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Heatherbelle
Heatherbelle Member Posts: 1,226 Member
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I had to share this with you. As you probably know, my mom was just diagnosed with breast cancer last week, about 2 months after I was diagnosed. Thankfully mom faithfully has her yearly mammograms, because it was caught extremely early. She's going to the same surgeon as I did, and she met with my oncologist this morning to discuss what her recommended treatment would be with either surgical option (lumpectomy or mastectomy) - because she just wasn't sure what surgical route to take. Well, he told her since it was so small (less than half a centimeter) and so early, that she wouldn't need chemo, so she's going to have a lumpectomy some time next week (waiting on them to get it scheduled with the hospital), followed by radiation (of course unless her lymph nodes are involved -they're doing the sentinal node biopsy but oncologist told her he'd be very surprised if her nodes are involved) - also that she would probably be able to get the partial breast radiation where they implant it in her breast & it's there for 7 days or so. This is wonderful news -my mom is disabled with a spinal condition & severe arthritis, it's very painful for her, so I was so worried about her recovery. This was such a HUGE relief for me..since she was diagnosed I'd almost forgotten that I also have breast cancer (of course my bald head reminds me every time i look in the mirror....). Thanks to all who had such sweet words of encouragement, hope, and prayers for mom since we found out last Friday.
And, I bought a treat for myself the other day & it came in the mail today -it's a silk Christian Dior head scarf - and it looks & feels fabulous! I like my wig, but it's been really hot & humid here lately - i can definately wear this scarf out and not feel self conscious!! I hope you all have as great a day as I've had today :)
*hugs*
heather
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  • missrenee
    missrenee Member Posts: 2,136 Member
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    Oh, Heather--wonderful news about your mom
    What a sigh of relief! I'm sure she'll do great-especially with a wonderful daughter like you in her corner.

    How about you--in your Christian Dior headscarf! Hope you feel like a super-glam diva in it! Enjoy.

    Hugs, Renee
  • Heatherbelle
    Heatherbelle Member Posts: 1,226 Member
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    missrenee said:

    Oh, Heather--wonderful news about your mom
    What a sigh of relief! I'm sure she'll do great-especially with a wonderful daughter like you in her corner.

    How about you--in your Christian Dior headscarf! Hope you feel like a super-glam diva in it! Enjoy.

    Hugs, Renee

    Renee I LOVE this scarf....it's so lightweight it doesn't feel like i have anything on my head!
    And thanks, I am so relieved, probably as much as mom is.
    *hugs*
    heather
  • filimu
    filimu Member Posts: 74
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    Renee I LOVE this scarf....it's so lightweight it doesn't feel like i have anything on my head!
    And thanks, I am so relieved, probably as much as mom is.
    *hugs*
    heather

    Great news on your Mom
    Heather, and we're all so happy for both of you. And I'm glad, too, that your treated yourself to a beautiful new scarf - you deserve it!
  • webbwife50
    webbwife50 Member Posts: 394
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    WOW!
    That is awesome, send shills through me, God is so good!
    Alison
  • webbwife50
    webbwife50 Member Posts: 394
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    WOW!
    That is awesome, send shills through me, God is so good!
    Alison
  • Boppy_of_6
    Boppy_of_6 Member Posts: 1,138
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    filimu said:

    Great news on your Mom
    Heather, and we're all so happy for both of you. And I'm glad, too, that your treated yourself to a beautiful new scarf - you deserve it!

    YEA!!
    That is great for your Mom and you! So happy for you both. God is good. God Bless
    (((Hugs))) Janice
  • mwallace1325
    mwallace1325 Member Posts: 806
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    what wonderful news
    That's so great about your mom. Please let us know how things progress with her.
    How nice that your scarf arrived to help you celebrate the good news. Enjoy.

    marge
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
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    So glad that this is good
    So glad that this is good news. I will keep her and you in my prayers and hope that her journey is as pain free and easy as possible. She is very lucky that she has such a great daughter to be with her through all this.
    Stef
  • Jean 0609
    Jean 0609 Member Posts: 2,462
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    Great news!
    Glad to hear about your Mom. It's always good to hear good news. I am happy for you and your Mom.
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member
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    Jean 0609 said:

    Great news!
    Glad to hear about your Mom. It's always good to hear good news. I am happy for you and your Mom.

