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Btrcup
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Hi all, I wanted to let my ACS Family know that Scott passed away on Saturday, Oct. 1st. His twin brother was with him. They came into the world together, and I feel it appropriate that they were together for Scott's passing.

I believe Scott was waiting for me to leave. I left Gilchrist Hospice at 8:20pm and Scott passed away at 8:40pm. He is in peace now and no longer in pain.

The kids are doing ok. Kerilyn, our 5 y/o cries but I just tell her that Daddy is an angel now and will always be watching over her. Scotty, our 8 y/o is just being quiet. He doesn't want to talk about it. I told him it is ok to cry, that I've been crying for a long time and it's nothing to be ashamed of. I sent them to school today because I want things to be as normal as possible. I spoke with their teachers and told them to call me if they feel the kids aren't up to staying all day.

I cannot thank you all enough for the love and support which was shown to me throughout this ordeal. You are all my guardian angels.

Linda

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alihamilton
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Linda, my tears flow for you. As I prayed for you and Scott last night, as I always do, I did have a feeling he may have passed. It was his time and, as you say, he is at peace.

You have been a wonderful, strong and supportive wife as well as a caring and loving mother. Scott will live on in his children, so, in some ways, he will always be with you.

Scott put up such a battle! and you were there by his side fighting too. My thoughts are with you as you enter this new phase of your life.

I wonder how his parents are taking the news? I hope they support you now.

Much love,

Ali

joanneire
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Joined: Jun 2005

Dear Linda
I know that words probably seem trivial at a time like this, but you are very much in my thoughts and prayers and I think your bravery and dignity have been an inspiration. Take care of yourself and try to keep strong (but cry when you need to as I think it's therapeutic)
Joanne xx

deneenb
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Joined: Jun 2004

Linda,
My heart sank and tears fell when I read your post. I don't know what to say. There's nothing that can be said that can take away the sorrow you and your children must be feeling. But all of your previous posts have defined you as a very strong and courageous woman who will find a way to get her and her children through this. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely.
Deneen

juliababy
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Joined: Sep 2004

Linda, I am so very very sorry. I truly do hate this disease with a passion.

You, Scott and the kids will be in my prayers. My God grant you peace and comfort at this very trying time.

Susana

themis01
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Joined: Feb 2005

Linda,
I am so sorry to read your post. Scott put up the battle of a lifetime. It does not seem fair that your family has to go through this. I hope that your children will keep Scott close in their hearts and be able to deal with their loss a little better each day.
Erika

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Kanort
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Dearest Linda,

I am so sorry. You and your family are in my heart and prayers. May you find support and comfort with your family and friends. Scott suffered with dignity and grace, and he is now at peace. Please know that this community loves you and will hold you up in the days to come.

Love,

Kay

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kerry
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Linda,

My deepest sympathy for your loss. Yes, I too hate this disease with a passion and hopefully some day families will not have to suffer and grieve over it.

Please let us know how you and the children are doing. Stay strong.

Kerry

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rthornton
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I'm really very sorry to read about all of this. Your story has been inspirational in ways you probably cannot even imagine. The ways that you have been so strong, and there for the kids ... it's really amazing. I wish you the best in the future, and also for your children. I hope it helps your Kerilyn to know that Daddy is an angel looking after her.

Rodney

CAMaura
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Linda - I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace and strength. Take care - Maura

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Betsydoglover
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Linda - I am so sorry for your loss. You, Scott and the children will be in my prayers. May your children be a comfort to you in this time. Betsy

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goldfinch
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linda,
I am so sorry to hear this news. May the memories you and Scott created support you during this difficult time. I will be sending up prayers for you and your son and daughter. They are lucky to have such a wise and loving mom.
Mary

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ramona41
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Sending hugs and prayers.. thank you for letting us know .. geeez i hate this disease.. and i wish i had more words of comfort for you... thinking of you and your family...love ramona

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Moesimo
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Linda,

I am sending hugs and my deepest sympathy to you and the children. You are right, Scott is at peace now. You were a great wife and caregiver. I hope that you keep in touch and let us know how you are doing.

