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My friends ... update on my husband

devotion10
devotion10 CSN Member Posts: 623 Member
edited May 2013 in Colorectal Cancer #1

I have not been on the board in a while because my husband has taken a serious turn for the worse.  It was rather sudden actually and we are now in our end days together with in-home hospice.  Thank you to those who sent me private messages inquiring about my family. 

To all who I have shared time with here ... thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kindness and compassion.  I will come back to let you know when my husband has passed.

To all the newcomers ... I am so sorry that you need this forum, but I can assure you that you will not find a finer group of individuals for support and knowledge. 

My best to all. ~ Cynthia

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  • LivinginNH
    LivinginNH CSN Member Posts: 1,456 Member
    #2
    Oh dear, I'm so truly sorry

    Oh dear, I'm so truly sorry to hear this news.  Heartbreaking....

    I'll be in touch, stay strong my friend.    :'(

    Cyn

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  • annalexandria
    annalexandria CSN Member Posts: 2,571 Member
    #3
    I'm so sorry, Cynthia.

    I have been thinking of you all.  Sending strength and love your way.  AA

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  • Trubrit
    Trubrit CSN Member Posts: 5,808 Member
    #4
    So very sorry!

    I am so very sorry.  I hope your end days will be filled wth love and comfort to you and your husband. 

    I can't say more. Death, even of those I haven't met, saddens me greatly. 

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  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 CSN Member Posts: 6,744 Member
    #5
    Sorry

    I'm so sorry that he has taken this turn.  I'm praying that these last days with your husband will be peace filled.

    Kim

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  • KathiM
    KathiM CSN Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    #6
    I am wrapping my arms around you, dear one!

    I wish for you, comfort, for him, peace....

    Hugs, Kathi

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  • herdizziness
    herdizziness CSN Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    #7
    Cynthia

    Oh Dear Lady, we are with you both in spirit.  I am so sorry, and send my compassion and love to you both.

    Hugs,

    Winter Marie

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  • barbebarb
    barbebarb CSN Member Posts: 464
    #8
    herdizziness said:

    Cynthia

    Oh Dear Lady, we are with you both in spirit.  I am so sorry, and send my compassion and love to you both.

    Hugs,

    Winter Marie

    Dear Cynthia
    Have been praying and thinking of both of you. You have been a source of encouragement and strength on the boards.
    Wrapping my arms around both of you during this time. I am very sorry and send warmth
    and love to both of you.
    Barb
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  • Dyanclark
    Dyanclark CSN Member Posts: 296
    #9
    So upsetting

    This year is turning out to be a sad one.   

    Sending hugs, George & Dyan

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  • jen2012
    jen2012 CSN Member Posts: 1,607 Member
    #10
    Very sorry Cynthia.
    Very sorry Cynthia.
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  • Semira
    Semira CSN Member Posts: 381 Member
    #11
    Dear Cynthia

    I'm so sorry to read you message. A gentle hug and sending much strength

    Petra

     

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  • wolfen
    wolfen CSN Member Posts: 1,324 Member
    #12
    Semira said:

    Dear Cynthia

    I'm so sorry to read you message. A gentle hug and sending much strength

    Petra

     

    Cynthia

    I'm so sorry to hear this news. My heart is with you in this most difficult time.

    Luv,

    Wolfen

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  • Chelsea71
    Chelsea71 CSN Member Posts: 1,169 Member
    #13
    So sorry to hear of this
    So sorry to hear of this sudden turn for the worse. Stay strong. Will be thinking of you.

    Chelsea
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  • lilacbrroller
    lilacbrroller CSN Member Posts: 412 Member
    #14
    very sorry

    I'm so sorry about your husband.  Five years of living with this disease is terrific. He's a lucky man.

    My thoughts are with you during these difficult times.

     

    Karin

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  • johnnybegood
    johnnybegood CSN Member Posts: 1,117 Member
    #15
    lilacbrroller said:

    very sorry

    I'm so sorry about your husband.  Five years of living with this disease is terrific. He's a lucky man.

    My thoughts are with you during these difficult times.

     

    Karin

    so sad

    for your news.as you may not know my mom(wolfen) and i have been thru the same thing with my stepdad only just a few weeks ago.stay strong in the Lord and he will get you both thru this....Godbless...johnnybegood

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  • cinreag
    cinreag CSN Member Posts: 154
    #16
    So sorry for what you and
    So sorry for what you and your family are going through.
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  • wawaju04976
    wawaju04976 CSN Member Posts: 316 Member
    #17
    Very sorry to hear

    Very sorry to hear this...

    Judy

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  • Sundanceh
    Sundanceh CSN Member Posts: 4,392 Member
    #18
    Thanks for Posting, Cynthia

    Things can just turn so quickly anymore, it seems. 

    Glad that you can have this time together and that it will be all that it can be for the both of you.

    We'll leave the light on for you:)

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  • Phil64
    Phil64 CSN Member Posts: 838 Member
    #19
    prayers for you

    Cynthia, you are in my prayers and thoughts. I hope that you and your husband will find peace at this time.

     

    Hugs,

    Phil

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  • AnnLouise
    AnnLouise CSN Member Posts: 276 Member
    #20
    Cynthia.....

    You have been in my thoughts so much lately...I am so sorry to hear about your husbands turn for the worse  You have been so wonderful and strong. Now if you need some strength, we are all here for you. You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers. ~ Ann

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  • Momof2plusteentwins
    Momof2plusteentwins CSN Member Posts: 509 Member
    #21
    Cynthia
    So sorry to read you're news. This disease is so terrible and robs people of their retirement years. May you find peace in his final days.
    Sandy
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