At Home with very Frequent BMs after Rectal Surgery 12/30/09!

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maryjane
maryjane Member Posts: 71
edited March 2014 in Colorectal Cancer #1
I had a major Rectal Surgery on Dec 30th for rectal cancer and spent 2 weeks in the hospital. My Dr. said it was MAJOR SURGERY and located very close to the base of my rectum. I do not need a bag but...this last week I've been having small bowell movments every hour or two--and very soon after I eat. This has forced me to spend too much time at home--close to the commode. My Dr says it will take another 6 weeks to stabilize. Any of you out there had this experience? I've been told that 2/3 of my rectum is gone and part of my colon. So my body has to learn to re-route. This new symptom is making life really uncomfortable for me. Would appreciate feedback!
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  • WinneyPooh
    WinneyPooh Member Posts: 318
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    Your living my future life
    Hey, Mary Jane, Your living myfuture, I just had rectal surgery week before last and they remove 2/3 of rectum, 7 inches of colon sewed me back together, but gave me an ille, so things can heal in six weeks they will reverse ille, and i should beable to pooh out my rectum, doc said it would be often and unpreditable and i would have to learn my body all over again, like a child, i believe what your going thru is just what he was talking about, It sould even out as you heal and learn what to eat, what riggers bm, and when you have to go.
    please PM me your progress it would be nice to kind of know what lies ahead for me.
    Wishing you good pooh thoughts,
    Live, Laugh, Play
    Penny
  • lizzydavis
    lizzydavis Member Posts: 893
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    This is what I experienced also...
    I also experienced the same. This article might be helpful to you.

    Quality of Life After Colorectal Surgery Annette Bisanz, B.S.N., M.P.H.


    ----------Following colorectal surgery, there may be a change in bowel function due to the change in the anatomical structure of the colon or rectum, or both. This may necessitate a bowel management program that is based on the same basic principles but needs to be individualized for each person. There is all the reason in the world to believe that your bowels can be managed after colorectal surgery.

    ----------These are the prerequisites for managing bowel control: · Be committed to the program and be willing to follow specific directions. Seek guidance from a professional when you are not achieving the goals of your program.

    ------- Keep your sense of humor. Following colorectal surgery, many people find themselves having several stools per day. Bowel movements may be clustered at certain times of the day, and often there is an inability to fully empty at one specific time. The normal frequency of bowel movements in a healthy population varies from 3 bowel movements per day to 3 per week.

    -----The goal is to return to no more than 3 bowel movements per day. Transit Time of Food Through the Gastrointestinal TractEating a large meal or drinking a hot liquid will cause a normal peristaltic push down in the gastrointestinal (GI) tract.

    ---- When frequent bowel movements occur, drink less fluid with your meals, drink more fluids between meals, and avoid hot liquids. Medicinal Fiber to Change the Transit TimeIf you are having frequent stools, then introducing psyllium, a medicinal fiber also known as Metamucil, can slow down transit through the GI tract.

    -----Most people take psyllium for constipation or to speed up transit time through the GI tract; however after colorectal surgery, your goal will be to slow down the transit time. To do this, take the prescribed amount of fiber right after a meal in very little fluid, approximately 2 oz., and no more fluid for 1 hour immediately after a meal. This allows the fiber to act like a sponge in the GI tract, soaking up excess fluid in the digestive system and thus slowing things down. One teaspoon should be taken after the same meal each day for 3 to 5 consecutive days. Then increase to 1 teaspoon psyllium 2 times per day.

    -------Gradually increase the fiber by 1 teaspoon every 3 to 5 days until the GI tract transit time slows down a bit. Bowel TrainingOnce your stools become better formed and the transit time has been slowed down, the next step is bowel training, with the goal of emptying the colon fully at an expected time each day. Pick a meal of your choice around which you'll bowel train yourself. Bowel training is done around a meal since a big meal causes a push down the GI tract to make room for the food taken in.

    -------Choose a time when you can consistently follow the program.
    Then, · Before that meal drink 1 oz. of prune juice. · Eat the big meal.· Drink a hot liquid. If this does not produce results, you may try using a glycerin suppository after the hot liquid.· Do this for 3 straight days. If you don't empty as planned, substitute the glycerin suppository with 1/2 bisocodyl suppository. · If this is effective, stay with the program for 2 weeks and then stop using the suppositories. By this time, the stimulus for your bowel to empty will be the prune juice, big meal, and hot liquid. Adjusting the Bowel Management ProgramSince each person's body reacts a little differently, don't get discouraged if your program doesn't immediately help. Problem solving is the key to success, and little changes made after trying something for 3 days will help you determine what will work for you. Overall bowel management involves a gradual balancing of food, fluid, fiber, and medications.

    _________Food: If your bowel is stimulated by a big meal, eat 1 big meal per day and 4 smaller meals. Certain foods affect people adversely, and you need to be aware of what you eat that may cause increased bowel movements. (High-fat and/or spicy foods seem to affect many people.) Fluid: Fluid with meals tends to increase peristaltic push-down. So, drink fluid in between meals instead of a large amount with meals and avoid hot liquids.

