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idlehunters said:

OOOOOOOOOOOOK!
I have two questions. I am not holding back..ya'll said NOT to......


1) My husband and I are VERY oral people. Will eating semen hurt you in any way? I read the thread about chemo in bodily fluids. We honestly never gave it any thought until I read that thread. My Onc never said not to ingest it. He never said anything bout sex.

2) My surgery removed the large intestine. Can I still have anal sex???


Jennie

Jennie
to be really honest, I've wondered these same things. We quit oral sex. Well, I didn't, but I just have a problem with him going down on me since I'm still on chemo. The thoughts of it in my bodily fluid just seems to icky. He does wear a condom since I'm on chemo.

I've wondered about the anal sex thing. I enjoy it. My surgery was so low that there is only about 3 inches of rectum left and then the anastomosis and will it hurt? Will it feel like it used to? Most importantly, since my bowels don't work like they used to, I'd be scared I'd poop all over him. Maybe this would be better in the shower? LOL

You're questions sure don't bother me. Sex is talked quite a bit in this household. We love sex and I don't plan on quitting any time soon.

Buzzard said:

miss vickie
As far as post op chemo that is an individual decision that I will beg to decline that answer. I chose my option and you both made the decision for yourself to not have it . That is just something that is left to an individual and what they think is necessary for their health. As far as sex and post op chemo I do think it made me sick enough to not want to fool with anything, didn't have the strength or desire to even try. Radiation I didn't have any problems just slight mild sunburn and as I remember my "finish" was a little painful.
Surgery , well, surgery, it saved my life, and it has been very detrimental to my sexual prowess, feeling, and libido. When they do surgery down there they remove a lot of nerve endings or have a tendancy to destroy a lot of the nerves that allows us to get an erection, ejaculate, or even feel the desire that these areas of the body hold, thus when this happens (and its suppose to happen in about 50% of men with this type surgery) then the libido, and desire wans for no other reason that I guess when a cat or dog gets castrated, all hey wanna do is lay around and get fat and sassy, their desire is gone. So it goes for the male (as far as me, I am only speaking for what I go through ) what we did (wife and I ) is really get into depth about what bothers us and how we can repair it. The heavy muscle spasms in the rectal area are ever so present when orgasm occurs. I had my backside sewn shut so I don't really know whats going on back there but it is very "different"...not so much uncomfortable, just very different....I would think its normal........Good Luck, Buzz

colon cancer after math
thabks buzzard, ok but for the muscle spasums hes having itsnot during any kind of sex play or sex hes just siting there and has them sometimes bad and as far as sex goes well hes gonna ask for the blue pill will see but its like he wants on touching playing or antything its just gone its very difficult he will have a colonoscopy by the end of month maybe thenwe will be able to find more out on different things thanks again