Jack is in the final resting stage

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pattynonews
pattynonews Member Posts: 176
edited March 2014 in Caregivers #1
Last night it was so hard,Jack was so agiated so mean to me nothing I did was right and when he woke this morning he was still agiated, then all of a sudden he asked to go outside oe more time, so at first the family did I stayed in the house and he asked for me so I went out there and he wrote on the board Im so sorry to cause you so much grief Patty and I love you and asked to take a shower, so I did, we shaved him cleaned him all up then I put him to bed he grab my face and said I love you and fell a sleep, and never woke up he is still with us but ready to cross, so I did what I promise him but a Jimi Hendrix shirt on lit and incent, gave him his part of outr necklace and put his drum sticks in his hand and said I love you, so now we are just giving him the medication around the clock the nurse does not think he will wake up !!!

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  • pipwe1
    pipwe1 Member Posts: 53
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    patty and jack
    My thoughts and prayers are with you both patty

    wendy
  • MichelleP
    MichelleP Member Posts: 254
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    I'm sorry Patty.....I hope
    I'm sorry Patty.....I hope you got my private message on hospice and meds. My prayers are with you.
  • Buzzard
    Buzzard Member Posts: 3,043 Member
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    MichelleP said:

    I'm sorry Patty.....I hope
    I'm sorry Patty.....I hope you got my private message on hospice and meds. My prayers are with you.

    Sorry Patty.....
    Don't know anything else to say.....Prayers going out to you and yours through this difficult time...Lots of love coming your way........
  • Beckymarie
    Beckymarie Member Posts: 357
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    Patty and Jack...You are in
    Patty and Jack...You are in my prayers. Sorry for all you have gone through. Patty you have been amazing. God bless.
  • newbride
    newbride Member Posts: 142
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    my thoughts are with you
    There's really nothign I can say to you but we are not all that far behind you I know I will be in your situation in just a matter of weeks, if not days.