    ________Fiber: Adjust the amount of fiber gradually to determine how much fiber is required to slow down or speed up transit time through your GI tract and maintain soft, formed stool.
    ______Medications: If you are taking anitdiarrheal medications such as Lomotil or Immodium, as you gradually increase the amount of psyllium, try to decrease the amount of Lomotil/Immodium. Most people get good bowel control just by the use of fiber. However, keep yourself comfortable during the process of defining your maintenance bowel management program. Be patient with yourself. Remember, there is hope for bowel management, the goal being a high quality life after colorectal surgery. Next Issue: The Resource Review column will review the video "How your Bowel Works" by Annette Bisanz, B.S.N., M.P.H.

    MY colorectal surgeon told me that things will improve over time. It have begun to see improvement. Hang it there!
  • maryjane
    maryjane Member Posts: 71
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    This is what I experienced also...
    I also experienced the same. This article might be helpful to you.

    Quality of Life After Colorectal Surgery Annette Bisanz, B.S.N., M.P.H.


    ----------Following colorectal surgery, there may be a change in bowel function due to the change in the anatomical structure of the colon or rectum, or both. This may necessitate a bowel management program that is based on the same basic principles but needs to be individualized for each person. There is all the reason in the world to believe that your bowels can be managed after colorectal surgery.

    ----------These are the prerequisites for managing bowel control: · Be committed to the program and be willing to follow specific directions. Seek guidance from a professional when you are not achieving the goals of your program.

    ------- Keep your sense of humor. Following colorectal surgery, many people find themselves having several stools per day. Bowel movements may be clustered at certain times of the day, and often there is an inability to fully empty at one specific time. The normal frequency of bowel movements in a healthy population varies from 3 bowel movements per day to 3 per week.

    -----The goal is to return to no more than 3 bowel movements per day. Transit Time of Food Through the Gastrointestinal TractEating a large meal or drinking a hot liquid will cause a normal peristaltic push down in the gastrointestinal (GI) tract.

    ---- When frequent bowel movements occur, drink less fluid with your meals, drink more fluids between meals, and avoid hot liquids. Medicinal Fiber to Change the Transit TimeIf you are having frequent stools, then introducing psyllium, a medicinal fiber also known as Metamucil, can slow down transit through the GI tract.

    -----Most people take psyllium for constipation or to speed up transit time through the GI tract; however after colorectal surgery, your goal will be to slow down the transit time. To do this, take the prescribed amount of fiber right after a meal in very little fluid, approximately 2 oz., and no more fluid for 1 hour immediately after a meal. This allows the fiber to act like a sponge in the GI tract, soaking up excess fluid in the digestive system and thus slowing things down. One teaspoon should be taken after the same meal each day for 3 to 5 consecutive days. Then increase to 1 teaspoon psyllium 2 times per day.

    -------Gradually increase the fiber by 1 teaspoon every 3 to 5 days until the GI tract transit time slows down a bit. Bowel TrainingOnce your stools become better formed and the transit time has been slowed down, the next step is bowel training, with the goal of emptying the colon fully at an expected time each day. Pick a meal of your choice around which you'll bowel train yourself. Bowel training is done around a meal since a big meal causes a push down the GI tract to make room for the food taken in.

    -------Choose a time when you can consistently follow the program.
    Then, · Before that meal drink 1 oz. of prune juice. · Eat the big meal.· Drink a hot liquid. If this does not produce results, you may try using a glycerin suppository after the hot liquid.· Do this for 3 straight days. If you don't empty as planned, substitute the glycerin suppository with 1/2 bisocodyl suppository. · If this is effective, stay with the program for 2 weeks and then stop using the suppositories. By this time, the stimulus for your bowel to empty will be the prune juice, big meal, and hot liquid. Adjusting the Bowel Management ProgramSince each person's body reacts a little differently, don't get discouraged if your program doesn't immediately help. Problem solving is the key to success, and little changes made after trying something for 3 days will help you determine what will work for you. Overall bowel management involves a gradual balancing of food, fluid, fiber, and medications.

    _________Food: If your bowel is stimulated by a big meal, eat 1 big meal per day and 4 smaller meals. Certain foods affect people adversely, and you need to be aware of what you eat that may cause increased bowel movements. (High-fat and/or spicy foods seem to affect many people.) Fluid: Fluid with meals tends to increase peristaltic push-down. So, drink fluid in between meals instead of a large amount with meals and avoid hot liquids.

    ________Fiber: Adjust the amount of fiber gradually to determine how much fiber is required to slow down or speed up transit time through your GI tract and maintain soft, formed stool.
    ______Medications: If you are taking anitdiarrheal medications such as Lomotil or Immodium, as you gradually increase the amount of psyllium, try to decrease the amount of Lomotil/Immodium. Most people get good bowel control just by the use of fiber. However, keep yourself comfortable during the process of defining your maintenance bowel management program. Be patient with yourself. Remember, there is hope for bowel management, the goal being a high quality life after colorectal surgery. Next Issue: The Resource Review column will review the video "How your Bowel Works" by Annette Bisanz, B.S.N., M.P.H.

    MY colorectal surgeon told me that things will improve over time. It have begun to see improvement. Hang it there!

