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belindahill
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My bravest strongest man Ian passed away on the 27th August to this terrible disease, he was taken from me far too young, I hometown him when I was 17 and he was 18, we met 38 years ago today. I have had the best of life with him and he loved me very very much, we had 2 lovely daughters and 3 grandchilren. I'm so so angry, I miss him so much, why us???? He tried for 3 years to fight and gave his very best every day, the chemo made him so poorly, he never complained or moaned once, he worked all the way through, only gave up 5 weeks before he died. Ian if you can hear me pet I love you with all my heart, and never ever wanted to be without you life is so cruel . 

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lp1964
Posts: 825
Joined: Jun 2013

What can one say in a situation like this, but to say we are sorry for your loss. We ask ourselves questions that cannot be answered . Why we, why now, why so soon? This pain only can be eased by time and we have to go through the process. Can't rush it.

Just like the way he did, work through the pain and the tough times, celebrate the wonderful things and memories you and your family had and build the future without him on that.

I wish you and your kids the strength to work through this and to be able to honor his life by all of you living a wonderful, healthy  life.

Laz

jasminsaba
Posts: 149
Joined: Jul 2011

words don't suffice ... but I want you to know that I am very sorry for your loss and pray for your strength during this very difficult time. You were blessed to have had each other and he will continue to live in your heart.

 

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LivinginNH
Posts: 1258
Joined: Apr 2010

My heart just breaks for you, I'm so very sorry...

My condolences,

Cynthia

 :'(

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LivinginNH
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Joined: Apr 2010

Please feel free to send me a PM if you want to talk.

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Trubrit
Posts: 1277
Joined: Jan 2013

Such a tragic loss for you and your family. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. 

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geotina
Posts: 2042
Joined: Oct 2009

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Ian.  I also lost my husband after a 3 1/2 year battle.  It is so very difficult. 

With deepest sympathy - Tina

 

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Lovekitties
Posts: 2878
Joined: Jan 2010

I am so very sorry to hear that you have lost your loving hubby.

May you and all who loved him find some ease of the loss by remembering the wonderful man he was and the good times together.

Marie who loves kitties

Chelsea71
Posts: 1167
Joined: Sep 2012

I am so sorry.  I, too, lost my husband one month ago.  If you ever want to chat please send me a pm.  I bet he was a really great guy.

 

My condolences,

Chelsea

Cathleen Mary
Posts: 516
Joined: May 2011

 

I am so sorry to hear of Ian's death.  My heart aches for you and your family. Your every post showed your love for him both as his wife and caregiver. I pray that your emptiness will be eased by peace and knowing what an amazing love you had.  Nothing can take that from you. 

Hugs,

Cathleen Mary

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maglets
Posts: 2396
Joined: Jun 2006

oh I am so so very sorry to hear this news.  Your love does indeed shine through and always did...your incredible fight together against this ghastly disease.....

I send you deepest love.....and pray for strength for you and your family

mags

jen2012
Posts: 1184
Joined: Aug 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts ans prayers are with you.

UncleBuddy
Posts: 511
Joined: Aug 2013

I am so sorry for your loss!

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Kathleen808
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Joined: Jan 2009

I am so very sorry.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  I know Ian meant the world to you.

 

Aloha,

Kathleen

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Semira
Posts: 264
Joined: Mar 2012

... so just a silent hug from germany

sending you strength

Petra

Luckygirl2
Posts: 307
Joined: Mar 2012

And thoughts to you and your family.

janderson1964
Posts: 1499
Joined: Oct 2011

I am so sorry for your loss.

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thingy45
Posts: 567
Joined: Apr 2011

So very sorry that Ian lost his fight. It is not easy to pick up the pieces and move on, I wish you strength.

cherish your memories,

hugs Marjan

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annalexandria
Posts: 2170
Joined: Oct 2011

My heart hurts for you, and for Ian.

Sending love your way~AA

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toyfox
Posts: 146
Joined: Apr 2011

So sorry for your loss.

It just breaks my heart every time I read of another
loss from this terrible disease.

Linda

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Annabelle41415
Posts: 4187
Joined: Feb 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss.  He was lucky to have you as his caregiver.  My sympathies to you and your family.

Kim

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Maxiecat
Posts: 524
Joined: Jul 2012

My heart breaks for you.  Try to stay strong and if you need to talk we are all here for you.

 

alex

here4lfe
Posts: 294
Joined: Jan 2010

The love for your Ian is evident in your note. Just know that love lasts.

-Best

 

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dorookie
Posts: 1681
Joined: Jul 2007

I am so sorry for your loss, but I am so glad you had that many years together and happy years, God Bless...

 

Beth

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