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garden gal
garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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my small intestine formed a fistula out an old incision. Was transpoted from N.H down to Boston for a specalist to take over care. Saw him friday and he decribed the surgery to me and said it was a very serious operation and it could kill me. So needlous to say I hav been a basket case and my family too. All I have done is cry, I have worked and battled this cancer now for 2 1/2 yrs.I don't have options on this.. Any have to go through any thing like this while on chemo?  Kathy
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  • kikz
    kikz Member Posts: 1,345 Member
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    I am sorry
    I can't help you with any information as I have never experienced this problem. Didn't the doctor offer any other source of treatment? Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Karen
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    kikz said:

    I am sorry
    I can't help you with any information as I have never experienced this problem. Didn't the doctor offer any other source of treatment? Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Karen

    no
    no maybe I.ll know more tomorrow. Kathy
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    kikz said:

    I am sorry
    I can't help you with any information as I have never experienced this problem. Didn't the doctor offer any other source of treatment? Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Karen

    no
    no maybe I.ll know more tomorrow. Kathy
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    kikz said:

    I am sorry
    I can't help you with any information as I have never experienced this problem. Didn't the doctor offer any other source of treatment? Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Karen

    no
    no maybe I.ll know more tomorrow. Kathy
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    kikz said:

    I am sorry
    I can't help you with any information as I have never experienced this problem. Didn't the doctor offer any other source of treatment? Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Karen

    no
    no maybe I.ll know more tomorrow. Kathy
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    kikz said:

    I am sorry
    I can't help you with any information as I have never experienced this problem. Didn't the doctor offer any other source of treatment? Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Karen

    no
    no maybe I.ll know more tomorrow. Kathy
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    kikz said:

    I am sorry
    I can't help you with any information as I have never experienced this problem. Didn't the doctor offer any other source of treatment? Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

    Karen

    no
    no maybe I.ll know more tomorrow. Kathy
  • carolenk
    carolenk Member Posts: 907 Member
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    garden gal said:

    no
    no maybe I.ll know more tomorrow. Kathy

    You are supposed to stay on
    You are supposed to stay on chemo while you recover from surgery? That doesn't sound right to me. I would take 6 weeks off chemo after surgery.
  • lovesanimals
    lovesanimals Member Posts: 1,366 Member
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    carolenk said:

    You are supposed to stay on
    You are supposed to stay on chemo while you recover from surgery? That doesn't sound right to me. I would take 6 weeks off chemo after surgery.

    So sorry, Kathy
    I don't have any experience with this but want you to know that I'm praying for you and praying for a good outcome to your problem. Please keep us posted. We care.

    Kelly
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    lovesanimals said:

    So sorry, Kathy
    I don't have any experience with this but want you to know that I'm praying for you and praying for a good outcome to your problem. Please keep us posted. We care.

    Kelly

    they have
    already stopped chemo. sorry for all the duplicate posts using and old computer in the hospital. surgical teams comes in today, the thing is the dr,s words that this could kill me. Fought

    to hard and long feel good no pain ct scan looks good and then hear this, kathy
  • TiggersDoBounce
    TiggersDoBounce Member Posts: 408
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    Kathy,
    Where are you being treated in Boston? Is your family there with you? When is the surgery scheduled for?

    Keeping you in my prayers..

    Laurie
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    TiggersDoBounce said:

    Kathy,
    Where are you being treated in Boston? Is your family there with you? When is the surgery scheduled for?

    Keeping you in my prayers..

    Laurie

    i,m at Mass. General
    Family has coming down every day, it.s been ten days now. I might know more today when the surgeon comes in I hope. realy scared.kathy
  • TiggersDoBounce
    TiggersDoBounce Member Posts: 408
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    garden gal said:

    i,m at Mass. General
    Family has coming down every day, it.s been ten days now. I might know more today when the surgeon comes in I hope. realy scared.kathy

    Kathy
    I am just outside of Boston and am treated at Brigham & Women's/Dana Farber Cancer Center.
    If you need a second opinion, I HIGHLY recommend them.

    If you need company, let me know....I am sure you feel isolated in addition to be scared.
    Have you been in the hospital for 10 days?

    It is great your family is visiting daily...you need as much support as you can get.....

    Stay in touch....Laurie
  • longtermsurvivor
    longtermsurvivor Member Posts: 1,842 Member
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    small bowel-incisional fistula
    This likely relates to prior surgery and immediate post op scar formation. As such, this complication has been in process for quite some time. This can happen after nothing more than benign surgery, it doesn't necessarily relate to cancer.

    If he told you the surgery could kill you, it wasn't a personal assessment of your situation. That would be standard informed consent for the upcoming surgery (orr for any other surgery, for that matter). Yes, it could kill you, but it won't.