    Thanks for your Great Info!
    Hi Annette--
    Your prompt and lengthy response made my day! I appreciate the details of what to do. Curious why my Dr didn't make these recommendations. I will start following your regime today and let you know how it goes. What do the letters B.S.N. and M.P.H after your name stand for? How long after surgery did it take you to stabilize movments to 3 a day and see improvment? And...I'm thrilled to know that there is hope for Bowell Managment!
    I'll stay in touch.
    maryjane
  • maryjane
    maryjane Member Posts: 71
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    Your living my future life
    Hey, Mary Jane, Your living myfuture, I just had rectal surgery week before last and they remove 2/3 of rectum, 7 inches of colon sewed me back together, but gave me an ille, so things can heal in six weeks they will reverse ille, and i should beable to pooh out my rectum, doc said it would be often and unpreditable and i would have to learn my body all over again, like a child, i believe what your going thru is just what he was talking about, It sould even out as you heal and learn what to eat, what riggers bm, and when you have to go.
    please PM me your progress it would be nice to kind of know what lies ahead for me.
    Wishing you good pooh thoughts,
    Live, Laugh, Play
    Penny

    I'll Share my ride...
    Hi Penny..
    Thanks for your response. I will plan to share my experience as the days roll on. Good luck on your recovery.
    maryjane
  • Sundanceh
    Sundanceh Member Posts: 4,392 Member
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    The Long and Winding Road
    Hi MJ

    My story is not anywhere close to anyone else's on this board - my experience with bowel resection is not typical.

    I had 25x of radiation in the rectum and surrounding areas before surgery, so I was already a mess prior to a "major surgery" as you elude to above.

    I was spared a colostomy as well and did not even get a temp, 'cause the margin was so small, I was afraid temp would turn to perm.

    I now know why they do "temps." Of course, after all that radiation and the major surgery, I never did get to "rest" my bowels at all - they just kept going and going and going - like the Engergizer Bunny. I too could not get too far away - I had to work though and there were days when I just had to leave it was so bad - or I was too sick to even make it in.

    So work and home was the best I could manage the first two years out. The next couple of years things began to settle down and has become largely what it will be for the remainder of my life. Bad days still happen and sometimes without notice, but you just take those days and remember where you were long ago.

    So, to summarize, 2-4 years recovery for me (But I'm the exception not the rule) and life is what it is. I took the hard road and certainly paid to have it paved.

    You've already said it - just takes time for the new bowel to figure out the new route, stuff has been removed that were important enough to be there in the 1st place, so when you take out key mechanisms, it stands to reason, that things will never be quite normal again - only what you can live with.

    The days will pass - just roll with it - Time will help to heal this up and you'll look back like me and think "How did I do that?"

    -Craig
  • luv3jay
    luv3jay Member Posts: 533 Member
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    Yep! That's about right! I
    Yep! That's about right! I had about 50% of my rectum removed and part of the lower colon as well (no bag) and frequent bowel movements are the norm for me. My surgery was 2/09 and I still have them. Not as much as before, but I average 2-3 per day now. As much as I detest public restrooms, they have become a part of my life now if I ever want to go anywhere. You will stabilize after a couple of months but I don't think you should ever expect to be like your old self again.

    -Sheri
  • lizzydavis
    lizzydavis Member Posts: 893
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    luv3jay said:

    Yep! That's about right! I
    Yep! That's about right! I had about 50% of my rectum removed and part of the lower colon as well (no bag) and frequent bowel movements are the norm for me. My surgery was 2/09 and I still have them. Not as much as before, but I average 2-3 per day now. As much as I detest public restrooms, they have become a part of my life now if I ever want to go anywhere. You will stabilize after a couple of months but I don't think you should ever expect to be like your old self again.

    -Sheri

    MaryJane --
    Lizzydavis copied the information from an article by Annette Bisanz, B.S.N., M.P.H. I just listed it for you to see. I am sorry I did not make that clear. Oh well, just great information.

    lizzydavis
  • k1
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    Similar situation 4 months post op -- feeling discouraged
    Initially after my resection I seem to be healing like you would expect, with stools getting more solid each day. Escaped a bag by less than an inch of rectum in my surgery. Somewhere around week 4 post op all hell broke loose and I started having what you are describing only sometimes up to 20 or more bm per day, and ran lowgrade fevers at night. And these bm also hurt -- you didn't mention if there was pain or not. This week I am four months post op and no improvement in bm although having fevers less often. My doctor said also at my one month post op appointment this would get better in time... it hasn't.

    I was put on the Metamucil daily and also had to be put on iron supplements due to severe anemia. Was told both the Metamucil and the iron, as an added side effect, would "bulk up" my stools. Also tried to stop drinking with meals.

    At 8 weeks post op had a CT scan that showed inflammation and infection in places in my colon that had been clear before surgery. I took two weeks of Levaquin and Flagyl and by the end of those prescriptions I was feeling much, much better. Finally, I thought, life is getting back to normal, could eat things and only had two or three bm per day and they were more solid. I remember going out to eat and enjoying it during those 10 days.

