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Stomaversary

1 year ago today I had surgery to remove my tumor and woke up with a perm colostomy. I have had no evidence of disease since and hope it stays that way. After surgery healed I did almost 4 months of oxi/5fu couldnt finish the entire regimen of oxi. I have had 2 CT scans in the last year and multiple blood draws CEA is normal and NED on the scans. I still have very painful neuropathy in my feet. Tried Gabipentin didnt touch it started Lyrica 100mg 3 times a day a few months ago still not much improvment. If I have to live with it to be NED i'll take it but I really hope it eventually subsides. I really can not walk for exersize.
I have not been very active on this site for awhile....three deaths of people I got to know here in a short period really bummed me out... I was trying to be positive and found myself getting negative Dr. orders take a break from the internet.
I thank each and every one of you that have helped me along the way i am very grateful for you all. I still lurk every week but only comment if I think I can help.
Good Health to you all,
Tom
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dearest tomTMac52 said:Thanks
Thank you Tommycat........thats reasuring to know it still may go away.
dearest tom.....what a wonderful message from you. I am so happy to hear you are ned. Completely understand the blows of the deaths....it shakes you to the core....glad you followed docs orders.
the oxy is a kicker dat's for sure! I don not have neuropathy and I am grateful for that....I am hoping yours will gradually recede. Lovely to see your face and to hear from you.
all biggest hugs
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You are missed in the board Tom !maglets said:dearest tom
dearest tom.....what a wonderful message from you. I am so happy to hear you are ned. Completely understand the blows of the deaths....it shakes you to the core....glad you followed docs orders.
the oxy is a kicker dat's for sure! I don not have neuropathy and I am grateful for that....I am hoping yours will gradually recede. Lovely to see your face and to hear from you.
all biggest hugs
maggie
Congratulations in your stormaniversary!
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Happy Stomaversery
Mine is on 1-10.
How are you doing with the stoma now? Figure out the clothes? If I remember you ride a motorcycle and had a concern about shirts to wear.
Mine has, for the most part, been well behaved, and I have found ways to adapt my wardrobe. Quitting working solved any issues I had with suits, and certainly with the inappropriate noises during meetings.
Hope all continues to be well with you, and do believe that you will find a way to deal with the neuropathy (I find a low dose, fast acting pain medication (something for breakthrough pain) helps with walking, but your mileage may vary.
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Stomaversary
That's a new one Tom and Congrats to you!
There was a thread here recently about diabetic socks helping with neuropathy and I find that smearing a soothing, healing lotion all over my feet and then putting on loose cotton socks to sleep in really helps. Once I starting walking, that is when mine became tolerable.
Dorookie started the thread about help for neuropathy and it is probably on page 2 maybe 3 by now. There was some good stuff on it if I remember correctly.
Thanks for the good news and for checking in.
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I had to laugh....
when I read your title to your post. This morning, I'm headed out the door to work and my dear husband says, "Have a good day and by the way, Happy Anniversary!". I'm like, oh crap, I thought we were married in month of April? What have I missed here? He laughed (which he doesn't do a lot of anymore) and said, "Today is our 3 month anniversay of me pooping in a bag and you packing my a$$".
Of course, I cried all the way to work, but am so grateful we have reached this point, because I am fully aware that things could be so much worse.
Congrats to you. Will post when he reaches his 1 year with glee!
Deb -
Thanks Guys and Galsddpekks said:I had to laugh....
when I read your title to your post. This morning, I'm headed out the door to work and my dear husband says, "Have a good day and by the way, Happy Anniversary!". I'm like, oh crap, I thought we were married in month of April? What have I missed here? He laughed (which he doesn't do a lot of anymore) and said, "Today is our 3 month anniversay of me pooping in a bag and you packing my a$$".
Of course, I cried all the way to work, but am so grateful we have reached this point, because I am fully aware that things could be so much worse.
Congrats to you. Will post when he reaches his 1 year with glee!
Deb
I really love this board and all who participate in it....you can almost bring a guy to tears...:) -
Hi Tom!!!!TMac52 said:Thanks Guys and Gals
I really love this board and all who participate in it....you can almost bring a guy to tears...:)
I am so happy to hear all is good for you. You are such a great person! You keep taking good care of yourself and I'll pray your nueropathy goes away!
Jennie -
TMac...good for you......idlehunters said:Hi Tom!!!!
I am so happy to hear all is good for you. You are such a great person! You keep taking good care of yourself and I'll pray your nueropathy goes away!
Jennie
enjoy every day buddy.....neuropathy in the grand scheme isn't a lot to deal with...My fingers are back normal and my middle 3 toes on each side will probably always be numb...Its ok though.....Great to see you again, and I understand Oh So Well about breaks from here............Love to ya bud, Buzz
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