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bjmom1
bjmom1 Member Posts: 152
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I need to vent my cancer have come back in my left hip. I was just diagnosis in April that I have bone met in my back and spot in my strenum. Today I had a bone scan to see if it went any where else. I am starting to get more depress because as soon as I think I am able to deal with one thing something else happen. Right now I think life suck. I keep getting bad news and nothing seem to be going my way. I just want to stay in bed and shut myself from world.

Thanks for letting me vent.

P.S. Have anyone have recurrence in the hip and what treatment did you recieve.

Barb
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  • New Flower
    New Flower Member Posts: 4,294
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    Barb
    sorry. Many positive thoughts will be coming your way from this board. There are several members who had similar situation and I am sure they will get in touch with you. As far as I understand the common practice to treat hips with radiation. I read it should stop mets.
    I hope you will feel stronger and continue fighting. Sending you positive thoughts and big hug.
    New Flower
  • DebbyM
    DebbyM Member Posts: 3,289 Member
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    New Flower said:

    Barb
    sorry. Many positive thoughts will be coming your way from this board. There are several members who had similar situation and I am sure they will get in touch with you. As far as I understand the common practice to treat hips with radiation. I read it should stop mets.
    I hope you will feel stronger and continue fighting. Sending you positive thoughts and big hug.
    New Flower

    I am so sorry Barb.
    I am so sorry Barb. New Flower is right about treating with rads as far as I know.



    Sending you prayers and hugs!
  • greyhoundluvr
    greyhoundluvr Member Posts: 402
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    Barb -
    So sorry to hear that you are having more problems. I haven't had to deal with this but I am in a clinical trial for Zometa. I don't know if this would apply in your case but this is an infusion drug that is used to treat osteoporosis. My understanding is that it is also used to treat bone metastasis and has been pretty successful. The current clinical trial is for early stage breast cancer because when the did the study with the bone mets, they unexpectedly found that it not only treated the existing bone metastasis but seemed to also prevent metastasis to other sites and recurrences. It might be something to ask your doctor about if you're not already receiving.

    I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers....

    Chris
  • Sunrae
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    greyhoundluvr said:

    Barb -
    So sorry to hear that you are having more problems. I haven't had to deal with this but I am in a clinical trial for Zometa. I don't know if this would apply in your case but this is an infusion drug that is used to treat osteoporosis. My understanding is that it is also used to treat bone metastasis and has been pretty successful. The current clinical trial is for early stage breast cancer because when the did the study with the bone mets, they unexpectedly found that it not only treated the existing bone metastasis but seemed to also prevent metastasis to other sites and recurrences. It might be something to ask your doctor about if you're not already receiving.

    I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers....

    Chris

    I'm so sorry to hear about
    I'm so sorry to hear about your latest bad news. I was feeling sorry for myself today until I read your post. You can vent here anytime and we'll be here for you. I don't have your problems but wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and let us know how you're doing.
  • Kylez
    Kylez Member Posts: 3,761 Member
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    Sunrae said:

    I'm so sorry to hear about
    I'm so sorry to hear about your latest bad news. I was feeling sorry for myself today until I read your post. You can vent here anytime and we'll be here for you. I don't have your problems but wanted to let you know you're in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and let us know how you're doing.

    I am sorry to read this. I
    I am sorry to read this. I don't know much about the cancer you have now, but, want to say I am thinking of you and praying for you.

    KYLEZ ♥
  • jnl
    jnl Member Posts: 3,869 Member
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    Kylez said:

    I am sorry to read this. I
    I am sorry to read this. I don't know much about the cancer you have now, but, want to say I am thinking of you and praying for you.

    KYLEZ ♥

    Sending you prayers and
    Sending you prayers and hugs. I am sorry this has happened to you.

    Hugs, Leeza
  • Different Ballgame
    Different Ballgame Member Posts: 868
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    You are the third posting that I have read tonight who has a recurrence, though each one has a different site for the recurrence. This is spooky.

    I also had a recurrence (3 years later on my breast scar).

    All I can advise you is to continue to post on this site, letting us know how you are doing and what you are feeling. This site is a wonderful source for support and knowledge.

    I am sending you my strength, love, hugs, and kisses.

    Affectionately,
    Janelle
  • survivorbc09
    survivorbc09 Member Posts: 4,374 Member
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    Different Ballgame said:

    You are the third posting that I have read tonight who has a recurrence, though each one has a different site for the recurrence. This is spooky.

    I also had a recurrence (3 years later on my breast scar).

    All I can advise you is to continue to post on this site, letting us know how you are doing and what you are feeling. This site is a wonderful source for support and knowledge.

    I am sending you my strength, love, hugs, and kisses.

    Affectionately,
    Janelle

    Vent all you want Barb.
    Vent all you want Barb. Stay strong and know that we all support you thru this terrible time. Praying for you!

    Let us know how you are doing when you can.

    HUGS!
  • ms.sunshine
    ms.sunshine Member Posts: 707 Member
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    This is the 3rd reocurrence
    This is the 3rd reocurrence that I have read about. You have to keep battling, don't stay in bed. Find out what needs to be done, and fight. My heart goes out to you. Strength and courage is inside you dear sister, bring it forth.

