Coping with cancer, in your 20's or 30's, and live in/around Wilmington NC?

29 yr old wife and 30 yr old husband (has stage 4 colon cancer) looking for friends in the Wilmington area with similar circumstances to meet with and chat with about life in Cancertown and all the fun it brings. Would love to have a friend to go to lunch with, vent to, and share support with. It gets so difficult always having to be the barer of gloom and doom with our cancer free friends.