CLL and transplant

My husband was diagnosed 9 years ago and has had 2 rounds of chemo. Now the doctor is talking about a transplant. What a dificult discussion to have with family. Our children have lived courageously through this nightmare and now we tell them it is not over. They may be 22 and 25 but it is affecting them more than it seemed to as children. Our son is even talking about dropping out of his final year in University.

Has anyone gone through the transplant route and have any advice or good websites. We truly believe the Lord is there with us but our faith is being severly tested again.
Any thoughts or anecdotes woudl be appreciated.

mrh