    This is the best news
    This is the best news Heather, if there can be good news about being diagnosed with breast cancer! So happy about your Mom.

    She can get through it cause she has a wonderful daughter like you to help her, just as she has been helping you.

    Thanks for the update.


    Sue :)
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
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    Good News, indeed! I can
    Good News, indeed! I can hear you beaming all the way to California! I so love how you "almost" forgot about your own dx while loving and being concerned for your mama~ it truly speaks volumes about who you are. I am honored to know you, Heatherbelle!
    You are your own crowning glory with your loving kindness and sweet attitude~ the silk scarf can only enhance the beauty which is already there. (but oh yeah~ it is soooo good not to be all hot and sweaty from the summer humidity! LOL)

    Hugs,
    Chen♥
  • reeseslover1234
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    Truly a happy, happy day
    Heather,

    I'm so glad your mom's news was so good today. I agree with everyone else that you are a wonderful daughter and I'm sure your mother feels blessed to have you.

    My prayers will continue to be with you both.

    I bet you'll be absolutely beautiful in your new scarf.

    Reese
  • CypressCynthia
    CypressCynthia Member Posts: 4,014 Member
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    Yeah! Great news. I am so
    Yeah! Great news. I am so happy for you and your mom. And would love to see a photo of that dreamy sounding scarf! You go!
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
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    Yeah! Great news. I am so
    Yeah! Great news. I am so happy for you and your mom. And would love to see a photo of that dreamy sounding scarf! You go!

    Wonderful news .. I am so very happy for you and your
    Mom.

    Blessings, Strength and Courage:

    Vicki Sam
  • sea60
    sea60 Member Posts: 2,613
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    Yeah! Great news. I am so
    Yeah! Great news. I am so happy for you and your mom. And would love to see a photo of that dreamy sounding scarf! You go!

    Awesome news about your Mom
    I was so bummed out to hear the news about her...about you both! Thankfully, she'll need minimal treatment. You guys are a great team!

    Hugs and blessings to you both,

    Sylvia
  • BlownAway60
    BlownAway60 Member Posts: 851
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    Renee I LOVE this scarf....it's so lightweight it doesn't feel like i have anything on my head!
    And thanks, I am so relieved, probably as much as mom is.
    *hugs*
    heather

    Wonderful news. Soo happy
    Wonderful news. Soo happy for you and your mom.

    Hugs

    Donna
  • Katz77
    Katz77 Member Posts: 598
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    So happy
    That is really great news about ur moms. Bet u look fabulous in ur Christian Dior. Thoughts and prayers for you both. Sorry to hear about the severe arthritis and spinal condition. That was the last thing she needed was chemo to add to her already ravaged body. Katz
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
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    Katz77 said:

    So happy
    That is really great news about ur moms. Bet u look fabulous in ur Christian Dior. Thoughts and prayers for you both. Sorry to hear about the severe arthritis and spinal condition. That was the last thing she needed was chemo to add to her already ravaged body. Katz

    very happy for you and your
    very happy for you and your mom. good for you getting yourself something pretty to wear .
  • cahjah75
    cahjah75 Member Posts: 2,631
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    Heather
    so glad the news for your mom is something she will be able to handle without much difficulty. It's definitely an advantage that she has you to lean on and having the same oncologist helps too. Your good attitude will keep her spirits better at the same time. So glad you treated yourself to a diva head scarf. You deserve it! You go girl :-)
    {{hugs}} Char
  • Heatherbelle
    Heatherbelle Member Posts: 1,226 Member
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    ahh you all are so great
    ahh you all are so great with your kind words & genuine happiness for me & mom! i'd sit up and write another of my "short novel" responses here if i weren't already sitting here half asleep! your comments brought tears to my eyes -which is no easy feat because i'm not that emotional! i love the support and comfort we have here for each other. I never had a sister, just one crappy brother, and now I have so many :)
    love and hugs to you all!
    heather