count down to husbands surgery

lcarper2
lcarper2 Member Posts: 635 Member
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
Well we go monday for his bladder cancer surgery and I got to tell you I am gettin worried. I think because of what I have been throught and I know what the out come could be I am more aware of all the what if's and what not's...I am very positive about all this but it is the VA and they never talk to me only him. The only time I get to talk is when they come out after the operation and explain things...up till then I am kept in the dark. this has been the way it was even before I got cancer. Never bothered me till now and he doesn't say anything acts like it is no big deal.This time I said remember what I have been through so please don't treat me like a mushroom keeping me in the dark and feeding me bull crap. Not this time I will let that doctor have it he will talk to me or know I was there. anyway thanks for letting me vent...will post how things turn out..I told my ONC I was holding off my Xeloda for the weekend cause it makes a bear out of me and didn't want to end up in jail.LOL

Louann

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  • geotina
    geotina Member Posts: 2,111 Member
    #2
    Louann
    I wish you and your husband the very best with his upcoming surgery on Monday. Please let us know how things go. I will be thinking of you two all day Monday. Take care - Tina
  • lcarper2
    lcarper2 Member Posts: 635 Member
    #3
    geotina said:

    Louann
    I wish you and your husband the very best with his upcoming surgery on Monday. Please let us know how things go. I will be thinking of you two all day Monday. Take care - Tina

    Thank You
    I have always been one to handle stress but this cancer stuff is a different kind of stress...
    will post monday night when we get home with the results
  • Fight for my love
    Fight for my love Member Posts: 1,522 Member
    #4
    I totally understand how you
    I totally understand how you feel.I was very very worried before my husband's surgery,but I didn't forget to pack the things that he may need during his stay in the hospital. Wish all the best to you and your husband.I hope the outcome will be good.Good luck to your husband with his surgery.You are in my prayers.Take care.
  • coloCan
    coloCan Member Posts: 1,944 Member
    #5
    Fight for my love said:

    I totally understand how you
    I totally understand how you feel.I was very very worried before my husband's surgery,but I didn't forget to pack the things that he may need during his stay in the hospital. Wish all the best to you and your husband.I hope the outcome will be good.Good luck to your husband with his surgery.You are in my prayers.Take care.

    Wishing best of results for your husband
    and you do deserve to know what's going on as much as your husband;none of my doctors object to my girlfriend being with me or asking questions as we're in this together, like you and your husband (and at times they'd rather ask her how I'm doing than me).....Steve
  • lcarper2
    lcarper2 Member Posts: 635 Member
    #6
    Fight for my love said:

    I totally understand how you
    I totally understand how you feel.I was very very worried before my husband's surgery,but I didn't forget to pack the things that he may need during his stay in the hospital. Wish all the best to you and your husband.I hope the outcome will be good.Good luck to your husband with his surgery.You are in my prayers.Take care.

    thank you
    I will let you know the out come it is going to be day surge
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
    #7
    Don't go to jail!
    No, we definitely don't want you going to jail! *grins* I'll be praying that praying that everything goes very well.

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • lcarper2
    lcarper2 Member Posts: 635 Member
    #8
    tootsie1 said:

    Don't go to jail!
    No, we definitely don't want you going to jail! *grins* I'll be praying that praying that everything goes very well.

    *hugs*
    Gail

    anyone on chemo
    they don't want to put in a jail LOL thank you :)
  • Kathleen808
    Kathleen808 Member Posts: 2,342 Member
    #9
    Louann
    I'm keeping you and your hubby in my thoughts. We'll be waiting to hear how everything goes.

    Aloha,
    Kathleen
  • lcarper2
    lcarper2 Member Posts: 635 Member
    #10
    Kathleen808 said:

    Louann
    I'm keeping you and your hubby in my thoughts. We'll be waiting to hear how everything goes.

    Aloha,
    Kathleen

    thank you
    we will be home tomorrow if all goes well and I will post the out come
  • PhillieG
    PhillieG Member Posts: 4,866 Member
    #11
    Hang in there
    LouAnn,
    Hang in there, stay strong.
    {hugs}
    -phil
  • AnneCan
    AnneCan Member Posts: 3,673 Member
    #12
    Thinking of you + sending positive thoughts your way!
    Thinking of you + sending positive thoughts your way!
  • lcarper2
    lcarper2 Member Posts: 635 Member
    #13
    AnneCan said:

    Thinking of you + sending positive thoughts your way!
    Thinking of you + sending positive thoughts your way!

    Thank You
    accepting them gracefully
  • lcarper2
    lcarper2 Member Posts: 635 Member
    #14
    PhillieG said:

    Hang in there
    LouAnn,
    Hang in there, stay strong.
    {hugs}
    -phil

    Phil
    Thank you will do

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