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Mar 24, 2012 - 9:09 am
I come with a heavy heart today to let you know at 5:06 p.m. last night I watched my husband take his final breaths. With Inger sitting right next to him and me across the room by the window. I know time heals, I know he is no longer in pain from this awful disease, but that alone doesn't take away the great pain I feel. Renee |
Joined: Sep 2011
My sympathy to you and your family
Renee,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Yes, time does heal, but allow yourself time to grieve. You have been through hell and back with Carl during treatment of this awful disease. He is at Peace with Christ our Lord and I hope you can be too. Arms around you from Minnesota on this very sad day for all of you. Prayers to you my dear.
"Minnie"
Joined: Apr 2010
Deepest Sympathy
I can't imagine what words I could say to make you feel better. Just know your pain is felt and are thoughts are with you and your children. You are right, Carl is at peace. Bless you all. Pat
Joined: May 2005
Renee
I'm sorry for your loss.
Peace be with you all...
-phil
Joined: Apr 2011
Heartbreaking
Your whole world has fallen apart. I know, I lost
a 4 year old son from cancer. Right now the pain
is almost unbearable but will ease with time.
Will be praying for you and your family.
Love Linda
Joined: Jun 2009
Condolences to You and Your Family
I watched my wife's mom draw her final breath too...it is heartwrenching to witness.
Just so very sorry, Renee for all that has happened to you. The time and emotions in the final days are extremely draining and exhausting...you gave all that you had to give - and so did Carl.
Hoping that the coming days will provide a closure and a healing for you.
-Craig
Joined: Apr 2010
Renee, I'm so very saddened
Renee, I'm so very saddened to hear of Carl's passing. May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
With sympathy,
Cynthia
Joined: Aug 2011
Renee, I am so sorry for the
Renee, I am so sorry for the loss of Carl, your life partner and children's father. It is hard but there is some peace in knowing he suffers no more. I am sending prayers, love and light to you in the coming months knowing this time will be difficult. Just know you are surrounded by care and love.
Laura
Joined: Jan 2011
Oh Renee
Shedding many tears for you and your family. I am so very sorry for your hurt and pain. I pray for peace and healing for your family.
Hugs
jp
Joined: Feb 2012
I am so sorry.
Renee, I was where you are in 2000 when my husband, Bill, lost his battle with cancer. I am so sorry, for you, for Carl, for your families. You did everything you possibly could to help Carl win this battle. You will need time to heal and grieve. You've been through so much. www.widownet.org was very helpful to me after Bill passed away. It's grief support for widows and widowers. The members there know exactly what you are going through and will go through in the months ahead. I wish you peace and healing.
Sandy
Joined: Jun 2010
of everything I have read
Sandy of everything that has come my way since this happened last night...FBook was even flooded after I made 2 phone calls one to my sister in law so she could go be with my inlaws and one to another dear friend and they got it out before I could even make another call. Anyhow this website direction is possibly the best advice yet. Thank you very much.
I do appreciate all the condolences
renee
Joined: Jan 2010
Dear Renee
Thank you for letting us know about Carl's passing.
While the mind knows that the release from pain and suffering is a good thing, the heart only feels the loss.
I pray that in time you and the children will be able to remember the times you all shared with Carl with smiles instead of tears.
Please come back here to your cyber family when you need a boost or just want to talk. We love you.
Hugs and prayers for you, the children and all the family.
Marie who loves kitties
Joined: Nov 2010
god bless you
dear renee,
i'll be praying for you and your family at church this morning.
godbless you and your kids.
carl is at peace now.
hugs,
pete
Joined: Sep 2011
Renee & Family
Our condolences to you and your family.
Ellen & Pat
Joined: May 2011
So Sorry
Everyone should have a Renee at their side. Thank you for sharing the journey with us. I pray that you and your family will know consolation of loving well. Blessings and peace.
Cathleen Mary
Joined: Mar 2012
So sorry dear Renee
silent greetings
Petra
Joined: Aug 2010
So sorry
Renee,
Mom and I are so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will continue to be in our prayers.