    Exactly 10 days after finishing the antibiotics and living life somewhat normal bms for first time since surgery, it started all over again. My doc suspected C. Difficile infection and although I was tested three times for it the results were always negative. I'm getting ready to have another CT scan and not looking forward to it due to worry over too much radiation. Whenever the drs. deem it safe, another colonoscopy, to look for problems too. I would have had the ct scan last week but I was too sick with flu like symptoms and sinus infection to go there. Scar tissue, adhesions, obstruction have all been mentioned as possibilities.

    Yes, it's hard to travel anywhere like this and I have had to go into a public restroom for a long period and finally leave, only to have to go back in it seven or eight times before it was safe to leave the store. It makes you not want to go out at all. I once missed an important post op appointment with my oncologist due to being stricken on the freeway in traffic, having to get to an exit and go in a burger joint and being there so long with diarrhea and painful bms that my appointment time ticked away. I lost my job due to running out of leave and at this point with these problems wonder how I can even look for work.

    Due to the severe gastro distress I was having I could not get cleared to start chemo in January when I was supposed to start it. I was sent to a dietitian for consultation about three or four weeks ago and was put on a very low fiber diet. No vegetables, no fruits except canned peaches, white bread, white rice, nut butters and soy milk for protein (lactose intolerant to regular milk). No prunes, dried fruits etc. No nuts. This is all foreign to my way of eating since I have for years done whole grains and usually eat lots of fruits and a moderate amount of vegetables (usually raw).

    The diet helped only a little, but a little is better than nothing However, this week I had to go on antibiotics for a severe sinus infection, and I'm having a major colon blowout now and thinking about discontinuing the antibiotics (Clarithromycin) and have had probably 30 bouts of debilitating diarrhea just today. It makes me very weak and not wanting to eat at all. I lost 22 lbs. since surgery but am losing it at a slower rate now than I was at first.

    After four months I am wondering if this will ever end. This is the first time I have read the instructions on retraining the colon and appreciate the post. I will actually have to get over this blowout from antibiotics before I can try it.

    I am discouraged and depressed about this predicament, and at this point wondering if it's going to be permanent. At least I'm not running fevers as often. But I have very little energy. Thinking this might be lifelong is really depressing. Thinking I have to eat white bread long term is also depressing! If a healthy diet helps you heal, what is the result when you can't eat a healthy diet? The dietitian said don't worry about it for now, but I do.
  • Buzzard
    Buzzard Member Posts: 3,043 Member
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    k1 said:

    Similar situation 4 months post op -- feeling discouraged
    Initially after my resection I seem to be healing like you would expect, with stools getting more solid each day. Escaped a bag by less than an inch of rectum in my surgery. Somewhere around week 4 post op all hell broke loose and I started having what you are describing only sometimes up to 20 or more bm per day, and ran lowgrade fevers at night. And these bm also hurt -- you didn't mention if there was pain or not. This week I am four months post op and no improvement in bm although having fevers less often. My doctor said also at my one month post op appointment this would get better in time... it hasn't.

    I was put on the Metamucil daily and also had to be put on iron supplements due to severe anemia. Was told both the Metamucil and the iron, as an added side effect, would "bulk up" my stools. Also tried to stop drinking with meals.

    At 8 weeks post op had a CT scan that showed inflammation and infection in places in my colon that had been clear before surgery. I took two weeks of Levaquin and Flagyl and by the end of those prescriptions I was feeling much, much better. Finally, I thought, life is getting back to normal, could eat things and only had two or three bm per day and they were more solid. I remember going out to eat and enjoying it during those 10 days.

    Exactly 10 days after finishing the antibiotics and living life somewhat normal bms for first time since surgery, it started all over again. My doc suspected C. Difficile infection and although I was tested three times for it the results were always negative. I'm getting ready to have another CT scan and not looking forward to it due to worry over too much radiation. Whenever the drs. deem it safe, another colonoscopy, to look for problems too. I would have had the ct scan last week but I was too sick with flu like symptoms and sinus infection to go there. Scar tissue, adhesions, obstruction have all been mentioned as possibilities.

    Yes, it's hard to travel anywhere like this and I have had to go into a public restroom for a long period and finally leave, only to have to go back in it seven or eight times before it was safe to leave the store. It makes you not want to go out at all. I once missed an important post op appointment with my oncologist due to being stricken on the freeway in traffic, having to get to an exit and go in a burger joint and being there so long with diarrhea and painful bms that my appointment time ticked away. I lost my job due to running out of leave and at this point with these problems wonder how I can even look for work.

    Due to the severe gastro distress I was having I could not get cleared to start chemo in January when I was supposed to start it. I was sent to a dietitian for consultation about three or four weeks ago and was put on a very low fiber diet. No vegetables, no fruits except canned peaches, white bread, white rice, nut butters and soy milk for protein (lactose intolerant to regular milk). No prunes, dried fruits etc. No nuts. This is all foreign to my way of eating since I have for years done whole grains and usually eat lots of fruits and a moderate amount of vegetables (usually raw).

    The diet helped only a little, but a little is better than nothing However, this week I had to go on antibiotics for a severe sinus infection, and I'm having a major colon blowout now and thinking about discontinuing the antibiotics (Clarithromycin) and have had probably 30 bouts of debilitating diarrhea just today. It makes me very weak and not wanting to eat at all. I lost 22 lbs. since surgery but am losing it at a slower rate now than I was at first.

