airports are sad

angelsbaby
angelsbaby Member Posts: 1,165
edited March 2014 in Grief and Bereavement #1
Well i picked up my mother in law yesterday and found that waiting for her to come off the plane there were so many people coming and going so i am sitting right by the gate well it was a hurtful ordeal only because husbands and wifes were hugging and kissing being picked up at the airport by the spouse. I was crying a few times while i was waiting.Thats what i get for being 2 hrs early at the airport. oh well another situation to get threw. Have a good day.


michelle

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  • grandmafay
    grandmafay Member Posts: 1,633
    Hard
    It is hard sometimes to watch couples. It really brings our thoughts to what we are missing. It's not that we don't want them to be happy, we are just sorry that we are no longer a couple. It hurts. Been there. Fay
  • ruthelizabeth
    ruthelizabeth Member Posts: 138

    Hard
    It is hard sometimes to watch couples. It really brings our thoughts to what we are missing. It's not that we don't want them to be happy, we are just sorry that we are no longer a couple. It hurts. Been there. Fay

    yup
    Seeing people hold hands is hard for me. Don always held my hand.
  • Tina Blondek
    Tina Blondek Member Posts: 1,500
    You Are Not Alone
    Hey Michelle
    I know what you are saying. I am a daughter. I was Daddy's Little Girl. Daddy's Right Hand Girl as I helped him through his journey with cancer. We just passed his 6 month mark of his passing. I cried quite a bit yesterday the 9th. It makes me sad and even jealous to see other girls with their dads. Even mad because they still have their dads. Then I finally get a grip on myself and my emotions and realize I have not lost my dad, he is just gone for now...until we meet again. This will happen for wives and husbands too! Thinking of you.
    Tina in Va
  • lilli1020
    lilli1020 Member Posts: 114

    You Are Not Alone
    Hey Michelle
    I know what you are saying. I am a daughter. I was Daddy's Little Girl. Daddy's Right Hand Girl as I helped him through his journey with cancer. We just passed his 6 month mark of his passing. I cried quite a bit yesterday the 9th. It makes me sad and even jealous to see other girls with their dads. Even mad because they still have their dads. Then I finally get a grip on myself and my emotions and realize I have not lost my dad, he is just gone for now...until we meet again. This will happen for wives and husbands too! Thinking of you.
    Tina in Va

    I think it is just normal
    I think it is just normal for us to have feelings of jealousy about couples....all of us were part of a couple and we feel lost being just 1 again. I do anyway....God bless you all!
    Gayle
  • ktlcs
    ktlcs Member Posts: 358
    lilli1020 said:

    I think it is just normal
    I think it is just normal for us to have feelings of jealousy about couples....all of us were part of a couple and we feel lost being just 1 again. I do anyway....God bless you all!
    Gayle

    Very Hard
    For me to watch couples, honestly sometimes I want to smack them! (stupid I know) but I can't help it. I get so jealous that they still have each other and I am alone..

    Kathy