To all my crack pot friends

Options
fauxma
fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.
One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.
At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water..
Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.
But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.
After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream.
'I am ashamed of myself, because

this crack in my side causes water to

leak out all the way back to your house.'
The old woman smiled, 'Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?'
'That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them.'
'For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table.
Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house.'

Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.
You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.
SO, to all of my crackpot friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers on your side of the path.

Comments

  • sbmly53
    sbmly53 Member Posts: 1,522
    Options
    Thank you,
    I enjoyed this so much.

    Sue
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
    Options
    Thanks so much for this,
    Thanks so much for this, Stef! I also enjoyed this so very much! I admit that I was at first shocked at the title of your post~ and I just HAD to see why you chose both crack and pot to write about! I'm really glad you cleared that up for me! LOL

    Hugs from an obvious crackpot,
    Claudia
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
    Options
    Thanks so much for this,
    I guess one reply is from crack, and the other from pot...go figure!
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    Options
    chenheart said:

    Thanks so much for this,
    I guess one reply is from crack, and the other from pot...go figure!

    When I first received it I
    When I first received it I thought it was going to be one of those Maxine jokes. So I was surprised but I really liked it. We all tend to see our flaws and don't recognize that they can make us special. So if I had to choose between being the perfect pot and the crackpot, I will be the crackpot every time.
    Chen, you have such a way with words and such that even you double, triple or quad posts are great.
    Stef
  • susanleeann
    susanleeann Member Posts: 58
    Options
    very wise the old chinese
    very wise the old chinese woman!
  • Flakey_Flake
    Flakey_Flake Member Posts: 130
    Options
    One Cracked Pot to Another
    Isn't that why they say you're supposed to stop and smell the flowers?
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
    Options
    Very Beautiful
    Thank you, Stef. This is a wonderful parable.

    I'd say thank you from one cracked pot to another, but I didn't need to read this story to know that YOU nourish beauty and life in the world around you. (And, if you think I am just flattering you, just ask your family.)
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
    Options

    One Cracked Pot to Another
    Isn't that why they say you're supposed to stop and smell the flowers?

    That was a good one thanks

    That was a good one thanks
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    Options
    Moopy23 said:

    Very Beautiful
    Thank you, Stef. This is a wonderful parable.

    I'd say thank you from one cracked pot to another, but I didn't need to read this story to know that YOU nourish beauty and life in the world around you. (And, if you think I am just flattering you, just ask your family.)

    Oh, Moopy you make me blush.
    Oh, Moopy you make me blush. Thank you
    Stef
  • Zhentup
    Zhentup Member Posts: 43
    Options
    Proud to be a crackpot!
    That was really good! I copied it and sent it to my cracked friends in my addressbook. Thanks for sharing!

    Leanne
  • cindycflynn
    cindycflynn Member Posts: 1,132 Member
    Options
    This really touched me
    Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful reminder of the worth we too often forget in ourselves.
  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
    Options
    Beautiful, thank you!!

    Beautiful, thank you!!
  • Marcia527
    Marcia527 Member Posts: 2,729
    Options
    I'm crackpot but don't know
    I'm crackpot but don't know how many flowers I watered. Maybe none. I don't have the farsight. I would have chopped up the pot and used the pieces as mulch in the flower garden. I did that once. Laid the pieces on top the ground like a mosaic tile.

    I just added a picture of Cat smelling the flowers on my Expressions page.
  • Different Ballgame
    Different Ballgame Member Posts: 868
    Options
    I Love This Story
    I have seen and read this story more than once over the last few years and each time I read it, I enjoy it. There's always a positive to a negative. Story makes me think and brings a smile to my face.

    Lots of Hugs,
    Janelle