    After four months I am wondering if this will ever end. This is the first time I have read the instructions on retraining the colon and appreciate the post. I will actually have to get over this blowout from antibiotics before I can try it.

    I am discouraged and depressed about this predicament, and at this point wondering if it's going to be permanent. At least I'm not running fevers as often. But I have very little energy. Thinking this might be lifelong is really depressing. Thinking I have to eat white bread long term is also depressing! If a healthy diet helps you heal, what is the result when you can't eat a healthy diet? The dietitian said don't worry about it for now, but I do.

    There is another option.........
    VickiCo had the resection done only to become a prisoner in her own bathroom. She runs her own business but had enough good people to run hers for her until she made up her mind to have a colostomy and wear a bag. I think she has never looked back after she made her mind up to do it. It has given her her life back completely. I also have an ostomy and its a piece of cake......beats sittin in the bathroom all day.... its simply another option for you to think about...You don't have to be a prisoner any longer than you want to be, you just have to be adamant enough about wanting to free yourself to take the plunge...Ask her , Im sure shes around peeking in from time to time. She doesn't let much grass grow under her feet......

    Love and Hope, Buzz
  • Crow71
    Crow71 Member Posts: 679 Member
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    Sundanceh said:

    The Long and Winding Road
    Hi MJ

    My story is not anywhere close to anyone else's on this board - my experience with bowel resection is not typical.

    I had 25x of radiation in the rectum and surrounding areas before surgery, so I was already a mess prior to a "major surgery" as you elude to above.

    I was spared a colostomy as well and did not even get a temp, 'cause the margin was so small, I was afraid temp would turn to perm.

    I now know why they do "temps." Of course, after all that radiation and the major surgery, I never did get to "rest" my bowels at all - they just kept going and going and going - like the Engergizer Bunny. I too could not get too far away - I had to work though and there were days when I just had to leave it was so bad - or I was too sick to even make it in.

    So work and home was the best I could manage the first two years out. The next couple of years things began to settle down and has become largely what it will be for the remainder of my life. Bad days still happen and sometimes without notice, but you just take those days and remember where you were long ago.

    So, to summarize, 2-4 years recovery for me (But I'm the exception not the rule) and life is what it is. I took the hard road and certainly paid to have it paved.

    You've already said it - just takes time for the new bowel to figure out the new route, stuff has been removed that were important enough to be there in the 1st place, so when you take out key mechanisms, it stands to reason, that things will never be quite normal again - only what you can live with.

    The days will pass - just roll with it - Time will help to heal this up and you'll look back like me and think "How did I do that?"

    -Craig

    I love this part of Craig's
    I love this part of Craig's post: "Bad days still happen and sometimes without notice ..." It's so true.
  • Netgent
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    Buzzard said:

    There is another option.........
    VickiCo had the resection done only to become a prisoner in her own bathroom. She runs her own business but had enough good people to run hers for her until she made up her mind to have a colostomy and wear a bag. I think she has never looked back after she made her mind up to do it. It has given her her life back completely. I also have an ostomy and its a piece of cake......beats sittin in the bathroom all day.... its simply another option for you to think about...You don't have to be a prisoner any longer than you want to be, you just have to be adamant enough about wanting to free yourself to take the plunge...Ask her , Im sure shes around peeking in from time to time. She doesn't let much grass grow under her feet......

    Love and Hope, Buzz

    Looking forward to the experience
    This has been very interesting reading for me. I started the post on "local excision vs surgery". It is the complications that I fear, especially the ille which will be reversed 6 weeks after the surgery. I was diagnosed a few days after I retired and felt very sorry for myself. After meeting others at the treatment center, I realized how lucky I am. I am 62 so have lived a full life. My ability to trust the system needs improvement. I am scheduled for the surgery on March 2. I took care of my little grand-daughter (16 months) the other day and she reminded me why it is worth it. It helps to read about others' experiences. Thank you so much.
  • k1
    k1 Member Posts: 220 Member
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    Buzzard said:

    There is another option.........
    VickiCo had the resection done only to become a prisoner in her own bathroom. She runs her own business but had enough good people to run hers for her until she made up her mind to have a colostomy and wear a bag. I think she has never looked back after she made her mind up to do it. It has given her her life back completely. I also have an ostomy and its a piece of cake......beats sittin in the bathroom all day.... its simply another option for you to think about...You don't have to be a prisoner any longer than you want to be, you just have to be adamant enough about wanting to free yourself to take the plunge...Ask her , Im sure shes around peeking in from time to time. She doesn't let much grass grow under her feet......

    Love and Hope, Buzz

    Good way of putting it
    prisoner of the bathroom -- excellent choice of words to describe it!
  • maryjane
    maryjane Member Posts: 71
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    Sundanceh said:

    The Long and Winding Road
    Hi MJ

    My story is not anywhere close to anyone else's on this board - my experience with bowel resection is not typical.

    I had 25x of radiation in the rectum and surrounding areas before surgery, so I was already a mess prior to a "major surgery" as you elude to above.

    I was spared a colostomy as well and did not even get a temp, 'cause the margin was so small, I was afraid temp would turn to perm.

