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disneyfan2008
disneyfan2008 Member Posts: 6,583 Member
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I posted about 3 wks ago friend was very ill, took 3 wks to pinpoint the type of cancer. HE has complications including heart and lungs. He died on the first of this month after only being sick for 5 wks...

 

funeral Thursday...

 

so sad..

Denise

 

He was 69-mother in law died of cancer, wife had lung and breast cancers over hte past years...very bad...

 

thanks for listening per say.

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  • DebbyB
    DebbyB Member Posts: 86
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    Denise, so sorry for your loss

    I wish you peace and healing.

    Love and hugs

  • Puffin2014
    Puffin2014 Member Posts: 531 Member
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    condolences

    So very sorry, appreciate the update.

  • jessiesmom1
    jessiesmom1 Member Posts: 915 Member
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    Sad News

    I am very sorry for your loss. Beyond that, words escape me. :(

    IRENE

  • disneyfan2008
    disneyfan2008 Member Posts: 6,583 Member
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    I am friends with his wife

    I am friends with his wife since birth (LIKE MY sister-actually closer then my real sister) IT will be a very brief graveside service tomorrow....

     

    no calling hours etc.

     

    I just keep thinking 6 wks ago they had a normal life (after her long recovery) had plans etc and then wihtin five wks of his intial appt she now is waiting to bury him)

     

    Denise

  • jessiesmom1
    jessiesmom1 Member Posts: 915 Member
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    disneyfan2008 said:

    I am friends with his wife

    I am friends with his wife since birth (LIKE MY sister-actually closer then my real sister) IT will be a very brief graveside service tomorrow....

     

    no calling hours etc.

     

    I just keep thinking 6 wks ago they had a normal life (after her long recovery) had plans etc and then wihtin five wks of his intial appt she now is waiting to bury him)

     

    Denise

    Leaving too soon

    Denise, I know only too well how you must be feeling. I went to FL to be with my mom while my dad was having open heart surgery/valve replacement. She was so worried about how she would take care of him when he came home.  While Dad was still in ICU I took my mom to a medical appointment because her behavior seemed a little off. An MRI showed she had a brain tumor. She died 10 weeks later. Dad could be the poster child for how to recover from surgery while under enormous stress. They went from a perfectly normal life (like your friends) to whatever this is now. 

    Once again, my thoughts are with you.

    IRENE

  • button2
    button2 Member Posts: 421
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you'll be a huge support for his wife. Hugs, Anna

  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
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    I absoluted HATE this disease!!!!

    Sending Dutch hugs your way, dear Denise!

     

    Hugs, Kathi

  • cati0314
    cati0314 Member Posts: 203
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    So sorry

    I am so sorry for your loss and feel terrible for that family.  Cancer is awful.  Prayers, Sharon

  • Pixie Dust
    Pixie Dust Member Posts: 424 Member
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    So sorry

    I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I know the wife is having complications too. They are fortunate to have you as a friend and  giving the help they need. (HUGS)   Pixie

  • disneyfan2008
    disneyfan2008 Member Posts: 6,583 Member
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    Thanks all... The funeral was

    Thanks all... The funeral was tough, of course, I am worried once everyone leaves-she in teh apt alone...she reccently (Past 2 yr) moved it to a great aparmtent complex and she has made many friends there-so not like she is still in her house-with no one close by.

     

    Denise

     

    her son and duaghter both live about hour -= away.

  • GlowMore
    GlowMore Member Posts: 789 Member
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    disneyfan2008 said:

    Thanks all... The funeral was

    Thanks all... The funeral was tough, of course, I am worried once everyone leaves-she in teh apt alone...she reccently (Past 2 yr) moved it to a great aparmtent complex and she has made many friends there-so not like she is still in her house-with no one close by.

     

    Denise

     

    her son and duaghter both live about hour -= away.

    Prayers

    Sending prayers for strength for all during these hard days....and hope you will be good to yourself too Denise...because we can all feel the compassion you feel about all of this.  Hugs ,  Glo 

  • disneyfan2008
    disneyfan2008 Member Posts: 6,583 Member
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    GlowMore said:

    Prayers

    Sending prayers for strength for all during these hard days....and hope you will be good to yourself too Denise...because we can all feel the compassion you feel about all of this.  Hugs ,  Glo 

    Thanks..

    Thanks..

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