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Thanks SpongeBob and Judy

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Joined: Feb 2004

Thanks guys. I am udp right now in Japan and will be home again in April. We live in New Bern NC and my wife is seeing a onc from there. I need some advice/help in helping her deal with this. She has a lot going on right now and on top of all of it has our 2 children to take care of. Do you have any advice on how I can help her? I don't want to do or say something I think is helpful and have it end up doing the oposite. It really sucks being away like this, not being there for her. Any advice on this will be greatly appreciated. You can e-mail me at clarkaw@1mawmag12.usmc.mil if it is easier that way. I could also use a little help in dealing with it myself.

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Tony -

Understand your situation. I'll e-mail you SEPCOR.

- Bob

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Real tough stuff Tony--luckily we were both together when I was diagnosed--what can a fella say?
Be there for her on the l/line--email--whatever.You are both obviously very worried and understandably concerned.For yourself you need a buddy you can talk too--seek out someone you think will be able to "listen" to your concerns---it really is amazing how many people will lend an ear.Maybe they can't do a lot to help--but you need someone to share your feelings with--don't try to do it alone!Even though Jen and I are very close I sought out a friend of hers(lady) and asked her to lend a consoling ear to Jen to help her deal with the worries of having a husband with cancer.
You can't be there in body mate---but am sure she understands that.Listen to her--it will be frustrating--god knows we have been there.Support from any quarter is what you need--NO--it is not sympathy--it is peoples uncanny way of just being there to help people in need of support.
our best to you both,
kanga and Jen

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