    I now know why they do "temps." Of course, after all that radiation and the major surgery, I never did get to "rest" my bowels at all - they just kept going and going and going - like the Engergizer Bunny. I too could not get too far away - I had to work though and there were days when I just had to leave it was so bad - or I was too sick to even make it in.

    So work and home was the best I could manage the first two years out. The next couple of years things began to settle down and has become largely what it will be for the remainder of my life. Bad days still happen and sometimes without notice, but you just take those days and remember where you were long ago.

    So, to summarize, 2-4 years recovery for me (But I'm the exception not the rule) and life is what it is. I took the hard road and certainly paid to have it paved.

    You've already said it - just takes time for the new bowel to figure out the new route, stuff has been removed that were important enough to be there in the 1st place, so when you take out key mechanisms, it stands to reason, that things will never be quite normal again - only what you can live with.

    The days will pass - just roll with it - Time will help to heal this up and you'll look back like me and think "How did I do that?"

    -Craig

    Thanks for your important feedback!
    Hi Craig...
    Your very honest communications are so valuable to me. I'd rather hear the TRUTH than have great expectations that I'll be exactly like I was 2 months after surgery. This is apparently a PROCESS...and sometimes time just drags. Hearing how you and others cope for a 2 year span is a total miracle to me. And..if you can do it--so can I. Thanks for giving me HOPE! I'm going to make every effort to be a little more patient--look for PROGRESS...NOT PERFECTION! Thanks!
    maryjane
  • maryjane
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    k1 said:

    Similar situation 4 months post op -- feeling discouraged
    Initially after my resection I seem to be healing like you would expect, with stools getting more solid each day. Escaped a bag by less than an inch of rectum in my surgery. Somewhere around week 4 post op all hell broke loose and I started having what you are describing only sometimes up to 20 or more bm per day, and ran lowgrade fevers at night. And these bm also hurt -- you didn't mention if there was pain or not. This week I am four months post op and no improvement in bm although having fevers less often. My doctor said also at my one month post op appointment this would get better in time... it hasn't.

    I was put on the Metamucil daily and also had to be put on iron supplements due to severe anemia. Was told both the Metamucil and the iron, as an added side effect, would "bulk up" my stools. Also tried to stop drinking with meals.

    At 8 weeks post op had a CT scan that showed inflammation and infection in places in my colon that had been clear before surgery. I took two weeks of Levaquin and Flagyl and by the end of those prescriptions I was feeling much, much better. Finally, I thought, life is getting back to normal, could eat things and only had two or three bm per day and they were more solid. I remember going out to eat and enjoying it during those 10 days.

    Exactly 10 days after finishing the antibiotics and living life somewhat normal bms for first time since surgery, it started all over again. My doc suspected C. Difficile infection and although I was tested three times for it the results were always negative. I'm getting ready to have another CT scan and not looking forward to it due to worry over too much radiation. Whenever the drs. deem it safe, another colonoscopy, to look for problems too. I would have had the ct scan last week but I was too sick with flu like symptoms and sinus infection to go there. Scar tissue, adhesions, obstruction have all been mentioned as possibilities.

    Yes, it's hard to travel anywhere like this and I have had to go into a public restroom for a long period and finally leave, only to have to go back in it seven or eight times before it was safe to leave the store. It makes you not want to go out at all. I once missed an important post op appointment with my oncologist due to being stricken on the freeway in traffic, having to get to an exit and go in a burger joint and being there so long with diarrhea and painful bms that my appointment time ticked away. I lost my job due to running out of leave and at this point with these problems wonder how I can even look for work.

    Due to the severe gastro distress I was having I could not get cleared to start chemo in January when I was supposed to start it. I was sent to a dietitian for consultation about three or four weeks ago and was put on a very low fiber diet. No vegetables, no fruits except canned peaches, white bread, white rice, nut butters and soy milk for protein (lactose intolerant to regular milk). No prunes, dried fruits etc. No nuts. This is all foreign to my way of eating since I have for years done whole grains and usually eat lots of fruits and a moderate amount of vegetables (usually raw).

    The diet helped only a little, but a little is better than nothing However, this week I had to go on antibiotics for a severe sinus infection, and I'm having a major colon blowout now and thinking about discontinuing the antibiotics (Clarithromycin) and have had probably 30 bouts of debilitating diarrhea just today. It makes me very weak and not wanting to eat at all. I lost 22 lbs. since surgery but am losing it at a slower rate now than I was at first.

    After four months I am wondering if this will ever end. This is the first time I have read the instructions on retraining the colon and appreciate the post. I will actually have to get over this blowout from antibiotics before I can try it.

    I am discouraged and depressed about this predicament, and at this point wondering if it's going to be permanent. At least I'm not running fevers as often. But I have very little energy. Thinking this might be lifelong is really depressing. Thinking I have to eat white bread long term is also depressing! If a healthy diet helps you heal, what is the result when you can't eat a healthy diet? The dietitian said don't worry about it for now, but I do.

