Jan 23, 2010 - 10:55 am
Hi, I have serveral post on the following topics, but only a little response. I don't know if cervical cancer patients don't want to talk about it or what. My life has change so much since my treatment,and it seems that No one is hearing me.. I don't have a sex drive, I have put on a lot of weight. My menapause systems are worst then ever.I have talk to a lot of Drs.and they all just tell me to live with it. but the devil is a liar! I'm tired of feeling like this. I have join support groups but they all talk about breast cancer...where are the cervical cancer people at? I have even sign up for chat but when i go on I can't find no cervical cancer patients to talk to. I Even tried to e-mail some of u guys. but can't,don't know why it will not let us e-mail each other. I feel like am the only one. but I know i'm not. I have read so many stories on this website. and i feel for everyone. but I need to know if someone is feeling the same way that I feel and what are you guys doing about it? I know that I might sound angry, its because I am. I have been living with this for 3 years, and no one wants to talk about,sex, weight gain, menapause, unblance of hormones.
what do we suppose to eat? to keep the weight off. I have tried so many things and learned since i don't have any hormones its hard for me to lost weight. sex, wow...didn't know that was going to stop Completely. I have used all creams dilators and even seen a sex therpist but nothing. hot flashes what the Hell!! this is a nightmare. I don't want to do the HRT. because i just got over all the radation and chemo why do i want to go back. tried all the herds, soy,veggies. but my hot flashes are still here.
Can we all talk about it please.