The kindness of a stranger at Christmastime

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LivinginNH
LivinginNH Member Posts: 1,456 Member
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
Hello everyone,

I thought that I'd share a nice story of what happened to me today. Kathy (khl8) posted a couple of weeks ago about decorating for Christmas, so I decided right then an there that I'd put up a tree for Christmas so that Rick could have something nice to look at all day besides the TV. So, I hopped in the car and went in search of a tree. I was hoping to get one for $20 or so since I don't have much money these days. Lowes was out of tall trees, but I had earlier passed a spot selling trees that helped to support the local Men's Club. I asked the gentleman how much the trees were and he said, "45, 55 and 65 dollars." I think he saw my face turn to sadness at the price, so he said, "What can you afford?". Then he asked why my husband and kids weren't out with me. I told him that Rick had cancer and was recovering from surgery, so he couldn't help me, and I don't have any children. He asked how long Rick has had cancer, and I told him, "He was diagnosed exactly one year ago today.". At this point he went over to a tree and held it up? "Do you like this one?", he asked. I told him that it was lovely but I couldn't afford such a nice tree. He smiled, picked it up and took it over to the machine to wrap it up. I went to pay him what I thought might be $45, but he simply said, "Merry Christmas!". At that point I started to cry. Then he told me that I could "repay" him by bringing Rick by NEXT year to pick out the tree!. How wonderful it is to have such caring people in this world. I was so touched by his act of kindness. I now have a lovely tree sitting in my living room awaiting decoration. I'll have my Rick put the star at the top. :-) Hugs, Cynthia
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  • AnneCan
    AnneCan Member Posts: 3,673 Member
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    What a nice man!
    Cynthia,

    That is a wonderful story! This man is truly "paying it forward"!
  • Sundanceh
    Sundanceh Member Posts: 4,392 Member
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    Tears of Joy
    Those kind of stories are where Christmas Miracles come from! I'm sure he had as much joy in giving that tree to you, as you were to receive such a wonderful gift. Really does warm the heart when others give, for the sake of just giving, expecting nothing in return.

    This is another wonderful Christmas story to start our season off, Cynthia and I thank you for sharing this story - just the kind of story that reaches out and melts this "Ol' Grinch's" heart.

    Send me your address in a PM - Santa Craig has something for you and Rick as well - and you can celebrate and enjoy that with your new tree - I won't take NO for an answer - and it will fill both of your hearts with joy!

    -Craig
  • coolvdub
    coolvdub Member Posts: 408 Member
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    Sundanceh said:

    Tears of Joy
    Those kind of stories are where Christmas Miracles come from! I'm sure he had as much joy in giving that tree to you, as you were to receive such a wonderful gift. Really does warm the heart when others give, for the sake of just giving, expecting nothing in return.

    This is another wonderful Christmas story to start our season off, Cynthia and I thank you for sharing this story - just the kind of story that reaches out and melts this "Ol' Grinch's" heart.

    Send me your address in a PM - Santa Craig has something for you and Rick as well - and you can celebrate and enjoy that with your new tree - I won't take NO for an answer - and it will fill both of your hearts with joy!

    -Craig

    Way Cool
    I'm so happy you were able to meet such a kind hearted person. These kinds of random acts of kindness make it all worth while.

    Don
  • Lori-S
    Lori-S Member Posts: 1,277 Member
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    Cynthia
    HUGS! What a wonderful thing. Brought a tear of joy to my eyes
  • Lovekitties
    Lovekitties Member Posts: 3,364 Member
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    The true meaning of Christmas
    Isn't it wonderful that there are folks out there that open their hearts to others.

    Thank you for sharing it with us.

    Have a very Merry and a very Happy

    Marie who loves kitties
  • HeartofSoul
    HeartofSoul Member Posts: 729 Member
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    The true meaning of Christmas
    Isn't it wonderful that there are folks out there that open their hearts to others.

    Thank you for sharing it with us.

    Have a very Merry and a very Happy

    Marie who loves kitties

    Heartwarming story Cynthia,
    Heartwarming story Cynthia, youll always remember the mans kind gesture im sure.
  • tootsie1
    tootsie1 Member Posts: 5,044 Member
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    Touching
    Would somebody please pass the tissues? That story touched my heart.

    Merry Christmas to you and Rick!

    *hugs*
    Gail
  • christinecarl
    christinecarl Member Posts: 543 Member
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    Oh wow
    Thank you for sharing this story, it makes me teary. Nice to cry for a good reason.

    Merry Christmas to you and your family!
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
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    Look around....
    there are special angels everywhere....

    especially at the holidays!!!

    I'm so happy you decided to decorate! The year I was dx'ed, I was definately Bah! Humbug!