    Thanks for sharing your experience...
    I really appreciated hearing YOUR STORY! So much of what you describe about your reactions emotionally to this predicament express my sentiments. Don't know how you handle 30 of these bouts--4-6 just about wiped me out. And, like you, I am afraid of over eating. I've been told to eat frequently but small amounts. Certain foods trigger these bouts and I'm learning what they are. I'm easily confused about information I get. My Dr told me to take Mirulux daily to relieve constipation but after 4-6 poops in a day--that doesn't sound like constipation to me. That was after eating a large bran muffin. I'm going to try and see a dietician that can give me specific meal plans. But--it is one huge dilema--staying healthy and being on these weird low fiber diets is so contradictory. I need CLARITY so will start gathering more information. Please keep me posted as you continue to move thru Recovery.
    maryjane
  • maryjane
    maryjane Member Posts: 71
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    k1 said:

    Similar situation 4 months post op -- feeling discouraged
    Initially after my resection I seem to be healing like you would expect, with stools getting more solid each day. Escaped a bag by less than an inch of rectum in my surgery. Somewhere around week 4 post op all hell broke loose and I started having what you are describing only sometimes up to 20 or more bm per day, and ran lowgrade fevers at night. And these bm also hurt -- you didn't mention if there was pain or not. This week I am four months post op and no improvement in bm although having fevers less often. My doctor said also at my one month post op appointment this would get better in time... it hasn't.

    I was put on the Metamucil daily and also had to be put on iron supplements due to severe anemia. Was told both the Metamucil and the iron, as an added side effect, would "bulk up" my stools. Also tried to stop drinking with meals.

    At 8 weeks post op had a CT scan that showed inflammation and infection in places in my colon that had been clear before surgery. I took two weeks of Levaquin and Flagyl and by the end of those prescriptions I was feeling much, much better. Finally, I thought, life is getting back to normal, could eat things and only had two or three bm per day and they were more solid. I remember going out to eat and enjoying it during those 10 days.

    Exactly 10 days after finishing the antibiotics and living life somewhat normal bms for first time since surgery, it started all over again. My doc suspected C. Difficile infection and although I was tested three times for it the results were always negative. I'm getting ready to have another CT scan and not looking forward to it due to worry over too much radiation. Whenever the drs. deem it safe, another colonoscopy, to look for problems too. I would have had the ct scan last week but I was too sick with flu like symptoms and sinus infection to go there. Scar tissue, adhesions, obstruction have all been mentioned as possibilities.

    Yes, it's hard to travel anywhere like this and I have had to go into a public restroom for a long period and finally leave, only to have to go back in it seven or eight times before it was safe to leave the store. It makes you not want to go out at all. I once missed an important post op appointment with my oncologist due to being stricken on the freeway in traffic, having to get to an exit and go in a burger joint and being there so long with diarrhea and painful bms that my appointment time ticked away. I lost my job due to running out of leave and at this point with these problems wonder how I can even look for work.

    Due to the severe gastro distress I was having I could not get cleared to start chemo in January when I was supposed to start it. I was sent to a dietitian for consultation about three or four weeks ago and was put on a very low fiber diet. No vegetables, no fruits except canned peaches, white bread, white rice, nut butters and soy milk for protein (lactose intolerant to regular milk). No prunes, dried fruits etc. No nuts. This is all foreign to my way of eating since I have for years done whole grains and usually eat lots of fruits and a moderate amount of vegetables (usually raw).

    The diet helped only a little, but a little is better than nothing However, this week I had to go on antibiotics for a severe sinus infection, and I'm having a major colon blowout now and thinking about discontinuing the antibiotics (Clarithromycin) and have had probably 30 bouts of debilitating diarrhea just today. It makes me very weak and not wanting to eat at all. I lost 22 lbs. since surgery but am losing it at a slower rate now than I was at first.

    After four months I am wondering if this will ever end. This is the first time I have read the instructions on retraining the colon and appreciate the post. I will actually have to get over this blowout from antibiotics before I can try it.

    I am discouraged and depressed about this predicament, and at this point wondering if it's going to be permanent. At least I'm not running fevers as often. But I have very little energy. Thinking this might be lifelong is really depressing. Thinking I have to eat white bread long term is also depressing! If a healthy diet helps you heal, what is the result when you can't eat a healthy diet? The dietitian said don't worry about it for now, but I do.

    Thanks for sharing your experience...
    I really appreciated hearing YOUR STORY! So much of what you describe about your reactions emotionally to this predicament express my sentiments. Don't know how you handle 30 of these bouts--4-6 just about wiped me out. And, like you, I am afraid of over eating. I've been told to eat frequently but small amounts. Certain foods trigger these bouts and I'm learning what they are. I'm easily confused about information I get. My Dr told me to take Mirulux daily to relieve constipation but after 4-6 poops in a day--that doesn't sound like constipation to me. That was after eating a large bran muffin. I'm going to try and see a dietician that can give me specific meal plans. But--it is one huge dilema--staying healthy and being on these weird low fiber diets is so contradictory. I need CLARITY so will start gathering more information. Please keep me posted as you continue to move thru Recovery.
    maryjane
  • 1survivor010
    1survivor010 Member Posts: 8
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    Your living my future life
    Hey, Mary Jane, Your living myfuture, I just had rectal surgery week before last and they remove 2/3 of rectum, 7 inches of colon sewed me back together, but gave me an ille, so things can heal in six weeks they will reverse ille, and i should beable to pooh out my rectum, doc said it would be often and unpreditable and i would have to learn my body all over again, like a child, i believe what your going thru is just what he was talking about, It sould even out as you heal and learn what to eat, what riggers bm, and when you have to go.
    please PM me your progress it would be nice to kind of know what lies ahead for me.
    Wishing you good pooh thoughts,
    Live, Laugh, Play
    Penny

