CSN Login
Members Online: 22

Just a quick update

dmj101's picture
Posts: 527
Joined: Nov 2011

Hi Everyone,

Please know I am always around.

I have chosen to just lurk on this site the last year.. I am sorry.

I have been having a hard time trying to separate myself from dwelling on cancer.. I have it I know that . I will have it forever most likely - but you never know.

I am trying to live a life of happiness and peace..  and get on with living..

I have lost 2 people who were very motivating to me when I was first diagnosed just in the last month - who I will miss very much..

And Ladies I will tell you it is possible to get a date and develop realstionships with Cancer.. there are men out there who really have a heart and understand you are human and still here. They aren't easy to find.. but I will let you know I have found at least 3 in the last 3 years and I am just amazed and thankful everyday.. 

Lately I have learned that even those we are closest to don't relly understand our journey.. I was shocked at the little they actually understood.. I am thinking they are only hearing what they want to hear.. and that was a little discerning..

However, I just wanted you all to know I am still here.. I will try to check in more often...

Love you all,


Trubrit's picture
Posts: 2001
Joined: Jan 2013

You check in when your heart tells you to.  You have to do what is good for your spirit. 

Posts: 1993
Joined: Oct 2011

I am glad you checked in. I have been trying to seperate myself from cancer as you have for years but it is seeminly impossible to me especially when I am in treatment. When I was NED it was a little easier. As you mentioned I have also found that nobody really understands fully even the people closest to us.

Subscribe with RSS
About Cancer Society

The content on this site is for informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Do not use this information to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease without consulting with a qualified healthcare provider. Please consult your healthcare provider with any questions or concerns you may have regarding your condition. Use of this online service is subject to the disclaimer and the terms and conditions.

Copyright 2000-2015 © Cancer Survivors Network