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I lost my best friend

slg
Posts: 200
Joined: Jan 2010

I lost my husband last Saturday to Liver Cancer. He put up a good 2 year long battle. I am lost right now and don't know how I will go on.

3Mana
Posts: 829
Joined: Aug 2010

So sorry to hear that your hubby lost his battle. I know how you feel right now, believe me cause I've been through it. It is such a scary feeling to know that we are now on our own and responsible for everything. Take it one day at a time & confide in friends and relatives. Grieve & cry for as long as it takes you no matter what. Only you can determine how you feel.
My hubby will be gone 2 years in March and I still miss him so much & think of him every day. I keep trying to remember his voice cause I don't want to forget how he sounded when he said " I love you honey>"
We are all here for you to support you whenever you feel the need to talk.
Take care. "Carole"

3Mana
Posts: 829
Joined: Aug 2010

So sorry to hear that your hubby lost his battle. I know how you feel right now, believe me cause I've been through it. It is such a scary feeling to know that we are now on our own and responsible for everything. Take it one day at a time & confide in friends and relatives. Grieve & cry for as long as it takes you no matter what. Only you can determine how you feel.
My hubby will be gone 2 years in March and I still miss him so much & think of him every day. I keep trying to remember his voice cause I don't want to forget how he sounded when he said " I love you honey>"
We are all here for you to support you whenever you feel the need to talk.
Take care. "Carole"

JackieA
Posts: 150
Joined: Mar 2011

my prayers are with you. I am sorry.

mhrosado
Posts: 37
Joined: Jan 2011

I am crying with you. I've been away from this site and I could kick myself for not knowing sooner. I am so sorry.

e-mail me and I will be happy to sit with you even if it is through the Internet. mhrosado1@gmail.com

I can't even imagine the pain that you must be going through and all I can say is that I am here for you.

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KLScoville
Posts: 161
Joined: Mar 2011

Honey, I lost my husband to Lung Cancer on November 14, 2011 and I am still lost without him. All I do is cry. I do have a grief counselor that comes over once a week and go to grief counseling once a week but all I want to do is sit on my loveseat and cry and that is basically all I do. I have a journal that I write in that I started the day he died and I plan on being buried (cremated) with it. I miss my husband so much. It is not fair and now I have to get use to this now normal and I hate it! But unfortunately there is nothing that I can do about it. All I can do is cry for him, cry cause he isn't here, cry cause it is NOT FAIR! I feel for you. I am sorry for your loss!

Take care!
~Kelly
RIP Mark Scoville 11/14/11 NSCLC with mets

Noellesmom
Posts: 1317
Joined: Aug 2010

I am so sorry to hear your news, slg.

Hugs.

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Tina Blondek
Posts: 1561
Joined: Nov 2009

I am so sorry for your recent loss of your husband. I lost my dad to EC with mets to the liver in March 2010. You will make it. It will take time, but you will. Take it slow, grieve for days, months, years. We are here for you. We will always have a shoulder to lean on and ears to listen.
Tina in Va

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grandmafay
Posts: 1627
Joined: Aug 2009

I haven't been on here for awhile so didn't see your post. I'm sorry you have lost your husband. For awhile I think we all lose our way as we try to understand how we will go forward. As I've said before, time does help. Be kind to yourself now. Hugs, Fay

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LeeandShirley
Posts: 122
Joined: Apr 2011

We are on a parallel journey, slg.
I am so sorry for your loss. I sincerely hope you made a ton of valuable, precious memories these last two years. But, don't only remember the last two years, because they were the hardest times you shared together. Take some comfort in the days before cancer. The many good, happy years of love you had. My sincerest condolences.
Shirley

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SlowRollin
Posts: 75
Joined: Nov 2011

I'm very sorry to hear of your husband's passing. He fought so hard and you stayed right by him every step. I appreciate you keeping us close and letting us know of his journey. You are not alone and my prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Tony

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jimwins
Posts: 2085
Joined: Aug 2011

Hi SLG,

So sorry your husband passed away. I lost my sister recently
and haven't been very active on the site.

Hugs and warm wishes during this tough time,

Jim

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