    I don't blame you for being scared. There is no way to sugar coat it. This is a pretty major complication, but one that others have survived. Many others, in fact. No offense to another poster, but this is not the time to jump ship and get another opinion. Whomever is seeing you at Mass General will be an expert, and has been down this road many times.

    Stay calm. It is going to be ok.
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    TiggersDoBounce said:

    Kathy
    I am just outside of Boston and am treated at Brigham & Women's/Dana Farber Cancer Center.
    If you need a second opinion, I HIGHLY recommend them.

    If you need company, let me know....I am sure you feel isolated in addition to be scared.
    Have you been in the hospital for 10 days?

    It is great your family is visiting daily...you need as much support as you can get.....

    Stay in touch....Laurie

    Thanks
    Yes I,ve been hear ten days. They have me on tpn and are looking at everything to make sure w hen would be the best time to operate. Would love the company But I'llbe ok just scared.kathy
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    longtermsurvivor said:

    small bowel-incisional fistula
    This likely relates to prior surgery and immediate post op scar formation. As such, this complication has been in process for quite some time. This can happen after nothing more than benign surgery, it doesn't necessarily relate to cancer.

    If he told you the surgery could kill you, it wasn't a personal assessment of your situation. That would be standard informed consent for the upcoming surgery (orr for any other surgery, for that matter). Yes, it could kill you, but it won't.

    I don't blame you for being scared. There is no way to sugar coat it. This is a pretty major complication, but one that others have survived. Many others, in fact. No offense to another poster, but this is not the time to jump ship and get another opinion. Whomever is seeing you at Mass General will be an expert, and has been down this road many times.

    Stay calm. It is going to be ok.

    Thank you
    Yes this is from my hyst. and a large hernia. Just hearing some encouraging thoughts help. Thank you ssooooooooooooo much for the reply. Kathy
  • mopar
    mopar Member Posts: 1,972 Member
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    STAY STRONG, KATHY
    You've been such a strong woman, but don't get down on yourself - your fear is normal. I'm not familiar with this type of situation, but it sounds as though you are in a good hospital. I also wouldn't expect that chemo would continue right after surgery - your body needs time to heal and build your immunities again. But I'm sure that can all be ironed out later.

    Please let us know what they decide to do. Praying that there will be other treatment options, and that the doctor can 'rephrase' his assessment of the surgery to quelch some of your fears.

    Sending hugs and prayers, Kathy.

    Monika
  • ktamp
    ktamp Member Posts: 81
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    I've had two colon
    I've had two colon resections for colon cancer. I assume they are going to do a resection on you? They were hard surgeries but not the end of the world. The worst part was the ng tube used the first time. My hysterectomy was harder than the resections as I had so much endometriosis they had to do alot of clean up. Death is a risk in any surgery. It isn't necessarily an indication of how bad off you are. Ask me anything. I will talk you through what to expect with a bowel resection.
  • Kaleena
    Kaleena Member Posts: 2,088 Member
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    Kathy:I am sorry you have
    Kathy:

    I am sorry you have to go through this. Although I have not had major surgery while on chemo, I did have an open wound while on chemo. I had my hysterectomy and then they found cancer so they a month later did staging surgery going over the same incision from before wherein I developed an infection. I ended up having a 3 in deep open wound which I had packed everyday for at least five weeks until it healed. During that time I also had a port put in place.

    Anyway, all surgeries should be taken seriously. As with police officers, there is no such thing as a "routine traffic stop". Your doctors didn't say that wouldn't do it they just have to tell you the possible consequences (as with any surgery). Did your doctor say that the operation could kill you or that if you don't have the surgery done it could kill you? I know when at the doctors office getting news it can get quite confusing once we focus on one part of the news.

    Sending you comforting hugs.

    Kathy
  • garden gal
    garden gal Member Posts: 212 Member
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    Kaleena said:

    Kathy:I am sorry you have
    Kathy:

    I am sorry you have to go through this. Although I have not had major surgery while on chemo, I did have an open wound while on chemo. I had my hysterectomy and then they found cancer so they a month later did staging surgery going over the same incision from before wherein I developed an infection. I ended up having a 3 in deep open wound which I had packed everyday for at least five weeks until it healed. During that time I also had a port put in place.

    Anyway, all surgeries should be taken seriously. As with police officers, there is no such thing as a "routine traffic stop". Your doctors didn't say that wouldn't do it they just have to tell you the possible consequences (as with any surgery). Did your doctor say that the operation could kill you or that if you don't have the surgery done it could kill you? I know when at the doctors office getting news it can get quite confusing once we focus on one part of the news.

    Sending you comforting hugs.

    Kathy

    thanks everyone
    Doctor said the surgery could kill me, so hearing those words where very hard.
    they will have to remove my bowels,untangle them. the small bowel will be cut and put back together, hernia will be repared and then a mesh liner will be used to hold everthing in place.will keep you updated thanks everyone kathy

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