    You can, you will, you have, you won.
    Hugs 2 u Barb
    Jennifer
  • 2Floridiansisters
    2Floridiansisters Member Posts: 384 Member
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    I think all this recurrance crap stinks.
    I am sorry Barb for the unwanted visitor in your life now, this is just heartbreaking for you and for all of us. I sometimes want to crawl under the covers too, I know the fear you face. I am so sorry. You come here and vent anytime, that's what this place is for.

    Love Ronda
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member
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    2Floridiansisters said:

    I think all this recurrance crap stinks.
    I am sorry Barb for the unwanted visitor in your life now, this is just heartbreaking for you and for all of us. I sometimes want to crawl under the covers too, I know the fear you face. I am so sorry. You come here and vent anytime, that's what this place is for.

    Love Ronda

    Ronda said it so well. A
    Ronda said it so well. A recurrence stinks! Cancer stinks!! I am very sorry. Know that all your bc sisters are praying for you!

    Sue :)
  • susie09
    susie09 Member Posts: 2,930
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    2Floridiansisters said:

    I think all this recurrance crap stinks.
    I am sorry Barb for the unwanted visitor in your life now, this is just heartbreaking for you and for all of us. I sometimes want to crawl under the covers too, I know the fear you face. I am so sorry. You come here and vent anytime, that's what this place is for.

    Love Ronda

    This is so sad to read Barb.
    This is so sad to read Barb. I am so sorry too. You vent and post anytime you want. We all care for you and only want the best for you.
  • Balentine
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    susie09 said:

    This is so sad to read Barb.
    This is so sad to read Barb. I am so sorry too. You vent and post anytime you want. We all care for you and only want the best for you.

    Barb my prayers are going out to you
    Too many recurrences the last few days. I am so sorry, but please do not shut yourself off from the world and isolate yourself. That is always our first thoughts but it is a dead end for us and gets us nowhere...only makes matters worse. Please continue to come here for support and also your family and friends. We are all here to listen and support you whatever you are feeling....we are all your sisters! You cannot give up or give into the negative thoughts that are probably flooding your mind right now. You have to fight and not let go! Please know that God is with you as a refuge and never leaves your side and I am praying for you that He will comfort you and strengthen you during this time. God bless.
    Lorrie
  • Kylez
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    Balentine said:

    Barb my prayers are going out to you
    Too many recurrences the last few days. I am so sorry, but please do not shut yourself off from the world and isolate yourself. That is always our first thoughts but it is a dead end for us and gets us nowhere...only makes matters worse. Please continue to come here for support and also your family and friends. We are all here to listen and support you whatever you are feeling....we are all your sisters! You cannot give up or give into the negative thoughts that are probably flooding your mind right now. You have to fight and not let go! Please know that God is with you as a refuge and never leaves your side and I am praying for you that He will comfort you and strengthen you during this time. God bless.
    Lorrie

    I was hoping someone could
    I was hoping someone could help you out with information about cancer in your hip. We all will continue to pray and support you thru whatever treatments you have. Please keep posting to keep us updated.

    KYLEZ ♥
  • DianeBC
    DianeBC Member Posts: 3,881 Member
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    Kylez said:

    I was hoping someone could
    I was hoping someone could help you out with information about cancer in your hip. We all will continue to pray and support you thru whatever treatments you have. Please keep posting to keep us updated.

    KYLEZ ♥

    There have been a lot of
    There have been a lot of recurrences on the board this week. It is always so sad to read of any. Wishing you the best and praying for you.
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member
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    DianeBC said:

    There have been a lot of
    There have been a lot of recurrences on the board this week. It is always so sad to read of any. Wishing you the best and praying for you.

    I did google the Mayo Clinic
    I did google the Mayo Clinic site and found some information on there. You might check it out. Your doctor's, ofcourse, are your best source. Ask, ask and ask some more until you feel that you have all of your questions answered.

    Sue :)
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598
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    Ritzy said:

    I did google the Mayo Clinic
    I did google the Mayo Clinic site and found some information on there. You might check it out. Your doctor's, ofcourse, are your best source. Ask, ask and ask some more until you feel that you have all of your questions answered.

    Sue :)

    I am sorry Barb that you
    I am sorry Barb that you have a recurrence. Sending you prayers and hugs!

    I wish I could help more!

    Lex
  • aztec45
    aztec45 Member Posts: 757
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    So Sorry
    So sorry to hear about your recurrence. I don't what to say except to let you know that I am here whenever you need me and to keep fighting. I will pray that you receive the strenghth you need to fight this damn disease.

    P
  • Katz77
    Katz77 Member Posts: 598
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    How are u doing? Any news on
    How are u doing? Any news on appts, bloodwork, scans? I HATE cancer. I'm sorry this is happening again to you, but I'm reading alot of posts of reoccurances from fellow warriors.
    This really sucks. Hugs and positive energy coming to you. Gayla
  • meena1
    meena1 Member Posts: 1,003
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    Katz77 said:

    How are u doing? Any news on
    How are u doing? Any news on appts, bloodwork, scans? I HATE cancer. I'm sorry this is happening again to you, but I'm reading alot of posts of reoccurances from fellow warriors.
    This really sucks. Hugs and positive energy coming to you. Gayla

    i am not sure if you read my
    i am not sure if you read my post, but i also have had a reoccurence, and so has Chen. We are all going to fight this together. I have already had my first dose of chemo on Thursday. I know what to expect, so i am not scared. What is your treatment plan? take care, and pray

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