    My daughter came to live with me to take care of me (my beau's dad died 2 weeks before Christmas, so I was without him). SHE said "Are you kidding me? Of COURSE we are decorating!!!!!" It brought so much cheer to me...

    Hugs, Kathi
  • mommyof2kds
    mommyof2kds Member Posts: 519
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    KathiM said:

    Look around....
    there are special angels everywhere....

    especially at the holidays!!!

    I'm so happy you decided to decorate! The year I was dx'ed, I was definately Bah! Humbug!

    My daughter came to live with me to take care of me (my beau's dad died 2 weeks before Christmas, so I was without him). SHE said "Are you kidding me? Of COURSE we are decorating!!!!!" It brought so much cheer to me...

    Hugs, Kathi

    Thanks for sharing such a
    Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story. Tears of happiness just poured down my face at such a wonderful act of giving. God bless, enjoy your beautiful tree and all the magical moments it brings. Petrina
  • plh4gail
    plh4gail Member Posts: 1,238 Member
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    That is such a wonderful
    That is such a wonderful story. Thank you so much for sharing. Made me teary too. What a nice man. And you know what...you touched his heart and changed his life in some sort of a way too. You will never forget and I bet he won't either.

    Gail
  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
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    Thank You
    Thank you so much for sharing that. How wonderfully heartwarming!!! Tears in my eyes at the generosity of your stranger.
    Winter Marie
  • Nana b
    Nana b Member Posts: 3,030 Member
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    Thank You
    Thank you so much for sharing that. How wonderfully heartwarming!!! Tears in my eyes at the generosity of your stranger.
    Winter Marie

    That's what it's all about!
    That's what it's all about!

    I try each day to be kind and I will go out of my way to open a door, pick up an item someone dropped, give someone the cart I pulled out and get another, just little things that take no effort, just a kind heart! I have even put a cartoon on my iphone so this little girl would sit still while her grandma, got her nails done, and it wasn't me, but I was there too, of course! When I was in Mexico this lady who was about 70 lost her reading glasses, and couldn't find another pair, she was so upset... so I gave her mine, she asked how much...and I said no charge!
  • khl8
    khl8 Member Posts: 807
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    Cynthia,
    This brought me to

    Cynthia,
    This brought me to happy tears! I am so grateful for your Christmas Angel! I cannot wait to see the picture! I am so happy that I decided to so this, with all that is going on this year, just having the house look like Christmas is enough!!
    Hugs,
    Kathy
  • SandyL
    SandyL Member Posts: 218
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    khl8 said:

    Cynthia,
    This brought me to

    Cynthia,
    This brought me to happy tears! I am so grateful for your Christmas Angel! I cannot wait to see the picture! I am so happy that I decided to so this, with all that is going on this year, just having the house look like Christmas is enough!!
    Hugs,
    Kathy

    Oh
    my goodness, I'm so happy for you and for this stranger. Your story brought tears to my eyes, also. It feels so good to be able to something as special as this for someone. It's more blessed to give than to receive. Such a very nice, caring gentleman.
    Sandy
  • pepebcn
    pepebcn Member Posts: 6,331 Member
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    SandyL said:

    Oh
    my goodness, I'm so happy for you and for this stranger. Your story brought tears to my eyes, also. It feels so good to be able to something as special as this for someone. It's more blessed to give than to receive. Such a very nice, caring gentleman.
    Sandy

    Cinthya !
    What a wonderful Christmas Story, so emotive!.
    Hugs!
  • lesvanb
    lesvanb Member Posts: 905
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    Great story of giving and receiving
    and how both people get to feel Christmas (or any time) love in their hearts together.


    Leslie
  • bruins1971
    bruins1971 Member Posts: 227
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    lesvanb said:

    Great story of giving and receiving
    and how both people get to feel Christmas (or any time) love in their hearts together.


    Leslie

    Ok I am crying
    Maybe it's because I just came back from church and I am filled with the love of the holy spirit but oh my you just made me cry with that story. What a wonderful kind man for doing that for you and Rick. Paying it forward is such a great thing and we all should try to do this just a little. Not having the money for a Christmas tree is tough when all we can worry about is paying the dumb medical bills. I fully expect a miracle blessing upon Rick and yes he will be with you next year picking out that Christmas tree. Heck you all will be picking out Christmas trees together 25-30 years from now. God Bless you my friend and Go Patriots tonight against the Jets...

    Bobby in Dallas
  • nudgie
    nudgie Member Posts: 1,478 Member
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    Made
    me cry
  • lisa42
    lisa42 Member Posts: 3,625 Member
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    wow
    Hi Cynthia,

    Wow- I love the heart of that man! My eyes just welled up with tears at reading it.
    Merry Christmas to you and Rick and my prayers are that Rick will be walking proudly into that tree lot next Christmas!

    Hugs,
    Lisa