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an apology for Sharpy

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maglets
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Jun 17, 2011 - 7:24 am

during our most recent disagreements I inserted a simple yawn. Unfortunately this yawn came right after Sophie's post and it honestly was not intended to slur her. I thought her post was wonderful and I should never try to use a joke . The fighing really hurts me, it get's me down, it makes my stomach churn. I should have just written the standard please stop message because i am sure sophie was hurt by my rudeness.

if there is one person on this forum who knows me....could you please help me and reassure the forum that I try very hard not to be rude or unkind to people....

thank you and many sorry hugs to sohpie

mags
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Lovekitties
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Jun 17, 2011 - 8:32 am

You are one of the most kind folks here. I remember clearly when I first came here that you made the effort to not only welcome me but to try to put a smile on my face when I needed it most!

I agree about the disagreements...makes me very uncomfortable, too. Maybe we can come up with something 'silly' to be our own version of CUT IT OUT...lol.

I will stand in line with many here who recognize your warmth and humor, as I hope Sharpy does.

Hugs,

Marie who loves kitties
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Jun 17, 2011 - 8:56 am

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jjaj133
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Jun 17, 2011 - 9:34 am

Mags, I agree with Gracie, I thought you were just telling everyone, that these arguments are getting boring. You are incapable of hurting anyone intentionally. Be gentle with yourself.
Hugs, Judy
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pepebcn
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Jun 17, 2011 - 9:42 am

Kind,fun,polite,educated,is that enough ?.
Love and peace my dear ,keep your humor sense !
Hugs!
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angelsbaby
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Jun 17, 2011 - 11:35 am

Have Always had kind words for me You are not a hurtful person I could tell, take care

huggs

michelle
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scouty
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Jun 17, 2011 - 4:17 pm

Mags!!!

Don't fret, those of us that know you know you would never say anything ill intended to anyone here. I do find it ironic that from those threads only you and two others have apologized publicly. I hope others did privately!

Hope your wedding this weekend is special and have a wonderful summer at the lake!!!

I will miss you.

Love,
Lisa P.
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PhillieG
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Jun 17, 2011 - 12:03 pm

Mags, you're the best!
Timing is everything...
Burp!
-phil
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SisterSledge
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Jun 17, 2011 - 1:17 pm

and wish I'd just left a similar yawning message. Instead, I got angry too and ended up getting called mean spirited and judgmental...because I wanted people here to be kinder...go figure :(
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Kathleen808
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Jun 17, 2011 - 1:23 pm

Mags,
You are wonderful and full of love and support for all of us. We all know it.

Hugs.

Aloha,
Kathleen
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sharpy102
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Jun 18, 2011 - 1:56 am

@Maglet: Like I wrote you in PM, don't worry. I am not mad at you, or anything, and I understood from your PM that you had no intention of hurting me, or anything. Really! No hard feelings whatsoever. True, before you PMed me, I was a bit shocked, and didn't know where to place your yawning message, but after you PMed me, like I replied, I got it, and I am really not angry/mad, or upset, or disappointed. We're friends, okay? I have really no hard feelings for you at all! I believed you in the PM as well as here. Really. Don't worry about me! Please don't "chew yourself" about this. Really! We all make sometimes things that either we didn't mean, or just came down awkward...I did too before. So don't worry, okay? I am fine! You take care of yourself because to me that is far more important than anything! Okay? I love you! :) Here, you get a heart: <3
Please take care, okay?
Sophie
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maglets
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Jun 18, 2011 - 7:30 am

thank you everyone....I am actually sitting in a hotel room this morning and today is my daughter's wedding. So much emotion , so much noise and people roaring about. I do like to be quiet.
remember when we were talking about trauma and stress....well I guess I am just a little unsure today. so many people...kinda makes scares me a lot

oh well soon it will be over and then I will regret having not savoured every moment of the day.

thank you my dear friends...all will be well

mags
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jjaj133
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Jun 18, 2011 - 8:38 am

have a wonderful day, i had so much fun watching my daughters expressions during the day. I still have a lot of those hugs to you and congratulations.
coloCan
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Jun 18, 2011 - 10:23 am

Quite impressive.......steve
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