Maureen

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Lisa Rose
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Linda, Scotty & Kerilyn

My deepest sympathy. Please know your in my thoughts & prayers in the days ahead......

Lisa Rose
xo

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scouty
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Linda honey,

You know you and your family have been in my hourly prayers for a while and will continue to be.

Now, I must thank you for helping me to learn the caregiver side of this horrid disease. Like Kanga, I agree that it is harder on you then us "patients". You have been so wonderful to and for Scott. Thank you for being you. You are a phenomenial woman and mother. I am honored to know you.

Lisa P.

Glv49
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Linda,
May God grant you and your children strength and peace, and Scott eternal rest with him. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Gail

livin
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My Condolences to you and your family. May God give you the strength to carry on, you are a inspiration to all of us. May peace be with you and your family. God Bless you all, Livin.

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chynabear
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Linda,

You are such an amazing woman. Strong, caring, and loving. I hate that you and your family have to experience such a loss. Scott has found his peace. May you and your family find peace as well. God Bless You.

Tearfully,

Patricia

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johnom
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Dear Linda,
Peace...true peace is a wonderful place to be. You are one of the bravest people I have ever heard of. God bless you and your children. They do have a guardian angel now. Take care of yourself as well. You are a very special mom.
Sincerely,

John

taraHK
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Joined: Aug 2003

Dear Linda,
My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. My prayers are with you and your children as you deal with this terrible loss. And I join you in celebrating the life of a wonderful man. Take care of yourself.
Love, Tara

finner
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Hello Linda, I have been reading your posts and yes as others have said, you are a very brave lady. What an awful time for you. i don't know what else to say, except thst I will be sending white light to you to give you strength to get through this.

Hugs
Margo

nettie4
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linda. i am so sorry. i pray that the strength that only God can give will be wrapped around you and your children. you have been through alot and peace i pray for you.

nettie

neeliec
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Sooo sorry for your loss. I will keep you and children in my prayers, that God will give you peace in the midst of such terrible tragedy and great pain. blessings, neelieC

oneagleswings
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I am so so sorry to read your news Linda. I hope and pray you and your children are blessed with continued strength.

Maybe you can find some peace thinking of Scott in the words of my favorite hymn..

"and He will raise you up on angel's wings
and bear you on the breath of dawn
make you shine like the sun
and hold you in the palm of His hand."

God bless you and your children.
Bev

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kangatoo
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Dear Linda. You have been such a brave and courageous lady to have been able to continue to come here and share your life with us during such a traumatic time. We have sincerely shared those moments with you in our thoughts and now we grieve with you. In all sincerity Linda, our hearts and thoughts reach out to you, Scotty and Kerilyn. One day you will follow that rainbow and be with your beloved Scott. Until that time we know he is watching over you. Sleep peacefully Scott.
All our love, always, Ross and Jen

tkd3g
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Linda,

What can anyone say? God bless you and the children. Scott is most certainly an angel, forever by your side.

I want to thank you for sharing Scott with us. We are all a great big family here. Young and old(er), weak and strong, men and women. Scott fought hard and with such dignity. You were his right hand lady. Strong, brave, loving.

May God grant you and your family peace. I feel honored to "know" you and Scott. Thank you.

Peace and Love to you,

Barb

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2bhealed
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((((((Linda)))))))

thankfully kanga tipped me off that this post was here or I would have missed seeing this.

I am so sorry for your loss and what you and your children will be going through. You remain in my prayers continuously.

I am so glad to have known you and thank you for sharing so candidly your stuggles and Scott's battle. You are an incredible soul.

We are here for you. :-)

peace, emily

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BusterBrown
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Linda:
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss...You are to be commended/heralded/lauded for the way you cared for Scott. You are truely a remarkable person.
Buster...

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taunya
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Linda,
I am so sorry to hear this news. It just breaks my heart. I am thinking of you and the kids and I will keep you all in my prayers. You were such a wonderful wife and I know that Scott could not have had a better partner to help him through this ordeal. God bless you and the children. I am just so sorry. Sending love and kind thoughts.
Love and Hugs,
Taunya

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