Lost

Im not sure what to do. My father-in-law found out he had Mesopotamia on april of last year and he past on june 6 2011. His wonderful beautiful wife had already had a test of her bronchoscamy and they said it was a cousin to tb. She took meds for it for a year and it wasn't getting any better now yesterday they did a biopsy of her lung and they say she has bronchoalveolar cell carcinoma. Dont know yet what stage. What do you recommend as a hospital and dr and treatment. Im heart broke watching my husband and his gamily go three this again. His parents would have been married 50 years last November. Please help!