Im worried HELP

im socked i felt anything anyways but i went with the flow of things and now im wondering if i did a NO NO

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You are both young, in love,
You are both young, in love, and married. So, April, I think it is fine if you and your husband have some form of sex. I think the whole point of the no sex rule is to let your insides heal. Anything done on the external part of your body is probably ok. Sexual activity is a release for tension. I think after going through all that you have been experiencing, a little fooling around is in order. You might want to discuss it with your doctor, just in case. But, in my opinion, go for anything external, as long as it doesn't hurt your incision.0 -
)April
We waited 4 weeks and it was fine....I was freaking out on the inside, but all was well.
After all you have been through, they gotta give us somne sort of fun...LOL
Take a great shower and you should be fine
Laurie0 -
April
I was told no sex for 6 weeks and I followed it, but don't think 4 weeks would have caused any issues. What I'd suggest so your nerves are calmed, call the doc office and ask to speak with one of the nurses. They can tell you from your specifics if you should be concerned.
What I've found with any type of procedures and doc recommendations, docs tend to air on side of safety. Meaning 6 weeks might be a bit longer to wait, but 4 weeks with your situation may be just fine.
Best to you and glad you're getting better...
Jan0 -
thanks ladys i was worriedjazzy1 said:April
I was told no sex for 6 weeks and I followed it, but don't think 4 weeks would have caused any issues. What I'd suggest so your nerves are calmed, call the doc office and ask to speak with one of the nurses. They can tell you from your specifics if you should be concerned.
What I've found with any type of procedures and doc recommendations, docs tend to air on side of safety. Meaning 6 weeks might be a bit longer to wait, but 4 weeks with your situation may be just fine.
Best to you and glad you're getting better...
Jan
thanks ladys i was worried about the germs and the Vagina cluff as he is gonna be doing the radition in june some time and i found my self worried sick not knowing then i heard others storys i did wake up this morning in alot of tummy pain and feeling like i was gonna throw up and i had not felt that way for a few ays so unsure if it was due to what happen last night
ya im feeling some beter still at night i get painbut very bad pain since we did somthing last night so i will call the office but very embressed lol
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