    Having Reverse ileostomy march 3 Questions?
    Just wanted to know when to expect bowl to start working after surgery and how long to expect to be in the hospital?
    Dave
  • VickiCO
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    Buzzard said:

    There is another option.........
    VickiCo had the resection done only to become a prisoner in her own bathroom. She runs her own business but had enough good people to run hers for her until she made up her mind to have a colostomy and wear a bag. I think she has never looked back after she made her mind up to do it. It has given her her life back completely. I also have an ostomy and its a piece of cake......beats sittin in the bathroom all day.... its simply another option for you to think about...You don't have to be a prisoner any longer than you want to be, you just have to be adamant enough about wanting to free yourself to take the plunge...Ask her , Im sure shes around peeking in from time to time. She doesn't let much grass grow under her feet......

    Love and Hope, Buzz

    You are right Buzzard
    Sorry I haven't been on much - I travel and write and publish a lot, so I have been busy!

    Here's my story if it will help. I had the worst 9 months of my life after resection surgery. My tumor was only a couple of cm's inside my anus, so I lost almost all of my rectum and 12 inches of colon above that. Radiation damaged me so severely that I was unable to heal. Chemo added it's own issues. Then stenosis set in. Stenosis is the narrowing and hardening of the muscles of the colon. Finally my oncologist suggested I at least talk to my surgeon. The surgeon was very blunt...this was it. They could no longer expand the opening (I had two procedures for this, neither worked) I was literally trapped in my house, or wore Depends and changed them a LOT if I had to go out. I was sick, tired, miserable and couldn't do anything that I was used to. So, I opted for the colostomy. The BEST decision I have ever made, bar none!

    Since my ostomy surgery (Nov 11) I have my life back.I can travel, I can DRIVE MYSELF PLACES and not be on the lookout for the nearest restroom, I don't have any more pain (I lived on Vicidon for over a year prior to surgery.) It is a small inconvenience, such as learning what foods will trigger a blowout, or cause a lot of gas, but I could not be happier.

    If anyone wants to talk to me about it, just PM me. I am not always on the board, but the PM notifications come right to my email and I always check them out.

    Vicki
  • maryjane said:

    Thanks for sharing your experience...
    I really appreciated hearing YOUR STORY! So much of what you describe about your reactions emotionally to this predicament express my sentiments. Don't know how you handle 30 of these bouts--4-6 just about wiped me out. And, like you, I am afraid of over eating. I've been told to eat frequently but small amounts. Certain foods trigger these bouts and I'm learning what they are. I'm easily confused about information I get. My Dr told me to take Mirulux daily to relieve constipation but after 4-6 poops in a day--that doesn't sound like constipation to me. That was after eating a large bran muffin. I'm going to try and see a dietician that can give me specific meal plans. But--it is one huge dilema--staying healthy and being on these weird low fiber diets is so contradictory. I need CLARITY so will start gathering more information. Please keep me posted as you continue to move thru Recovery.
    maryjane

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  • RectalCancerSurvivor
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    Frequent BMs after Ileostomy reversal in Feb 2010
    I had surgery to remove tumor in Sep 2009 and I had a temporary bag (ileostomy) until it was reversed in Feb 2010. After surgery in Sep 2009, I did not notice any change in my bowels because of ileostomy. I had to clean the bag every two hours or so during the day time and a couple of times at night. That was an inconvenience but I was able to work full time. I was truly happy when the ileostomy was reversed and I no longer had the bag. At first, I had about 12 - 14 bowel movements a day. I followed the bowel management as outlined by Annette Bisanz of M.D. Anderson and it slowed down. I am now taking one teaspoon of Metamucil twice a day but I am still going about 6 - 8 times a day. I am able to work full time and I am able to go out with my family but I have to know the location of the closest restroom. I can identify with a lot of posts in this forum. I will follow Annette Bisanz's plan of bowel training to reduce the frequency to 3 times a day. I will keep you posted.
  • greybeard64
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    Crow71 said:

    I love this part of Craig's
    I love this part of Craig's post: "Bad days still happen and sometimes without notice ..." It's so true.

    one'ers
    Before all of this I was what a home health nurse refered to as "a one'er" I had a BM every morning like clockwork right after my first cup of coffee. Well those days are long gone. The idea of re learning your body is so true. As so many have stated it varies person to person but you will find a "pattern" and things will slow down. I remember thinking I was never going to be able to get more then 20 feet from a bathroom and going to someone elses house...no way!! It takes time, quite awhile for me, but now I can generally tell how things are going to "GO" so to speak.
    Once again Craig hit the nail on the head "Bad days still happen and sometimes without notice" When they come as he stated remember where you where.
    Take it easy and to use a bad pun "THIS TO SHALL PASS"
    Good Luck to you.
    greybeard