Linda
Joined: Aug 2005
I know....you have a hole in your heart....
....try to fill it with the wonderful memories you two shared...
BIG hugs, Kathi
Joined: Oct 2009
Renee:
I am so very, very sorry.
With deepest sympathy - Tina and George
Joined: Sep 2011
sorry
I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for your family.
Lydia
Joined: Aug 2011
Now matter how much it's
Now matter how much it's expected, it's always heartwrenching to lose a loved one. You were so loving and helpful to him.
God bless Renee~
Joined: Apr 2009
Renee
Please accept my condolences for your loss. May peace be with you and the children.
Luv,
Wolfen
Joined: Jun 2010
I am sorry for your
I am sorry for your loss.
Ketz
Joined: Jan 2010
So sorry
Renee,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear husband.My deepest regards to you and your family at this time of sorrow.
-Pat
Joined: Nov 2001
Sorry Renee
Hugs ,Ron.
Joined: Feb 2011
Oh Renee, I am so very
Oh Renee, I am so very sorry.
Joined: Jul 2011
I am so sorry.
I am so sorry.
Joined: Sep 2011
so sorry renee
My strongest sympathies to you and family with your loss of Carl. Praying everyone the best over the next days. Jeff
Joined: Aug 2010
Feel so sorry Renee .
Acept my deepest condolences, will be praying for you and the kids.
Joined: Apr 2010
Renee
Dearest Renee,
You have my heart dear. I am so sorry for your loss of Carl, but as you have said he is now at peace. It is always harder on the ones left behind. I will be thinking of you and your children as you go through this grief, know that we are with you in spirit.
Love and hugs,
Winter Marie
Joined: Jul 2010
I am so sorry, Renee! My
I am so sorry, Renee! My prayers and thoughts are with you, your children and family now. Your strength and love for your husband have been inspirational.
Joined: Jun 2010
Thank you Renee
for being there for him, and for sharing him with us.
May you keep his memory close,
Blake
Joined: Feb 2008
So sorry
I'm so sorry, Renee. Praying for peace for you.
*hugs*
Gail
Joined: Aug 2011
I am so sorry Renee, this
I am so sorry Renee, this news just breaks my heart. I will fall asleep tonight praying for you and you family. GOD bless you
Brenda
Joined: May 2011
I am so sorry for your loss.
Prayers for healing for you and your family.
NB
Joined: Feb 2012
sorry Renee
Very sorry to hear about your loss, you were there for him through all of this and that is very special. I'm praying for your family. chuck
Joined: Oct 2011
I'm so sorry...
for your loss. It was clear from your posts that you did every thing you could for your dear husband. Having lost my sister to cancer, I have to say I think you loving caregivers have the harder role to play. My prayers are with you and your family-Ann
Joined: Feb 2012
so sorry
i am so very sorry renee
john
Joined: Apr 2010
I'm sorry for your
I'm sorry for your loss.
Erin
Joined: Jan 2011
I am so sorry for your loss,
I am so sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Diane & Roby
Joined: Sep 2009
I am so very sorry for your
I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray for peace and strength for you during this time. RIP
Joined: Jul 2011
I pray for peace for Carl
I pray for peace for Carl and strength for you during what is sure to be difficult days ahead. Lisa
Joined: Jul 2011
I pray for peace for Carl
Double post
Joined: Dec 2009
Renee
I am so sad to read this.
My deepest condolences
Holly
Joined: Oct 2008
Renee
i hate this disease and i am so sorry for your loss...Godbless....johnnybegood
Joined: Jul 2011
I am very sorry for your loss ...
may Carl rest in peace ... and may memories of your time together get you through this difficult time.
Joined: Apr 2009
I'm sorry
I'm sorry for your loss,at least he is not in any more pain.I will keep you in my prayers.
Joined: Oct 2010
Our Thoughts and Prayers
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family. This thing called cancer is a roller coaster with its ups and downs hopes and screams.
Best Always, mike
Joined: Jul 2007
I am so sorry
I am so sorry for your loss, I will keep you and your family in my prayers..
HUGS
Beth